it beats me why some gals sign up for a duo when they are not even into other females ...yes you want to make money, but not at the cost of creating awkward atmosphere for other parties involved

unless the two providers are girlfriends. The awkwardness comes from having to change the condom every time you want to switch partners. I have been with girlfriends (lovers) where that wasn't the case. It was awesome, except for that little voice in the back of my head telling me they would have had more fun without me. lol

Chemistry plays a really big role.

add that to the fact that some guys are clueless and can't even tell, and other guys like me who are simply too selfish to even care and you have your answer.

It can be awkward no matter who is or isn't bisexual or whether or not they're attracted to one another.

Have read about and can understand a lack of synergy being the bucket of ice water Nooner refers to.

...and one on one with me they could never really fake it, tho some are better actresses than others. The only way I will (eventually) have a FFF as a playdate will be with a provider that I have already seen, and having her choose the other provider. I trust that any provider that I really enjoyed would select someone who was truly bi and very VERY into it.

Don't take it personal. Some people are so G4P that's so transparent.  

I still feel ripped off though, do you remember what they used to say about LSD, that you would get flashbacks as long as twenty years later? Well I took that to mean a virtual "two for one" sale, but it's been well over twenty years since I have dropped any acid and still no flashbacks. I was promised flashbacks and I want my GD flashbacks. lol

Why would you care if they like men? As long as they like women you are good to go, right?

You remembered the event! and the acid. You're old now,
flashbacks are in b+w ...

Well of course I'd strongly prefer if they were full on lesbian. And although there are genuine lesbian providers out there, there are way more truly bisexual ones, so I'll settle for just boring old bisexual.  

Great comment about pre meeting before committing to a session.

Just the other day a guy told me he could get acid. I said why would I want acid?

The 3some I did with you (hopefully the one you mention ) was SO hot.. I may never do another.. nothing can ever come close again. But it was lucky chemistry for all of us, I suspect.

Well there are several reasons, the main one being that a lesbian provider obviously loves women and will no doubt know how to please them in ways that even a bisexual woman might not. Now that is not a guarantee, of course. I have been with some very talented bi ladies, but there is something (both physically and psychologically) that a lesbian would bring to the table for me. I also would know that I'm not going to have to wonder before our date if she is truly into women like I might think about when I book with a bisexual gal. I have been pretty successful so far with bi providers, but many providers list themselves as bi here in TER in order to qualify for a higher score or the first client to fill in her profile gets it wrong. It's a roll of the dice sometimes. But I can usually get a good feel from a provider based on either her pro-women website or how she replies to my email inquiry about her clientele preferences.

From the opposite perspective of course. Bi women are not a "turn on" to me. They are not a turn off either, but I've been with bi women who most definitely preferred women and it was a bit of a turn off to me as I knew that try as I might, I would always be second best in their minds.

I know that's not gonna happen in my case.  But I don't care if a provider loves being with her SO or girlfriend or some other mongers more than me.  What's important to me is that she gives me the feeling that I'm #1 in her mind while I'm with her.  Although if it's a threesome, I don't mind if she gives me and the other provider equal attention.    

if the two gals aren't into one another and playing with each other with the same vigor as they are playing with me, I'd rather pass.  

thank you

I agree 100%.. I describe as three people enjoying each other.. and certainly the 3some I did with Octavia was exactly that.. as far as I was concerned.. all committed to the other two.. not the two girls focused only on me..

I have the best  doubles partner  EVAH

There's only one provider I'll go all the way lesbian with, only because I know she's not a trash bag, very clean nice pussy yummy! Safe girl.  

I just realized you're a girl lol :*

Sounds like exactly what I look for in a 3some.  Also, I agree the condom change 'problem' is completely overblown and, speaking for myself, has never been an issue whatsoever.  

Though I tend to be a DATY fanatic, and a taste sampler group might be of interest.

Having recently met Christie and Octavia being someone who I would love to see, the two of them together would be a mind blowing experience to be treasured!!! How to get those stars to line up?  
Lucky man josulli!!!

provider to play. She gave me a choice of two and I choose door #1. It was an absolute blast.

We were promised flying cars, and they're nowhere to be found, either. And 30+ years later, I can safely say that the promise of flashbacks was a lie.