I thought that providers who have a page dedicated to hygiene expectations on their personal websites were childish. I used to think that any respectable man is a clean person and doesn't need to be told to shower, brush, and smell presentable.
Guys, where is your mind at when you are going to meet a lady. Isn't this stuff part of your every day routine even if you aren't going to meet someone?
...doesn't mean it's a priority for everyone! I find this out almost daily, as I'm walking about and catch a whiff of BO from someone 15 paces from me (yes, I'm blessed AND cursed with an extremely sensitive sniffer).
It's that DEEP stank that comes from not bathing regularly, not using deodorant on a daily basis and not changing clothing often enough. It's not so much the smell, it's the BURNING in the eyes!
Maybe its me and some curse that someone has placed over me. I have terrible experiences with meeting guys who are dressed impeccably just to lean in for a kiss an be blown away by the powerful stench of a month's worth of meals lingering in their mouth. Jesus Christ my experience yesterday was the last straw.
I don't feel its my place teach proper etiquette to other people but lord I need to carry mouthwash and gum with me. Actually no, that makes it worse. I once asked someone to go brush and the scent of menthol and spoiled onions made me vomit. I had to leave and that was the last time he heard from me.
I watch and notice some people's standards of what constitutes "clean" is different from others, so understandably some women spell out what levels of cleanliness is acceptable to them.
Unfortunately, I had to witness some guys who think stepping in and out the shower while tapping the bar of soap a few times is enough to be *clean* so I get it.
Take a shower before and after a session, but I never wash my moustache after a session. It's actually good for business. The lingering aroma of pussy makes me smile so I'm always in a good mood with clients.
Hygiene is extremely important to me and it should be that way for the guy to. I am always prim and proper. At times prior to even meeting the person as a first time date I will email or text to make sure to be all fresh and clean. I find that some men just don't really read my website or read past the important stuff.
If you mean there are some people that don't find it necessary to keep their personal hygiene up I agree with you, that's nasty, but to call out men specifically is BS. If I had a dollar for every woman I've been with that had foul smelling cleavage sweat, a fishy smelling vajajay, bad breath or nappy hair I'd be rich. Skipping the toothbrush or the shower isn't gender specific.
Men don't get the chance to list their expectations and have to pay hundreds of dollars to have a similar experience to what you described. I don't have any issues with your topic but it's directed at only those with a penis I'd say your off the mark. It goes both ways believe me
I agree. Be clean or don't be seen. I am always freshly showered and manicured before a visit. When going to an incall on hot AZ days I still like to freshen up when I arrive. With that being said, I visited a lady recently at her incall. Upon arriving I asked to rinse off quick. She was happy to hear me want to. But I noticed the shower was dry and had a pretty good idea i was in the middle of some of her back to back visits. Not cool. From now on I will be requesting that all visits begin and end with both of us showering. If they can't handle that, then I won't be visiting.
You would be surprised at how many guys dont use a wash cloth with soap when they shower and there is no fucking way that ass and balls (not in that order) are going to get clean with out using a soapy wash cloth. Too many guys just take a 5 minute shower and do a half-assed job of washing their underarms with just their hands and shower gel. I've seen enough guys shower while I was in the Army. To make things worse, some cultures still think that daily showering will make you sick. I feel sorry for providers ...
I shower before I show up an then shower there just to get the "drive funk" off me. I usually don't even set an appointment if I have to drive more than an hour an she doesn't have a shower. Also walk in just after finishing a mint.
I have experienced a lot of people booking me who have no experience whatsoever with booking a companion. My etiquette page is for them. New encounters can be nerve wrecking and in my experience, the more information people have, the smoother the experience for both of us.
I have always had a high standard of personal hygiene. I wont even run to the convenience store without showering and I get a tightness in my chest and break out in a cold sweat when I start to get low on my signature fragrance, Hanae Mori. I always keep an extra deodorant and bottle of HM at home. I keep a small shaving kit in my car with personal grooming essentials just in case I am away from home for more than 10, 12 hours, and thats not because I am a hobbyist, thats just me
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