Does anyone find that a well done handjob can feel as good if not better than a bbbj?  The visual and sound of a bbbj are great but sometimes a lady's pretty little manicured hand working my cock is great as well.

No way does a HJ feel like or is better than a BBBJ. Even a lousy BBBJ is better than a HJ. A friend and I see the same provider. (not at the same time). He always sees her for a HJ only. Never has FS with her. I told him for every two HJ's he gets from her he could get a BBBJ. He seems to enjoy getting HJ's from her. To each his own.

that can see over our stomachs without having to sit up, it can be a stunning visual if done slowly and sensuously.

At the non-GFE AMPs, BBBJ is not an option. And, I don't always like or finish well with CBJ. In that case, the HJ ending from a talented hostess can be electrifying. Some have kept the buzz going and going and going. Wow.  

Ceteris paribus I prefer BJs. The best blow job will always beat the best hand job. However, not all BJs are that great. If I instruct the lady how to properly stroke me (and that's me in particular, not a random john), it can easily be better than a BJ.

A great hand job is wonderful - so is a great BJ.  Variety is good!

... BLS on the side!

Sadly, the HJ is not accorded much respect, and therefore it is a skill that is fading.  This is one plus of a MP gal because HJs are their stock in trade, same with tantra gals.

The deep throat is a very nice touch

I normally enjoy a BJ a thousand times more than a HJ, BUT on those days that I have a lot of sex, sometimes finishing even with a  BBBJ is impossible for me, and the only way for me to finish is with the skin on skin contact of a  HJ, often with a lot of DFK and breast groping etc going on at the same time.

I think BBBJ/HJ/CIM is the perfect climax. Unless a provider was so hot I spontaneously came from looking at her, or something.

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an awesome hj along with constant bls until I exploded. Her mouth never left the boys. It was a great release. She didn't allow cim, but what she was doing felt so good that I stayed with it. Would rather of had bbbjcim though.

Because I give myself the best HJ ever.  I see providers for BBBJ and sex.  If she uses a hand while going down, thats OK, but there"s gotta be a mouth involved there.  As far as CBJ... no thanks.  I gave that up as a bad time years ago.

I can totally understand why some guys think a HJ is nothing special. Because there is such a thing a crappy HJ and a lot of girls just don't get it, or care.  
   
But, for those of us who are intuitive and *really* enjoy giving that kind of pleasure, it is nothing short of mind blowing.  

One of my regs gives what must be the best damn handjob in the universe. There's just something about her technique, she knows so well what she's doing and how to handle it perfectly. It feels great. I can never enjoy it enough because I'm worried about coming too quickly

Fingers and palm can't do what a talented tongue can do. And never met a hj that can recreate a deep throat, besides how can one even come close to comparing how great a good looking woman looks with a cock in her mouth?

There's an option for a HJ with prostate massage.  

I loved HJs on long road trips. My prude wife was no way on the BJ but eventually  I  could get her to milk me. Really made a long drive better.

is DATY. DATY with a vibrator providing prostate stimulation and a well done HJ is great and if you both climax at the same time...that is beyond pure magic.