How many of you guys are married vs single?

but feeling of belonging to the right person gives you natural high  
it is awesome, feels like a drug

as like Jake, I can't stand the term.

passed away eight years ago, and I was suddenly an eligible bachelor, I was deluged with civvie women wanting to tie me down, which was a giant turn-off.  A friend suggested I try this hobby lifestyle to tide me over until I was emotionally ready for another relationship.  Once I got into it, I decided this was not something to merely tide me over, but was an acceptable lifestyle that fit well with the rest of my professional and social life.  The benefits that I value the most are 1) sex is always on my schedule, when I want it, and not at all if I don't, 2) low-maintenance relationships with "regulars" that I can also date on the outside if I want to, but don't have to, 3) variety (within reason - I try not to be too much of a slut), 4) no commitment beyond the hour(s) I have booked, and 5) very little drama.  

Now why would you do that? LOL!

is "TRY".  Its an ongoing battle for me NOT to be a slut.  I still have a slight puritanical craving for respectability even though I am probably a lost cause.

Actually, I almost relieved myself in my khakis.

and then married to a former provider.

And Hobbying allows me to not have a desire or need for a traditional relationship.  

a husband, maybe a girl who sucks would fix that?

I was married for 20 years & divorced 2x. Marriage is a full time job...I suppose that makes me lazy because I just don't have time for it. I was a young mother, so once the kids got grown & I turned 40 I decided I was going to fuck off & fuck around. I've always been very independent, I enjoy living alone and doing what I want, when I want to do it.  So this hobby was a good fit for me. I have always seen this as a life style choice vs a profession.

It seems as though you've carved out a slice of drama-free heaven, and I'm sure lots of people would be envious of that. I have loved and been loved as a result of this profession and, other than the fact that the men I have become close to have been married, it has yielded very similar results.

A guy like me.  I love it.

The hobby has made me feel less pressured to be in a relationship. The whole emotional aspects of a "traditional" relationship cannot be substituted for in any way, but the physical aspects can be a major killer in a relationship, especially if the woman wants sex only once a week, lays in the missionary position, and is not interested in trying something new. That is why you try the milk before you buy a cow or at least try to milk the cow. Plus there is the whole hassle of dating when you are single. It is called a game for a reason, and the game always feels rigged. After my first time with a service provider, I felt both great and like a total sucker. Great that I had an incredible sexual experience with a beautiful woman, and like a sucker for having spent copious amounts of money on dating for just a kiss on the cheek good night, when I could have saved some of the money for escorts. The older I get, the less time I have to waste on possibles, and maybes, and empty promises. Plus the pool of datable women grows shallow.

During the first 20-25 years of my hobbying career, I was married. I think the hobby made sex constantly fresh with my wife. Always trying new things I had learned. Interesting - on the day I got married, my father said to my wife "Give him a long leash."  

I tried googling the Fancy8888 to English language translation site, but .....alas, nothing.  
Still, I love your posts, girl!!!  Keep em coming!

Single.  

Everything you said is right on.

Then see how important snuggling is.

As Luke Skywalker said to Emperor Palpatine, "I'll never betray snuggling

Or even after a few years, it's your own fault for not trying hard enough to spice things up.

but I bet after having sex with you a few hundred times, I bet I would get tired of fucking even the likes of you. OK, in your case it might take several hundred times. lol but my point remains.

LOL.  

I can lie to everyone else in the world, but I have to be honest with myself. and to tell the truth me getting married again would most likely be a horrible mistake, even if she was as hot as you. At some point I almost certainly would get bored, and I am NOT a cheater, so why get married knowing that I will only be causing both of us misery at some point.

I like your "style" - wish you were closer to N