level of comfort that its not a sting/LE.
Funny stuff, huh...lol

First of all, I'm not clear if you're a man or a woman.  At one point you write "I love older men."  Then you end it by saying, "for this guy anyway."  Oh, well, I guess it doesn't matter.
On to the post itself.  First of all, it's more than just African-American providers who say up front they don't see black men.  And that's a shame, because I know several outstanding black mongers who the ladies absolutely love.  But it's also true that some providers (including those of AA background) have bad experiences with AA men, generally younger ones.  So they don't see them.
Then there are the K-girls who refuse to see Korean men because they may be from the same community and blow their secret identity.  And on and on.  Everyone has a reason that makes sense to them.  And the reasons don't all come from racial prejudice.  If someone won't see you for any reason, don't bother asking why, just move on.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Personally I am more concerned about a gents hygiene and whether he is polite rather than his race. As a black female I have met gents of all races and think that's part of the fun of being a provider.

Some ladies will however have their preferences and I have no issues with that. It could be because they are scared they will meet some one from their personal life or maybe even just have had a bad experience with a certain type of person. Tis there call I guess although I think there are subtle and more tactile ways of phrasing things.

Ah well, at least gents of certain races know to stay away from a certain provider rather than book a date and be turned away.

It was while back. A DC hobbyist posted something about it and there was some chatter...

Bottom line is women have choice to see whichever nationality/race/religion they want to see or not want to see..

When I contact them, I always tell them that I am the guy from "Avatar", and ask them politely if its OK with them..



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As long as....

...they don't start advertising "no guys of average length but well-above average width" I am cool with whatever stipulations they wish.

Once they DO start advertising that, though, you will see a rant the likes of which you will never see again!

Women can have their preferences and we can have ours.

Don't accuse it's always a racist thing, as in the women are self-loathing of their own race.

Sometimes it's a legitimate reason.  Russian girls often won't see Russian guys because the community here in NYC is very small.  Word could easily get out that some Russian girl who lives down the street is escorting.

I don't have ANY problem with the wording of these ads.  We could just as easily put out an ad seeking someone and saying, "No fat girls, and no ugly girls."

It's not an even playing field.  They are supplying sex; we are paying for it.  Different rules, because you are on different sides of the transaction.

Analysis of every damn thing leads to stupidity in epidemic proportions. There is way too much analysis in the so called civilized world which is methodically leading to uncivilized. There is too much PC in the so called civilized world which is methodically killing truth and facts.

I like women in general that does not mean I am going to bed with all of them neither would you (I hope).