Reviews are everywhere, but I’m curious how often they genuinely change someone’s decision. A lot of people say they read them “just in case,” while already knowing who they’re going to book.

Almost always. I'm particular in what I'm looking for in a lady and I'll usually find out through reviews what she offers or likes to do. 😘😘

Im always making my appointments based solely on reviews.

If their allowed activities (kissing, bbbj) don’t match my desires, will pass.  I also check the reviews to make sure they’re not fatter than advertised, though some reviewers are very generous on rating looks.

These days I either get a recommendation from a monger friend (basically a word of mouth review that isn't public)  or read public reviews to get the ball rolling.

She's much heavier,  older...
She didn't allow...
...was an extra cost...

When Did Reviews Actually Influence Your Choice?

Pics get me to look while reviews get me to book!

Almost always. Why invest good money on a woman with numerous believable reviews. I sometimes check the reviewers and see if bad reviews are their pattern.

1.  No reviews on TER = hard pass
2.  TER reviews that don’t jibe with what I’m looking for in exchange for my $$$ = hard pass

When I see a bad review I will probably pass.  Too many choices in Vegas.   I just move in to the next one with only good reviews.    On the other hand.  If she has a lot of great reviews and one bad one I will probably try her out.   But maybe not until she is the last option

...i mostly just ensure they exist and are legit, meaning they are from a bunch of veteran hobbyists.  

Reviews drive most of my choices - in fact if there are no reviews on a provider I find online than I have rarely ever booked them if they're not on TER.  I've found most of my fellow mongers do write pretty accurate reviews, however I always read a few of the best, medium and worst reviews for a provider and try to average out what the "reality" might be - I've rarely been disappointed.  Everyone has different types/turn-ons so I understand that what may be a 9 rating for one might only be a 7 for someone else either because of looks/performance and/or the experience - so detail is always important.  The other thing I check is to see who my fellow mongers in my area have been with, I find many of them have also been with the same women I have had in past and I'll compare what they've rated these girls vs. what I rated - I find if we're rating more/less the same than I can trust their reviews are even more in line with what I'm looking for.  The more details on face/body the better, I'm an assman and for whatever reasons most reviewers seem to neglect this - I get most guys want big tits, I like them too, but I'll take an A cup with a great ass and pretty face over a DD cup with a flat ass.   I wish TER would actually list this as a body attribute along with weight in their profile questions of the provider.

Outside of reviews, the only thing a client has to go on is the information that is curated and set out by the provider - it is just advertising. I would love that truth in advertising was the norm, but we all know it is not.  

When they mention bbfs

with a provider is in some ways unique, I don't use reviews to select providers, I use reviews to screen OUT the ones that I don't think are a good fit (no pun intended) for me.  I'm willing to take a chance on providers who may not great reviews, but offer solid service and a menu of activities that I like.  For example, I prefer GFE-only providers, so those offering BBFS are an automatic pass for me and therefore screen themselves out of consideration.

This is very similar to how I would use reviews for screening. For example, if a potential client consistently wrote about rough PSE style activities, bbfs, and/or a disrespectful attitude, I would pass on seeing them. This style of session might work for some girls, but it does not for me, and we would both be miserable, which is not fair to either party.

I read the fantasy reviews to see if we maybe compatible.

I usually wait until a new provider has sufficient reviews that I can throw out the fakes and get a good idea of what to expect. It could be only a few reviews from trusted mongers or a few more if I don’t see a few reviews that sound legitimate. I may also eliminate a girl from consideration if more than one review raises similar red flags. I rely pretty heavily on TER to make the go/no-go decision, so if a provider is not reviewed here, my odds of seeing her drop considerably.

With Tryst and a few other sights being totally worthless and full of scammers  I am happy to pay for TER VIP as I have for years. For me its about the time and opportunity to meet a great girl. There is nothing worse than blowing a block of free time for some provider who is not what she claims to be. TER is the best for the eastern USA, as you move into the central US and west other pages are better. I hope TER can gain market share in other areas. Ter reviews are the best indication of who you are going to meet    

Whenever multiple reviews state bbfs is available, she goes on my tdl.  

Why would this bother you?

I don't care about the sex part, since I can't relate to it. What I really want to know is if for her incall is if she was ready on time, is she in an area that is fairly easy to find, is parking available, if the session was at her hotel do you need a keycard for the elevator, etc. Pretty mundane details that will make my visit less stressful if I know them in advance. Just the facts, ma'am 😜

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I have to take a majority of reviews with a grain of salt, mainly because of the way they are written, and because of things that are excluded from the review.