I made an appointment to see K again! She is eastern european. This was the forth time I had seen in the last four weeks. Every time for two hours! I am a decent looking guy always dress nice and in good shape! She is 8 years younger than me. She has been in this business for only two months (thats what she said but who knows)...I really enjoyed talking to her every time I saw her. At times she made me said. Her body I would say on a scale of 1-10 is a 7 and she is very pretty!

Okay, while I was driving I felt that seeing her probably is not the right thing to do anymore because we had talked alot and the problem is I had started to get to know her! When I git there and we started talking I suddenly said "if I see you again ....." then she asked "What do you mean....". I said nothing really you never know what happens tomorrow. While we were talking and drinking wine I started to think for a second "What am I doing here???, this is really wrong,...." and for a second i felt she feels the same way. We had talked for about 4o minutes. Then the phone rang! It was one of her friends. I was in the living room, she went to the bedroom to talk to her friend on her cell phone!

I put the money on the living room table and waited for her. She was on the phone for about 10-15 minutes.  When she returned she said she has bad news and something has come up and she cant see me tonight! I said thats fine! She said take your money. I said no its okay but she really insisted and handed me the money!

MY QUESTION IS how many of the you gals would have done what she did????

There is more to this story. I may post a part 2 based on the answers!

Thanks

If you are paying a provider for a particular service (ie sex) and it's not delivered then of course she should return the money as she's not kept her end of the deal.

well.... what would i do in that situation..

a weekly regular... 40 minutes of a 2 hour session...

i would take a 100 for my time and ask you to take the rest back...

but then.. if you insisted... i would go ahead and keep it.. cause its alllllllll about making you happy...

next week... i would most likely offer you 2 hours for the price of 1... =) and then back to normal.. =)

...what the "problem" is?  I must be missing something, because nothing here sounded too "out of whack" from my perspective....

BJ, Palm Beach, Florida
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IMO, answering the phone during a session, is just plain RUDE, and WRONG. Since she was the one that canceled and not you, your are intitled to take your money with you when she's showing you the door. You wouldn't pay for an oil change that your Mechanic DIDN'T do, would you..??? Sweetie, get your head out of the clouds, this Provider has no consideration for your time, or your feelings. Find someone that enjoys your company, as much as you enjoy hers and have a wonderful, erotic, sensual experience and forget this one, negative drama. You deserve better....Kisses & licks, Robyn

Once again, Silky is right.  The hitch is the phone call.  If she really is two months into this, she'll find that out soon enough.  Hopefully she'll care.

I would agree, though, with the other points... she cancelled, no pops were made, she should do the gracious thing and return the funds.  Otherwise, it sounds like you have a good relationship with this provider.  I've been known to hold my clients over time for 3 hours just talking away, or going for a walk, etc.  It's not about the money.  LOL  The time=money isn't the thing; it's the connection.  A lot of clients just need someone to listen and dump a huge wad of stress, not just physical, but personal as well.  Lover/Buddy/Shrink... the combination to GFE.  It's the next better thing to having sex with your bartender!  LOL

You might suggest the phone is a BIG no-no during appointments.  You've reserved the time for her without interruption, she should have the same time reserved just for you, too.  This is hugely annoying, but at least it wasn't ringing every 5 minutes throughout your conversation time.

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Answering the phone during a session, is rude and wrong.  Silky is right on the money,you do deserve better....

Indigo

I had this happen to me. I assume that the phone was not the number that she gives to clients. Fortunately, the call didn't come at a bad time and wasn't a problem. Obviously, there was the potential for a call coming at just the wrong moment even though it didn't. I'm not sure it is reasonable to expect a lady not to answer her cell phone when it is the babysitter trying to reach her.

Perhaps, checking the caller ID would be exceptable if a Provider has children, but I feel that during a clients time with me, he is my employer. I don't know many jobs that feel that taking personal calls, during working hours, is exceptable behavior. Why do you feel, if your paying for a service, you don't deserve that Providers undivided attention...?? Not only DIDN'T he get it, he didn't even get an explaination for why he was being shown the door...!!! Sorry....Unexceptable behavior...IMO, Peace, Robyn

And I mean a *real* emergency pager.  It's exactly for this reason I carry a pager which is strictly an emergency contact number only for medical emergencies, and the number is only given to those who are caregivers (school, babysitter, etc.).

That way, when the clock starts ticking, the phone goes off, the pager is in the purse.  If the pager goes off, it's time for everything in the world to stop, including my heart!  For $10.00/month, it's worth it (both for my reputation and my client's investment) not to have to stop a session to just look for the caller ID on the phone that rings every 10 minutes....

BJ, Palm Beach, Florida
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