And you want to help her. Talking around some problems your having with somebody? That's what it sounds like. You offended somebody so it has to be one of her "female problem?"

First, you're a client, not a lover. If you want to be a more sympathetic to her: pay what you're supposed to pay, show up when you've agreed to show up. Don't make freebie demands on her time. Don't be a complete jerk to her. Lo and behold! The menopause troubles disappear. If they don't, go on to someone else. You're a client not an endocrinologist.

You're not talking PMS here. Don't jump to the conclusion that it's "female problems" till you check your face in the mirror for signs that it looks too much like an asshole.

Re: Escort menopause

As opposed to escort burn out.

How do you maintain the excitement... etc....

Honey the mark of a professional is you will never know if it's an act or not... giggle.

And the only time I've gotten publically upset was a few weeks ago when a gentleman (and I use the term losely) from THIS SITE, who I've dated for over a year, blew me off on a long planned date, as I was walking out the door.

And I love it when someone enjoys my company enough to want to see that I have a good time too, without acting.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

but there are many times when I think I am  going through mental-pause.

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I can remember my Mom going through menopause... it was NOT easy for her.  My ex is at the age where she too is experiencing some issues... and I find it interesting that she will discuss them with me - but not her hubby- guess I am like "one of the girls now!" lol

These are good questions, and I am sure that the answers will vary from lady to lady.  As to me?  I have a couple of older 'stripper' friends who are desparate for companionship, a feeling that they are still attractive (and indeed they are) but are almost obcessed with looks and clientelle....   Men who cannot get it around their heads that ladies, in or out, of the sex business wish to be at their best appearance - and wish to be somewhat desired....  

I suspect that even with differences in the ladies that a common theme... will be the desire to be viewed as a lady, feminine and desired.  

Back to my mom.... my dad and I had a great relationship - and he did tell me that once Menopause was out of the way, his sex life with my mom, was as good as ever...  but they were exceptional people.