Where are you all???  You are my kryptonite…. The young ones that seem to believe they are worth $$$$ and non GFE are taking over… The Colombians…. The Brazilians…. Where are the old school ladies????  What’s going on out here?  Covid not only has ruined a lot of things but its seems to have put a label of entitlement with these price gouges.  

Yup, Inflation/COVID seems to have wrecked the fabric of civil society.  I reached out to a younger, non-AAMP provider who I'd seen a few times pre-COVID; told her that I was glad to see her back .. she replied with a snippy, "stop wasting my time" and blocked me.

Hi!

I consider myself a mature MILF & am a top rated VIP companion. I have great reviews. Check me out! Unfortunately, some fellas are chasing unicorns…

As “Rockstar” as you are… Pre-covid your caliber might have been $500-$600 but a G-note???  C’mon everyone is pricing themselves out the door.  Am I looking for a discount? NO.   Am I looking for a bargain?  NO.   But, I used to be “That guy” that would partake 2-3 time a month… I was “somewhat” talked about in the community…. Not anymore, instead of spreading the wealth. I’m expected to blow my whole budget on one “maybe”???

This board was throbbing with info, laughter and banter.  It really is no more.  I don’t see the old school names anymore. They pop in and out. Covid and the bottom feeders have ruined every thing.  The bottom feeder’s are $600 on up.

twice but never booked an appt in all of the years I have been touring Illinois. Just toured Suburbs of Illinois last month.
What I will also say from a provider standpoint Covid has made more than a few guys in to timewasters. Seems while sitting on their couch they have perfected their timewasting by continuous messages and never a legit booking.
I appreciate the gents who are really serious and is looking for a great time with reputable ladies at all rate ranges.
So not sure what the problem is. But there are many mature providers in Illinois that are not 1k
My .02

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Finding anyone.  Your posts make you sound like a raging lunatic.  

I'm getting back into the swing of things from a long break, nevertheless, have I lost my touch of being an elegant sexy classy provider with integrity spunk, and freakiness.  It just comes naturally to me.

privilege and entitlement once prevalent only among the new guard is getting worse and continues to spread. The bad behavior is reeking and others are noticing.

I'm in Sunnyvale Ca though, but I'm exactly the lady you described.  We're out here 😘

While back a provider on twitter said that "clients need to learn that not even a kiss is guaranteed and should lower their expectations of what would happen during a date".

Hi there, I’m a provider, I was several years out of the game, I’m returning to play, and I was just looking how is everything now… I’m located in florida… many many girls overhere, I can tell you can find low girls for I can see in their ads, and upscale ladies, many of them (general) looks to me like their don’t guarantee the quality of their date, maybe I can be wrong, but that what looks to me… I think the good clients need to make good homework to try to find those providers that are really worth it.

I’ve lost count of the number of threads lamenting how bad things have gotten in P4P. Really?

I keep reading how hobby in old days was better, how old TER was better, etc etc etc.  Just usual OLD PEOPLE talking.  Basically if you are talking about good old days - you are old 😂😂😂

Who Help Themselves

I'm old enough to remember the bad old days before there was a TER, or even the internet.

I get that YMMV on one thing or another, but on everything?  

whose menu selection is quite extensive; except that kissing - even a peck on the lips - is verboten.

A Cy is just a Cy.

I have been around a long time too! I have not been $500hr, since 2008. I already had a two hour minimum of $1,500 before Covid. I started that 2 hour minimum back in 2016. I think your rambling & venting about many personal issues you have with providers.

I know plenty of old folks that are a pleasure to be around. I think that miserable old people used to miserable young people, maybe they just didn't know it yet.

Folks we need to face some facts.  When COVID hit, a number of providers retired, especially the older ones.  Made perfectly good sense.  One of the truisms of pandemics is there is always a labor shortage afterward.   Fewer providers, more demand, simple economics.  It will take a few more years for things to settle out.  Yes, there are some rip-off girls out there, but there are far more ladies (notice the different term) who provide good service for what the market will bare.  They are, after all, in business.

The times have made it even worse with prior favorites of providers who are 10 years older now. I tried to reconnect with a few providers I had seen over 7 or 10 years ago. Which had great sessions. Now one doesn't do GFE anymore, all Covered it seems, and just does FBSM. And then ghosted me when I asked about how her services changed and the prices increased by 40% for the same time with less services. Ungrateful, and claimed she didn't remember me, after I had given her a 9/9  about eight years ago and also got a p411 ok from her too back then, now all she gets are 7/6, 5/5, because she's just pushing the fbms with covered now and getting the horny crowd on pri-vate de-lights in quantity and numerable vague reviews there (rather than detailed like here on TER) rather than this dead TER traffic site anymore.

They know  how to treat a man. Many still have awesome  boobs  too, despite  being classified as cougars.

I am almost 43, but I don't advertise as a MILF because I never had kids, so I guess I think that would be false advertising? I don't deal with deposits and/or cancelation fees as to me it just seems like more hassle than it is worth. In my 11 years as a provider I have had maybe 10 NCNS and I just don't book with them again, not worth the headache. I keep my donation requests low because I despise negotiating and prefer to spend my time doing what I like with gents I enjoy spending my time with. Of course it is a business and every provider is going to run it the way they see fit, but I prioritize what is important to me and don't waste my time on the other mumbo jumbo.

SnakePliskken
Your MILF is in Absecon, NJ. Text me at (609) 892-3172

The quality of providers has gone down so have the clients in some regard. We exist but I don't know how many people take kindly to demands. Now if you had suggested an area then I could understand but there are so many times wasters I'm not at all surprised she didn't want to do the back and forth with you. I don't know if it's a provider issue maybe more of a personality conflict. Me personally, the fact you keep mentioning the "Columbian" girls would be a red flag to me. It doesn't seem nice and I prefer to hang out with gentlemen who respect others regardless of their nationality. This is only my perspective as a provider not fact, so don't come for me. lol. Maybe try booking a longer appointment so your "pops" aren't an issue.

I saw your website…

Hi All,
I took a long break during Covid and am just starting to ease back into things. I have always enjoyed reading the discussion boards and now is no exception. The OG's are out here. You just have to do your homework and the planets will align. In the 7-8 years Ive been a FBSM girl I have never asked for a deposit and never had a no show. I get how much research you guys do on your end to try to find the perfect fit for the desired experience you are looking for. Its nice to see some of my favorite posters like Mr. Fisher and Jaydalee. I find comfort in the familiar. I am sometimes surprised when I respond to a gentleman even if I am unavailable, and he expresses such surprise and gratitude. I just treat others like I want to be treated.This is a People business and  Communication is key. I think the younger SW are spoiled a bit by the groundwork we ALL have created in this industry, and since the younger generation basically has lost the ability to communicate effectively other than short hand text messages it just appears rude. At the end of the day we all seek authentic connection and don't want to feel like the meter is running or that the experience is transactional.

The plea should be to these idiots who accept this behavior.  Some of these providers are getting bolder and bolder, I have even come across some ads where providers are asking for deposits/booking fees separate from the hourly rate.  Separate as in the deposit is not a part of the rate.  FOH

Some have retired but still quite a few  mature ladies with excellent reputation/reviews. I see some have replied to your comments. Mature women are beautiful lovers,  who know how to  treat a man - some of the best dates I ever had.