I read a review of a provider recently who really got off on being spanked. I've read about guys liking it, too.

(((spank)))

But because it's yours it's OK.  Unless your kink involves non-consensual or under-age sex I won't judge it.  So don't judge others'.
PS:  And don't try to spank me unless you want your ass kicked.

Even hair pulling...! I wouldn't necessarily say that there is a direct relationship between father figure issues and spanking but when done right and at the right time, it actually feels good and naughty.

Obviously, if I were "them", I would know. But I'm one of "those", not "them", so I'm asking

Oh, I've got kinks for sure. Food. Exhibitionism. All sorts of stuff.

.And the fact that some men are into something, while others are into other things..To each is own...

Read this.

No, I'm asking about spanking. Why are you giving me such a hard time about an innocent question?

What is your problem?

Why does CPA uhm I mean some people like to tie ladies up and use clothespins on them? Why do some guys like to get fucked up the ass?
People like different things dude. If it ain't your thing, don't worry about it.

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You can spank her and she can really think / analyze why she likes it. You'd probably have some pretty hot sex after you two figure it out lol.

I have no real interest in exhibitionism...why?  I don't know but it's not something that interests me.

in the actual question, your whole premise was "why someone likes a certain act". And its a faulty premise because the hobby is personal to everyone. Like nick said.. As long as you are not hurting anyone w/o their consent or doing anything with underage women, ITS ALL GOOD.

Now he can. I can too. The way you handled those two providers was dumb!

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LOL!
Just kidding!

There is no premise to a question.  

I agree that as long as you're not harming someone, to each his own. Maybe I don't get it and I won't join you, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it. I applaud and respect anyone who accepts their own desires and has the confidence to explore them without judging himself even. That's why we're all on here right? To take the bull by the horns and explore and enjoy what will do it for us personally.  

But where does it say that the premise can't be implied one...

Not worried about it, just curious.

The question was "Why do some people like to be spanked?"

Oh really?

She's really hot hot hot. Great role player. Total package

place to 'experiment' here. This is what this world is about. If you have an SO, it's not going to happen with her, let's be honest here. You have nothing to be shy or worried about. You are a perfect example of a gentleman curious enough to take the reigns and see what's out there that could take you somewhere perhaps you've only dreamed of or not dreamed of. Maybe you can muster up the gaul to actually ask and your wishes may be granted even if you don't know what those wishes are (just yet).  

You haven't insulted my mother yet.

Sure, why not? I'll try just about anything.  

Assuming you meant "handled", and "hadbled" isn't a new slang term used here I don't know about.

Well, took a little longer than that lol.

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And I give you credit for playing along and not getting all asshurt on this board when your thread doesn't go the way you expected.
I think Curly is looking for your Mom's reviews before he comes back

I started experimenting in my 20's. Getting a BJ in the dressing room at a mens clothing store (pretty sure the clerks knew what was going on).  Having intercourse on the grounds of a police station at night, about 100 feet from the street. Stuff like that.

horses patoot hahahaha. You just did a 180 on me mister...where in the hell did that stuff just come from hahaha. Ok, I humbly retract my added thoughts to this thread. You may stricken me from the record. I musta missed something, but I swear, I read the posts for the most part haha.  

Sorry I gave the impression of being Mr. Straight and Narrow. Did all sorts of things sexual, did pretty much every drug there is, spent a lot of time in squad cars and police stations, drank enough for four people over a 40 year period, and have been pretty much a screw-up.

This is one post of yours I can definitely agree on.  

I think that underlying most BDSM is a subconscious way of acting out power relationships and self image.  Perhaps instinctual left over from our evolutionary tribal ape lineage.  Maybe part of that for the "bottom" is something about "I'm not good enough to attract her/him but she/he will like me if I let them have their way with me." Or in other cases maybe it's a way for some folk to say "Right now I can stop trying to be strong and I can give in to the luxury of letting someone else win."  When I was very young I had a girlfriend who craved to be spanked with a 12-inch ruler; never figured out why except maybe as above.  When I offered to spank my next girlfriend she asked me if I was nuts.....  Bottom line is its like the answer to "what's jazz" - if you have to ask, you won't understand.  But you still can wonder.  Not sure why some replies jump on the OP.  I didn't take his question as derogatory or judgmental

can of worms here lol. I don't like worms......ewwww.  

Not with everyone of course but it's very hot. The ass is a mystery.

I love to spank naughty boys & girls too!

Because this wouldn't be TER without such replies.

Belt, back of hand...I had enough spanking, thank you.

typing your feelings the correct way. So it come across as you intended. It can be tricky .

In the instances in which I enjoyed it, the guys succeeded in getting me into kind of an alternate mindset...and, they knew how to do it so that it smarted just a bit, but not too much. Oddly, it felt...good. There's an art to such things.