hysterical!

I applaud Vanessa for standing up for herself! It takes alot of courage, for any woman to do so. Also, it's apparent that you are not attracted to bbw's, and to each their own. But, that does not mean to put down those, who you are simply not attracted to.

Also, I am so sick of men who pick providers knowing damn well that they are not attracted to her, but go through with the appointment. It's not the provider's fault, but the hobbyist, who decides to stay and play. STOP using your little brain, and use your larger one more (on top of your shoulders) often, and you will find yourself having a more enjoyable time.

No More Excuse Please!

if you were an insensitive, inconsiderate jerk.

Well, I guess we know, don't we.

Just my opinion...
B

your comments in how "hysterical" and "funny" is totally wrong and very hurtful.

Vanessa is one of the sweetest and caring people I ever met, the only girl in the business I'm friends with and I KNOW how unnecessary shit like this coming out of your mouth affects her.

Shame on you...and on the other clowns on NYC board.

Enough said...

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you're a really funny, entertaining guy. And then there are times when you're just a jerk. And this is one of the latter.

No part of me tried to laugh at this.  I couldn't laugh at this with laughing gas.  

Instead, it makes me go through the rest of my day trying to think of worse things to call you than SmellySmegma.  The usual options, asshole, jackoff and scumbag, just don't cut it.  Is that why you chose it?  

I'm afraid, nothing in it was funny, Smelly, as high or low level humor.  To laugh at something in that post, it doesn't take humor, it takes meanness.  I guess that's what your handle expresses: meanness that's so complete it's self-debasing.      

If I had only stuck to my resolution to never read posts by anybody with a handle like yours no matter how intriguing the title.    

I will let you know if I come up with a worse insult than your handle.  Somebody help me please!

Dipshit. To me it's a special word meaning; "You are  a nasty, spiteful prick yet are also lacking in the essential manliness to pull off nasty and spiteful, because really, you are too dull to get that excited about; somewhat like, say, the reaction one gets when stepping in dogshit; really, really lame, yet also utterly banal".

I find it to be a very useful word on boards and forums of all kinds

this big a-hole has an itty bitty hard on for bigger girls as evidenced by posts with the smelly, atkins diet, wookiebbwescort and more alias' I'm sure he has.  

Whatever your prefence..spinner, average, bbw - to each his own and more power to all providers who put themselves out there for others pleasure.

Then again, smelly showing his @ss just makes it easier for the ladies with more class to avoid his dumb@ss doesn't it?

especially ones with names that clearly indicate the sort of things he finds funny.

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what were you thinking?  Didn't I teach you to treat a woman better than this?

What's so funny about Vanessa's feelings being hurt, and then her emotions turn to rage?

Smelly, go to your room, and jerk off 'til your dick falls off.

And those nipples!!! I'd see her in a New York minute.

Don't think so.  My take?  as I have postged recently, for providers, do not take reviews personally - this review posted on how the hobbiest experienced the session - maybe there is another side to this story, but that does not invalidate his perspective.  

With respect to Vanessa, when I looked at her pictures, I would not characterize her as FAT!  not even BBW....  more like voluptuous....  but she does not appeal to me!  not sure why - she just doesn't - so would I call her for a date???  no.  And up front, the reviewer stated that she was also not his type.  and while he did not give her a rating that was much below her usual score, he was detailed about why the rating.  I have had it occur with me that the provider noticed "a look" on my face and was very apologetic about not "ringing my chime" but then again - in those instances  we do get through it - and I never give a lower score for that reason alone.... what causes a lower score?  Mechanical, get you on your way performances....  every time.  I also have a peeve for providers who do not tell you in their ad that they are not GFE.... I go to the session expecting GFE and the GFE is not there....   Please providers - some do not want GFE - some do - for us hobbiests, don't make us guess or ask....  put it in your ad.

For all, this was not funny - clearly this lady was put in pain because of a review that she felt was not accurate and did not reflect her take on the session... and maybe it didn't.

Good luck to all!

find the rant above amusing/ ridiculous   you've got issues, or are the nerds that were picked on in  kindergarten and beyond.

life and some humor people.   When someone makes an embarassing, and imbecilic rant like above, it begs for a reply.  The reply to this rant need not be PC.

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boards of herself, she's entitled.  I only quoted her.  You're similarly, entitled to make an ass of yourself, which is your "calling card"!  on any given day!     eom  

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Clearly it is YOU who missed the point. Your total lack of compassion for a fellow human being who was emotionally hurt is what has gotten you into trouble here.

The only thing that is obvious is that you have no friends.

Why Do Bullies Act So Bad?

Some bullies are just looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. Most bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important - when they pick on someone else, it makes them feel big and powerful.

Some bullies come from families where everyone is angry and shouting all the time. They may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act. Some bullies are copying what they've seen someone else do. Some have been bullied themselves.



Sometimes a bully knows that what he or she is doing or saying hurts other people. But other bullies may not really know how hurtful their actions can be. Most bullies don't understand or care about the feelings of others.

Bullies often pick on someone they think they can have power over. They might pick on kids who get upset easily or who have trouble sticking up for themselves. Getting a big reaction out of someone can make bullies feel like they have the power they want. Sometimes bullies pick on someone who is smarter than they are or different from them in some way. Sometimes bullies just pick on a kid for no reason at all.

What Happens to Bullies?

In the end, most bullies wind up in trouble. If they keep acting mean and hurtful, sooner or later they may have only a few friends left - usually other people who are just like them. The power they wanted slips away fast. Other people move on and leave bullies behind.

In other words, beautiful Vanessa: Karma is a b*tch, and the person behind Mr. Smelly's alias is just an insecure man, with a limpy dick, who has to pay for the privilage for just being with a woman: HOW SAD!

Granted, there have been times that I've wanted to email someone and say, "Why did you give me only a x x x when all you talked about was how good I was?"  Wink!  But then I remember that everyone has different tastes and that's their perogative. I hate the rating system anyway. Just look at someone's pics if you want to know what they look like.  Anyway, she might have given the reviewer away, but even providers get their feelings hurt, guys. Yes, it happens to all of us. For once, put yourself in our position. I agree that if the guy admitted he wanted someone more petite then he should have sucked it up and paid more instead of complaining about her. That's just petty. However, I didn't find the post funny. I felt bad for the parties involved.

Hugs,
Ciara

While I don't consider Vanessa's post to be that funny, I don't think everyone should slam Smelly for calling it the way he sees it.  Her post WAS out of the ordinary, and I suspect that most who read it locally before Smelly's comment, probably did chuckle a bit.  Not because they're unsympathetic to Vanessa's rant, but because it was a bit of some unusual drama.  Just so you know where I stand: I believe in calling it like I see it, being PC makes no sense to me and I never use an alias.  So...Vanessa, based on your pictures and the measurements you list, I would not think you to be as "fat" as you make yourself out to be. That leads me to suspect that your pics are a bit misleading.  Perhaps the reviewer felt mislead?  While I haven't read his review and I won't justify him or his review, this aspect should be considered.  O.K., now for Smelly....like I said before, the post was a bit unusual, but it wasn't really funny.  And certainly not "beyond hysterical".

And compel me to correct the purported expert on this by saying it isn't?  For embarrassment and imbecilic humor, the Darwin awards, Truly Stupid Crooks or even an episode of the Three Stooges kicks ass over her post.

As for PC, I don't know how this is political, much less correct or incorrect.  And as we all know, providers and hobbyists are a real PC and conformist group of people.  Right.  It must be a definition of PC of which I was previously unaware.

I have had so much support from women and men I have never even met!!

I truly did not think it would reach this level or that so many would be so kind.

Thank you from the bottom of my lil heart.

It takes guts, and a real provider support, risk her reputation and step forward and support a fellow provider so openly when shes being attacked by the the very men who may even hire her, or whom she calls friends.

I like girls with guts! Girls that dont just look out for themselves. Girls that stick together, and dont bad mouth others in order to make themselves look better.

Instead they are right by them, even if they have never heard of them, like in my case, they bravely step forward, publicly.  

You and all the other wonderful providers who have posted on TER and emailed me have been great.

I thought I would be ripped apart because I am not a regular here, and no one knows me, but you all have shown me you are wonderful people, Thank you Kindly.

NYV