"2. whether he's trying to negotiate my rates"

Is that something a hobbyist with TER reviews would do, or guys looking for phone chat?

I just had an inquiry for the ladies...what reasons are there that would make you not want to provide your services to a hobbyist?

For me, it would be a couple of things:
1. age/ maturity
2. whether he's trying to negotiate my rates
3. if I've met up with him before and his B.O. greeted me waaaaay before he did..lol

Any other reasons? Im just curious...

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Unfortunately, yes.  It's a big, fat warning sign, so if some joker tries to haggle with you avoid the asshole like dogshit on the sidewalk.

And TER hobbyists who frequently post should know better, but you don't have to take an intelligence test to be a member.

I am curious about your #1.   Do you have an age range you prefer.   I am 57 and I have often wondered what lady in her twenties must think when I turn up on her doorstep.   I put my picture in my P411 profile to set the expectation, and I always check to see if my age is an issue before I make an appointment.

I see both older and young providers and age is not a problem for me in my tastes but I have often wondered how the other side feels.

I am about your age and wondered that myself.  To this point I have seen ladies as young as 21 and as old as 35.  Majority have been 25-30 and have had no problem taking my money more than once.
The 21 year old was one of the most passionate lovers.........I would also reveal my age just so there are not surprises.

Stay thirsty my friend..........

I have regulars I've known for YEARS who STILL try to haggle my rates. The levels of stupidity, crassness, and ignorance will never fail to astound you should you decide to become a provider. LOL

Well, as for the age thing,  Im more of a PSE provider who's very energetic so age isnt really an issue as long as he's able to keep up with me..ummm....and also able to keep "it" up.

Re: oh wow, with all that knowledge, you must be a provider eom

Lol..he could probably teach some of us a thing or two

Complaining about having to wear condom before the serious adult fun begins, insists on free things not included in the donation in the middle of a session, acts fussy or offended if I ask him if he needs to freshen up or to freshen up, wants to kiss after he smoked before coming in to see me, etc

1. rotten teeth/hygiene

2. if they are a breaker of my rules

3. haggling

4. disrespect and

5. no couth.