All reviews are supposedly screened. TER should reject reviews with that kind of personal info.
Reading some other places, woman are complaining and rightfully so that clients are revealing either to or about ladies incall locations.
Obviously you'd want to tell folks she lives in the ghetto with her baby behind a curtain and three sketchy dudes outside bla bla bla, but why is it that you feel the need to either state in a review for everyone to see that she lives in the complex next to the Wendy's on 3rd street? Or you can't miss it, the big White House with the purple and green doors in the talktoomuch section of STFU Heights already right off Main Street.
Or your lovei dovie with her, you decide to say hey, you know the happy hooker across the street? Here's her website and reviews, she lives right there next to you, that's soooo funny don't you think? NO! If I were meant to know her real identity she would tell me.
I understand you want to express you actually saw her but don't you think the fact that she screened you, didn't give you her address until you done the whole cloak and dager go here first call me from under the tree on the left side of the hill with the white x. For all of the descretion you seek and all the secrecy you desire, why give out her info so freely and in the open forums?
How would you feel if after she got your screening info and saw you, posted that, name, number, address, board handles and anything else she knows in an open forum for anyone to see?
I'm sure your aware LE have access to this board, why are you helping them track her down and maybe catch yourself the next time your visiting, they have everything but the actual address, unless of course you back channel those too.
Just wondering why this is not one of those things that you would see as a violation of trust and play? People always say the neighbor told the neighbor called, I'm sure they want you to keep thinking that, how dumb would it be for them to write in the sting report, yea we read the reviews and some dude told us exactly where to look.
The logical solution would be to avoid a static in call location. I never see ladies who work out of an apartment and the stuff you are complaining about is exactly the reason why. It's not the escort that I'm worried about, it's the morons who visit and seem to forget that we are all involved in something that is against the law.
Although the lady has complete control over this becoming an issue.
Don't work from home...Problem solved..
No. Problem not solved. Many providers rent an apartment for their incalls to save money while still protecting their home. But burning such an incall is still stupid, dangerous, and inconsiderate.
Guys want all this anonymity but have no qualms giving out info on a lady publicly. I don't know how many guys would feel, who have had hookers at their home, those hookers revealing a "monger lives at this address" for everyone to see.
I don't fish the river, when I want to eat chicken. 
How come many others are so blind to this? I thought it was common sense, but as they say sense is not common.
Away from their actual residence, as BM57 called it a static in call location.
Don't have a static in call location, this way it can never be burned
Of our hard earned money on hotels and risk staff dobbing you in or the cops making deals with hotels.
And there are idiots who mention the hotels hookers use for the cops to go pay them a visit to set up stings.
I see you don't have any reviews...so why worry
Oh wait a second, that's all you see next to my name as well. Never mind. lol
How the heck are you? I have missed seeing you on here lately.
big surprise, right?
I do find it amusing how guys want the ladies "honest" opinion, right up until it disagrees with what they want to hear. lmao
And a good time fucking!
I spent at least half my time with just one "chica", and was not my usual "Man whore" lol
The bad news is that she wants to introduce me to her "familia" I've already spoken to her mother over the phone, I think I may end up with a "novia" if I am not careful, and then I would have to come on here with some kind of "I've fallen down and I can't get up" post for all of you to laugh at. lol
your ManWhore card
This has been fun, but I've got to go. I promised to take a hooker friend of mine out to lunch. I know it will surprise some here that hookers actually have lunch, and don't just hang in the closet like bats waiting for the phone to ring. lmao
Have fun ya'll
Did you fail to miss my point of taking a proactive approach as well?
...and I did say, that it was stupid for a reviewer to give detailed info of an in call location.
You claimed that JAI has nothing to worry about because she has no reviews. Did it ever occur to you that she may indeed have reviews under her "real" hooker name, and that this could be very relevant to her?
Just saying, think before you post.
and FWIW, you were far from the stupidest poster on this thread. It reall does appear that many of our bretheren have huge problems understanding simple English. The idiot blaming the ladies for the stupid shit that guys post in reviews was by far the dumbest, you weren't even in the same league. Does that make you feel better??? lmao
I can only converse with a handle by the way it appears on the screen
Heehee! Love me some Gambler posts! Fascinated by "Larger than Life" personalities. Haven't you written your memoirs yet?
I happily volunteer to "ghost-write" any time you're ready.
Oh...almost forgot, you're obviously too busy living, to sit around yammering about it. Sigh....
I do seem to find a lot of time to post on TER. lol
but unlike some people here, I do try to have a life off of TER. Good thing it only takes a few seconds to pop off a post here "whilst" doing other things
Hey damnit! I've cut back lol.
out your in call location, via reviews.
to the best of my knowledge Justanillusion, has never been reviewed on this site.
I fail to see how this in any way could effect you...care to enlighten?
justanillusion is like an alias. I have nothing linked to it. I prefer it that way.
I just sensed some animosity in your replies. Perhaps I was sensing something that was not there?
It should be a mix of both. I have never only used "ONE" incall location for any period of time. I had 3 when I was active in Nola, and already arranged a shared location with a provider in Florida for when I move. It's a huge building too, so good luck finding the exact one or proving it when these are time shares and not homes lol. Even the front desk at many of these places has no clue who is staying in those units. I was trying to find my parents at a condo a while back when they did not call me for 2 days, and could not do it. Called the property, and they were like "Sorry, but if your parents rented through so and so, that's not in our system."
Time shares are way better to use than hotels, and at times...even cheaper. For around 200 a night, you get two FULL bedrooms and bathrooms, full kitchen, living, dining, all utensils, washer/dryer, and a balcony if you're in the beach area. I can't ever see staying in a one or two room hotel ever again, having to deal with freaking maids, bs, noise, etc. when I can have a condo at the same damn price.
You should also be low volume if you're going the route of only using the same location, and never switching up. It's just too easy to network with other providers and share the rent, so you guys can rotate locations, not to go that route.
If they do that, it takes them longer to prep, and adds hotel costs to their expenses. Burning incalls drives their cost up, for zero gain. Their location does not need to be in the reviews. Just provide a rough idea so people can estimate drive time, and say whether it is clean, safe area, has easy parking, how discrete, etc.
re-read all my posts in this thread.
Hotels can cost up to 600-700 during peak times. Most girls I knew worked out of their apartments, as did I. I was able to be much lower-volume. I never had to worry about hotel check-in times (it's hard to check in before 2pm or even 3pm) and I was able to accommodate same-day appts. I think it also made my regulars more likely to book with me...I was easy. They knew exactly where I was, that it was a comfortable location, etc. So there's definitely a place for it.
I agree with you in general, tho. I wouldn't do it again...I wouldn't live and work in NYC again. While things ended up fine, it really is very risky. Also, I rely upon escorting much less than before, and so try to avoid having fixed costs associated w/this business....cuts down on my flexibility.
It's a dumb and dumber mistake and something more calculating. General descriptions are what gents need (upscale hotel, clean place, decent neighborhood with parking). A description too specific is actually a bit worrisome and would give me pause to consider seeing the lady for the reasons you articulated.
blabbed a more specific description, it can impact her business. As if we don;t have enough to deal with already. Sheesh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We can only control what we can control. And risk is risk, his fault, her fault nobody's fault. its not fair, but it is what it is.
This should be legit grounds for a problem ticket to TER, and IMO the reviewer should be sanctioned.
I think the specificity depends on the neighborhood or city. In big cities, the street name might not reveal anything useful, but in smaller cities or suburbs, even giving the city name may be like waving a flag for local LE to set up a sting.
Obviously you'd want to tell folks she lives in the ghetto with her baby behind a curtain and three sketchy dudes outside bla bla bla, but why is it that you feel the need to either state in a review for everyone to see that she lives in the complex next to the Wendy's on 3rd street? Or you can't miss it, the big White House with the purple and green doors in the talktoomuch section of STFU Heights already right off Main Street.
Or your lovei dovie with her, you decide to say hey, you know the happy hooker across the street? Here's her website and reviews, she lives right there next to you, that's soooo funny don't you think? NO! If I were meant to know her real identity she would tell me.
I understand you want to express you actually saw her but don't you think the fact that she screened you, didn't give you her address until you done the whole cloak and dager go here first call me from under the tree on the left side of the hill with the white x. For all of the descretion you seek and all the secrecy you desire, why give out her info so freely and in the open forums?
How would you feel if after she got your screening info and saw you, posted that, name, number, address, board handles and anything else she knows in an open forum for anyone to see?
I'm sure your aware LE have access to this board, why are you helping them track her down and maybe catch yourself the next time your visiting, they have everything but the actual address, unless of course you back channel those too.
Just wondering why this is not one of those things that you would see as a violation of trust and play? People always say the neighbor told the neighbor called, I'm sure they want you to keep thinking that, how dumb would it be for them to write in the sting report, yea we read the reviews and some dude told us exactly where to look.
1. Some people have not learned to keep their mouths shut
2. Some people are clueless about managing their mouth (yes there is book on the subject)
3. Some people like to boast
4. Some people does not know how to keep a secret
5. Some people publish theirs and others private information willingly and voluntarily (reason for social networks exist to monetize people).
No, these folks will never change the only thing you can do is to identify them and not allow them to have any information you want to keep private.
TER usually doesn't allow reviews to give up too much personal info, (but sometimes it gets by them) As for other sites, some don't give a shit. I have read reviews on other sites where not only the building name, but the apartment number was given! WTF??
When I see TMI in a TER review, I file a problem report.
No it's not me, just some banter on another board around here
The other thing that bugs me re LE reading this board is when, on a local board, a touring provider asks for hotels and guys post the names of hotels they've used on the public board instead of PMing her. I mean, why not just put a neon sign on the place saying "Hooker Hilton."
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All reviews are supposedly screened. TER should reject reviews with that kind of personal info.
were too tough for some to understand.
Nope, you just can't fix stupid, can you? lol
Even as someone who has never worked from my own home, I did have an incall outed before but it was by a provider, not a client. It is beyond stupid to ever tell another provider where so and so saw you at, but so many do. I can't believe some of the shit clients have told me about other providers, and I am in utter shock. I usually do not see those guys again, because they have proven to be a security risk. This is also another reason why so many providers are starting to demand more info. Guys who up their employment history, are generally not dumb enough to go blabbing about their business.
Be glad TER can view the review content before it's published, because that is a luxury women don't have on other sites. I've seen exact addresses be posted and stay for hours before it was pulled. If you're dumb enough (and yes, it's dumb) to work out of your own home that is in a residential area, you're asking for trouble.
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This is why it is much better to do incalls from a hotel, not an apt., even if it's not your residence. In my area providers are becoming much more cautious. One, who posts here occasionally, will only see one client at a given hotel. Then she switches to another hotel. She rarely sees more than two guys a day.
Another has taken to booking a room at two hotels and switches between the two over the course of the day.
All of my incalls were 'SHARED' with at least 2 other women, and sometimes it was 4-5. A guy would be an absolute moron to just show up not knowing who was there at any given time lol.
I would never ever do that. Her Incall location is for her and her Clients. To out a Provider's Incall location is a unforgivable mistake. Besides I go there myself sometimes when my place isn't available.
Hobbyists who claim to know everyone and everything
collect this information for a reason.
To feel important when they're relaying it to other people.
If you're indiscreet publicly I can only surmise you're indiscreet privately and I have no interest in seeing you.
I've had clients circulate rumors about me heard from other women, tell other girls where I live, tell other girls my name, tell other girls what I'm like in bed.
All of that "telephone" bullshit is for the birds.
When I catch wind of this behavior I won't see the client again. Guys like that are dangerous.
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collect this information for a reason.
To feel important when they're relaying it to other people.
If you're indiscreet publicly I can only surmise you're indiscreet privately and I have no interest in seeing you.
I've had clients circulate rumors about me heard from other women, tell other girls where I live, tell other girls my name, tell other girls what I'm like in bed.
All of that "telephone" bullshit is for the birds.
When I catch wind of this behavior I won't see the client again. Guys like that are dangerous.
Exactly!If a guy speaks so freely about a provider guaranteed if you give him any info about yourself you are going to be the topic of pillow talk with the next provider he sees.
I have been blown away with what some of these guys have told me about other providers.
I know first and last names of other providers,what type of business said provider is in outside of this business,where she lives,etc.
I am stunned that a guy would speak freely about someone else's personal business without me even asking.Sometimes it is brought up out of the blue and it is always the guys who review or frequent the boards.Now not all guys who review are so indiscreet but I have noticed a pattern some guys who review or quite active on boards have tendency to step over the line with the chattiness about another provider's personal business.
The ones who do not review and just have vip membership for the pure purpose of research on providers to make sure he is picking someone reputable don't have time for gossiping about another provider and what she is doing.
I have seen reviews where a guy put a providers entire address on the review and then the site was giving her grief about removing the review.
How do you know if a Client will talk about you with other Providers or post things about you? I've never outed a Provider, especially one that I Love seeing.
She probably means one who is seriously active on the boards, goes to meet and greets, talks about the girls back channel, etc. Now, what she can't know is if he will just not give her his handle when booking, lie, and say he is a newbie willing to provide employment. Either way though, with his life history, he would be a total moron to say shit about her personal life when she could do the same to him.
Why would I? I actually like the women I see and have become friends with several. And, yes, it goes without saying that we trust each other with personal information that we'd never give to a first-timer.
No fucking way would I ever divulge the information I know...simply not anything that frankly has ever, or will ever cross my mind.
It's part of who we are in life...and no matter how I see this little corner of nirvana, if a gal shares some private info...it has and always will stay private.
You know that better than most
When I asked that on the WI board my post got flagged, some idiots cant stand the truth. Why would anyone put an exact in call location? I've seen guys up here put street names as well as hotel names. Not too bright or respectful considering the amount of girls with residential in call.