Would you rather have an average sized flaccid penis  or an average sized really hard penis. I ask because I saw a lady recently and she complained that my penis was really hard and it made her really uncomfortable. I ended the session early because it  appeared to me that it was really uncomfortable for her.

you know, for each woman that says "you're too hard!!!", you will find 99 saying "give to me baby...harder!!!"

Don't sweat...move on to another hottie.

If a penis is too  big it hurts.  If it's average - whatever that means - then it shouldn't hurt unless the lady has a tiny pussy.  In which case, I send her my sympathies for pleasures lost

Vaginas were designed for certain biological purposes and are therefore made to cope with different sizes.

That said, I'd rather have a small one than a porn star type member.   No matter the size, I always work my hips to make sure my pleasure buttons are pressed. But with a huge penis I'd be in pain and would have to stop.

When I'm really into it, my rod is like blue steel hard (average size, I think), and I've never had any complaints, only some funny comments from the ladies about how hard it gets. Sometimes after the first pop it still stays up, like a kickstand or something. No blue pills either, damn thing has a mind of its own.

NSF

Some girls are just not built to take it. It is nice to have a nice tight pussy but sometimes they don't exercise there kagel muscles enough to handle the penis properly.

Although I always try to give erotic pleasure to my partner, my own is important too.  I really enjoy full penetration, but it seems that much of the time that's uncomfortable for the woman.  Since I try to defer to her desires I back off, but that's disappointing to me.  Is there any way to find out, before we agree to sexual activity, how much she can really handle.  A direct question to a woman about her ability to handle my size (and I'm not really huge) always gets a positive reply. It's once we get started that they have different feelings.

No matter how large, there are many positions that work so it's not painful and the pleasure is maintained by both....


Except.......I don't think any position would work for this one......kisses and hugs Terri

i have a really thick dick and havent met anyone that couldnt or wouldnt handle it

I have to find an excuse to start traveling there.

...I take it anyway I get it, I love em all!!! Personally, rock hard feels best in my pussy, placid in my mouth, since I dont feel like I may scratch with my teeth, and soft is a challenge, and I looove a challenge! Besides, rock hard, placid, kinda soft... it all feels good in the end when its just throbbing from that really great orgasm that you helps bring about-- that the best for me, I feel like I have accomplished something great... but then again, I am a pleaser-type...

Dani

-- Modified on 2/27/2006 4:33:28 PM

From a personal point of view, I like the way you think.

Just my opinion...
B

Sex is much easier when the penis is hard, sweetie. The only thing that can be more enjoyable (at times) when a man is slightly soft is oral. You can fit so much more into the mouth while trying new techniques. But then it's awesome when it gets hard from it, too.

Hugs,
Ciara

If not, you may want to consider breaking the edges!!!

I heard from a few providers that they prefer a hard dick in a midium size than a medium hard in a large size.

You need to cum see me I have so many things I could do with one of those right now. Yummy. Hard is better than soft any day. For that matter I want the sex a little hard too-grrrrrr! Spank me!

Looking forward to that!!!!!
Maybe will cum your way???

kisses
Terri

Having just recently had my first "Carrie Experience", I can attest to the veracity of her post. I'm just now recovering a few days later and awesomely anticipating my next encounter! All buttons were pushed and a wonderful time was had by all.