After reading the responses to my two questions about marriage and the lack of sex I am more convinced than ever that a theory I have held for years is true: It is God's SUPREME joke on us to make men and women attracted to each other.  Think about it, if life were easy for us down here He would be out of a job.  Most people turn to God only in times of crises, so He is toying with us and stirring up trouble by making men attracted to women.

The solution is GO THE WAY OF THE GAY.  Men should be attracted to men and women to women.  It only makes sense.  Then men can be together, rut like dogs in heat, never have to answer the question "does this outfit make me look fat" and if they cheat, far from making the partner jealous the question would be "hey, can we have a 3 way?"

On the other hand the women can shop together, do crafts together, raise kids together (that were "fathered" through a sperm bank,)wear ugly long flannel nightgowns to bed and never again have to worry about sex.  Sounds like a good solution to me  LOL  What do you say?

Regular Gal (a dyed in the wool hetero and divorced Gal.)

Well, somewhere I had heard that the most recent numbers of those going to the 'gay side' are just that: men and women who've found dissatisfaction in hetero lifestyles, mostly 40+ in age, and figured why not?
For me, being single is what works, and I'm all for 'whatever works'...

Plus All The hobbiests in The world!!

"the women can shop together, do crafts together, raise kids together (that were "fathered" through a sperm bank,)wear ugly long flannel nightgowns to bed and never again have to worry about sex"

You would still need a man to kill spiders and move heavy stuff.

But who is going to mow the lawn, clean up after the dog and keep the sofa firmly rooted to the ground with his hands down his pants?

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I'd much rather be at it like a dog in heat and having threesomes than doing any of the 'women' things suggested!  God forbid!  lol

and you forgot my fave - 'fix things'.
LOL

It would be a waste of such incredible beauty if you were to go male.

That way is no way a solution is it?  Not all guys get along terribly well just because they're guys, & it's for damn sure not all gals get along either.

Seriously, I've known two different couples very well who were into that lifesytle..one a gay relationship & the other lesbian.  They were subject to the very same factors many marriages are..including, with those couples at least, the expectation of fidelity.  The things that make for a good hetero relationship still apply to same-sex ones, & the same things that spoil one will spoil the other.

It is also the honorable one.