Sometimes, you have to take the L. Especially, weeks later. If you turned around before paying, that’s how you win. But once you moved forward, you’re SOL. You’d be nuts to risk demanding your money back or causing any kind of scene. A lady like that is likely to out crazy you.

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I mean, it's hard to gauge degree of high/crazy. Depending on the amount of money paid and degree of her being BSC, I'd either drop it or try to ask for it. I don't necessarily think it leads to LE inolvement if you ask politely but very firmly and mean business.  

And Nicky is right, a review will at least warn others that this can happen.

Take the U-turn and bounce, if you're worried about the money you need to do a revaluation on this hobby.

I am glad you’re safe. No injuries. I am very sorry that happened to you. It sounds, like she’s dangerous. Please sharing is caring. I want to know, so I stay far away from her. Smoking weed is one thing, but doing K requires serious supervision. She sounds, like a nightmare.

To be honest I would ask for a refund, or partial payment due to the circumstances. Time is something you can never get back. I am sure you feel cheated. Her actions are totally unprofessional. Get high on your own time not when you’re on the clock. I would never smoke weed during a date without permission. The majority of my friends are 420 friendly. It’s rude to indulge around others who do not smoke.

Being drunk is horrible. I have had to babysit a few of my dates in the past it’s never fun. I have mastered the formula by always drinking water and staying hydrated. You can not drink alcohol without drinking waters it never works out. The older I get the harder it is to bounce back the next day, so it’s really important to care about your body and health.

Touring is tiring alone no drugs or alcohol needed.  

I’ve watched many providers participate in their own self destruction. Unless, someone calls them out they never get help. A few will choose to continue and never get better ❤️‍🩹 it’s unfortunate.  

Creating lives and being the only active parent makes be a responsible & respectable individual. Live & learn. I pray she gets some help. As a Mother I have empathy.  

Sending you virtual love & positive energy! Hug 🤗

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How was the sex?  How much was the fee?

Well......you could consider calling the Chicago Police and filing a Theft Charge against her.......that would probably work for you !

Lick your wounds and leave without causing a ruckus, because you never know what a person in that state of mind might do when confronted. The last thing you want is a headline like "Police respond to fight between escort and customer". As another poster has suggested, write a review.

leave an appropriate review

she is well reviewed on here, is she not?

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You just discovered one of the unknows of this realm.  If you paid  and started the session, you are out of luck without risking a shitshow of a scene for trying to get a refund.
I met with one well-reviewed lady, who I realized too late, was drunk (it was OBVIOUS she had been drinking a lot).  I finished the session, and then wrote an honest review  She made a bunch of threats after seeing the review on here.  Thankfully she did not have my RL info or who knows where it would have gone.