unless the two providers are girlfriends. The awkwardness comes from having to change the condom every time you want to switch partners. I have been with girlfriends (lovers) where that wasn't the case. It was awesome, except for that little voice in the back of my head telling me they would have had more fun without me. lol

Chemistry plays a really big role.

Here's a real life story that sounds like Playboy BS, but I swear it is true.

I have a long term UTR favorite whom I'd go see at her home.  One time I when was over there, there was another gal doing house cleaning for her.  I am not sure exactly what it was, but I suddenly had the hots for the maid, and I asked my favorite about her.  Turns out she was a long time gal pal of hers who needed a job, so she started a house cleaning business and my UTR gal gave her a gig doing her house.  I expressed my sexual longing towards her and she admitted she also had such urges (Being really bi.) so she asked me if I wanted her to set up a three-way the next time I came over, and I unhesitatingly said yes.

Thus ensued several years of hands-down the best 3-way sex I can ever remember.  Everything from the chemistry to the choreography was perfect.

On the other hand, I've gone and seen gals who offered 3-ways which were nothing but tag team matches, and they did very little for me.

Sometimes one plus two equals more than 3, and sometimes less than three

add that to the fact that some guys are clueless and can't even tell, and other guys like me who are simply too selfish to even care and you have your answer.

I had a GF once who most definitely did NOT like threesomes, but she worked at an agency an probably had to do a session with another girl about once a week. She most definitely was not into it and like the chick you were with would most definitely not make out with any girl, but somehow still got decent reviews.  

Speaking for myself, bi-sexuality/bi-curiosity is not important at all to me, nor is "Just" the presence of two hot bodies. What makes it great to me is two hot women making it "all about me" Yes, I am quite the selfish prick. Although I will confess, my very best threesome was my first one at about 18 of age with a very bi couple of very bi European "hippy girls" in Germany. Lots of hash and a couple of hits of acid were involved and it lasted basically a whole weekend and this was well before any of us used condoms as this was in the pre AIDS era, it was one of the most surreal sexual experiences I've ever had. but now I will settle for two women that make it all about me instead.

It can be awkward no matter who is or isn't bisexual or whether or not they're attracted to one another.

Physical, sexual chemistry is a weird, tricky thing.  

And some people are amazing actors.  Seriously.  

 
Lemme give you a couple of examples: a regular wanted to do a 3some with me and his other ATF who very publicly says she's bisexual and offers duos with a couple of her friends.  She and I had never met but we emailed and she sounded really excited and up for anything.  Great!    
But then once we were in person she laid down the ground rules as to what was and wasn't allowed; these rules didn't allow for what I would have liked to do and killed all spontaneity IMO.  
So it was like a big bucket of ice-water being dumped all over me.  I played along, let her take the lead as she'd made it very clear this was her show.... and our client had a great time.  I felt very awkward and weird during our time together, but he didn't sense anything amiss and asked to repeat.  

 
I've also played with women who claim to be bisexual but in reality only take a passive role.  This has happened to me both in P4P and in the swinger world, so it's not just specific to this realm.  They'll agree to the FMF but then once things get started? She doesn't kiss back, or does so only very lightly, and simply lays back while the other lady plays with her, licks her pussy, etc etc etc.  
Very often, they will admit in private that they're not actually bi but just doing it for the client, her husband/BF or whatever.  
In these situations, if often seemed like the only one who felt awkward with it was me.    

 
I'm extremely hesitant to offer duos with another provider these days, because I've just had too many scenarios that I wouldn't want to repeat.   Unless the guy says he doesn't want any girl/girl action, that all he wants is to be the center of attention..... yeah, the lady and I would have to already be comfy with one another prior to my agreeing to it.

On a side note, I recently agreed to a M/F duo situation and I'm excited to see how that goes.  
Concerns about awkwardness will still be there, though, as I don't think there's any surefire way to completely eliminate that possibility prior to playing.  

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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit

Have read about and can understand a lack of synergy being the bucket of ice water Nooner refers to.

I just experienced one with two of the hottest providers anywhere. There was electricity in the bath tub as we all enjoyed and shared a smoking hottt oral extravaganza  ... the women were amazing

...and one on one with me they could never really fake it, tho some are better actresses than others. The only way I will (eventually) have a FFF as a playdate will be with a provider that I have already seen, and having her choose the other provider. I trust that any provider that I really enjoyed would select someone who was truly bi and very VERY into it.

Don't take it personal. Some people are so G4P that's so transparent.  

Some people meet for coffee with potential duo partners to talk things over and see if there's chemistry before venturing in offering duos together. Some people argue they don't have time for it, but if you treat escorting as a business, treat it as an investment.

The 3some I did with you (hopefully the one you mention ) was SO hot.. I may never do another.. nothing can ever come close again. But it was lucky chemistry for all of us, I suspect.

I have done 2 others.  One not so great... the girls weren't truly bi. The other was excellent but couldn't come close to what I experienced a month ago. I keep thinking about it and that's a problem too.. lightning in a bottle.. we could do it again with the same other person and it may not measure up to that day.. so I consider myself lucky that it was so wonderful but would never count on something like that again.

As far as I'm concerned....

if the two gals aren't into one another and playing with each other with the same vigor as they are playing with me, I'd rather pass.  

I don't really want it to be "all about me" - or all about any one person in the threesome for that matter. All of us should be into each other and doing our damndest to please each other.  

If there is no serious sexual interaction between the gals, what is the point? I'd just as soon see the two gals separately.  

I'll tell you, IMHO even the term "duo" is on the wrong track. It is a "threesome". Three equal partners, all doing their best to blow one another's minds - jumping in, not stepping back. Taking a role, not waiting for instructions.  

I've had one or two amaziing experiences with threesomes, but most - most have been "meh". In every case, it is the interaction between the gals that produces one or the other result (for me, anyway).

There's only one provider I'll go all the way lesbian with, only because I know she's not a trash bag, very clean nice pussy yummy! Safe girl.  

 and contemplating a second but still thinking about it.  

If she doesn't go full lesbian, we both go down on each other and make out passionately I can't have a duo with her.  

You have to have that chemistry cus acting alone doesn't cut it.  

The sex part where we must fuck the guy, of course we use a diff condom, but we do it in a way that the guy can't even tell the process is happening, he's too busy distracted by the other girl

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I prefer to focus on one lady

Though I tend to be a DATY fanatic, and a taste sampler group might be of interest.

I'm going to try again at some point, for the next one I plan to see someone who has advertised duos with another specific provider, and has written other things that make me pretty sure she's into this other female.

That said I con't even be sure there will be chemistry between just myself and someone else, sometimes you just have to take a leap and see what happens.

provider to play. She gave me a choice of two and I choose door #1. It was an absolute blast.