Okay help me with this. I joined a workout center about 6 months ago. I do weights, swim and some light treadmill.

I usually workout in the late afternoons consequently I usually see familiar faces in and around the center.

Here is where it all goes wrong for me.

After my workout I usually take a shower. There is a hot tub/spa on the way to the shower and it is not unusual to see the same five or six guys in the tub just having a great old chat. Now mind you, they are all nude and sitting in the tub together. We're not talking about a huge tub here. I would say six adult men is the absolute limit and then you would almost have to be touching feet.

What is wrong with this picture? The last time I shared a bath with a guy was when I was a kid at home and had four brothers.

Gay or not Gay?

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Me and the guys have noticed you, you lookie loo, you.  There's always room for number 7.  Just mind your toes.

. . . they don't look down, they're not.

However, if their. . . you know. . . members are long enough to touch, they might want to join an on-line support group:

you have uncovered a terrorist cell meeting place.

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how insecure are Spa Queen?
It's just a hot tub for Chrissakes
now if one guy is bending over the edge while another guys has his nose buried in his crack - that would be gay.

If their hands are above water, they are prob not, if their hands are not visible, chances are they ae cock grabbing. You should really get in with them and that way you will find out, then you can tell us. Oh yeah,watch out for toe to crotch action. Remember if you don't want to be touched just say no or excuse yourself politely, do not carry a loaded weapon into the spa, it can get rusted, however loaded cocks are ok. In that case don't be suprised if the one who touched you later approaches you and asks if you would like to meet his sister. In some towns, like Los Angeles, girls have trouble finding a straight guy!

a provider... and as a part of my routine, I like to give Mr. Happy and the boys a close shave.... yup, I shave in the shower (which is a common open shower - no stalls!).  Talk about looks.... and being green is no help either....

but I do tend to draw attention to the subset of me, which might make some think me gay! lol!  but hey, someof them shave their heads... some blow snot in the shower, Me, I think I am kinda clean with the shaving... so it is no biggie...  

lol!  the last health club I belonged to had a common hot tub for both men and women.... that was nice... as it seemed to be the local meat market....

would I think it gay to be in the tub with naked guys.?  not anymore gay that in if they were nude and in the steam room or sauna

Why does it matter?

Are you wanting to ask one of them out and it would be easier if you knew he was gay before doing so?
That's the only reason I think it could possibly matter if the guys in the hot tub are gay or not.

The thing about their feet touching in the hot tub confuses me a bit as well...I don't have a huge amount of knowledge about gay male sex...but I don't think incidental touching of bare feet is one of the biggies.

I really would like to know why it matters if six guys at your gym might be gay and keep it to themselves, and why their presence at your gym makes it "all go wrong for you".