...to trim your freaking pubic hair??? I didn't say shave, I said TRIM!!! I swear, most guys pubic hair is longer than their johnson!!! Ya'll know from reading reviews that most providers are shaved or neatly trimmed....yet you bring a damn jungle with you and want a BBBJ. I can take 8-9 inches without flinching but that long hair will set off a gag reflex from hell! And to make matters worse, no matter how clean you are, that tangled mess holds musky odors for days! Hey, thanks for letting me vent (:

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but, I would guess for those guys who have to go home to someone, a sudden change in the grooming department would be awfully suspect.

that still would not present a problem but once or twice a year!

Nah, sorry, all my crabs and lice, i couldn't drive them out of their home.

Recently, I asked a provider how she felt about male pubic hair.  She told me the less there is, the better.  And then she laughed as if there were absolutely no debate about this subject, and I was an idiot for even raising the question.  I'd tried shaving in the past (out of curiousity), but I suffered from a mild irritation, and never did it again.  Now I trim it instead.

I was always under the impression that "real men" don't care about their pubic hair, and that women perhaps preferred a more hirsute partner.  Now I know better.  And as a man, I definitely prefer a shaved or trimmed pussy over an unshaved one.  But some women also suffer from irritation due to shaving in that area; for them, trimming is definitely preferrable to shaving.  

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If either party is not freshly showered and clean, it is not fair to the other party. I started shaving down there a few years ago, and I feel cleaner and women seem to appreciate it. It's been pretty clearly stated here by providers many times that they want us guys to shave or trim our pubic hair. Makes for a better time for everyone.

Runningman

I started keeping the twins completely trimmed about three years ago ... it is the best !

For you guys who are a little nervous about doing it, I found the secret ... I use Nair for Sensitive skin, wait 10 mins, hop in the shower, and wipe off. AND .. here's the secret - in the shower, after, removing the hair, I use a neutralizer (EpilStop - buy it at CVS or drugstore.com ... see link below).  Rub it on, and it turns purple if you still have any Nair left behind.  Kind of amazing how much Nair stays on, until you rinse off quite a few times.  I guess the leftover remnants of Nair  is what causes the irritation.  Once you neutralize, it is absolutely fine.

As with all things involving the twins, YMMV, but it works great for me.

How much are you willing to pay for our pubes to be shaved?

I happen to trim mine - I even get waxed down there sometimes.  But that's because I want to do it.  Crack, back and sack - as they say in the waxing business.  But no one has cut me a discount in "donations" for that.

If women paid the men, you'd have a point.

I've suggested to some of my more hirsute clients that trimming would not only encourage better response from their provider, but frequently, from their SO as well. After all, she's a woman, too!

I've even give them a "cover story"--

"Honey, when I was at the barbershop/ airport/dentist's office, I was reading an article about "manscaping" in Maxim/Details/Esquire. They guaranteed that wives love it and that it's more hygenic, as well. Now that I think about it, it does seem like a good idea. How do you like my cleaner look?"

I've had several of my boys come back with beautiful manscapes after that.. and they've never stopped thanking me for helping them "get creative"!

You have a good point...if women paid the men. However luckily we have the right to refuse service....your fave YMMV if there is too much stank and hair. AS for a discount...you've got to be kidding me? You do the crack & sack and it already gives you a bonus...more attention south of the equator.

Next thing you're going to ask how much of a discount or a fee for showering and wiping the crap off your ass properly.

While I don't have a SO, I'm sure I could concoct some story that would cover a pubic region shave/trim if I wanted to.

and it kinda looks nice!  Serves the same purpose... and with the wax and all to keep the braids nice and shiny - well!??  lets just say there is not need for lubrication....   and while my johnson is only 3.2 in - my pube braids are easily a good solid 10 inches.... a challenge for the gals to figure out....  and as others have stated, being an animal rights advocate, I just could not part with the lice and crabs.... they just would have no place to go.....  as for the odor....  I always found that sexy!  kinda the keeper of pheromones....  and they turn you on.... right! lol!

Besides - if I shave - I would not like the looks I would get in the gym from the other dudes.... I mean, I wouldn't want them to think.... "not that there is anything wrong with that!"

Bwahahahahahahahah!!!  








I shave - and I shave in the gym - but because I like the feel....

I used to suffer from occasional jock itch, but since trimming, scatching at the Y has become a thing of the past.

I am grateful for the encouragement I got from this board for becoming a trimmer.

you're right its your money.

probably be a better value for your dollar to have a girl lovingly licking your balls without having to stop to retch or pick pubs out of her teeth.

but its totally up to the guy of course.  really he doesnt even have to shower if he doesnt want to.  

however, i carry a briefcase and in that case amongst other things are 2 ball shavers so i can trim that area right up. the lil bikini zone trimmers they sell at walgreens. guys like it cuz it tickles and due to advanced technology of some sort, me and my trusty device have never had an emergency.

I suggested to a client that he trim and even offered to do it for him

He ask me just to shave it off. I ask what his wife would think and he said that she would never notice, as she was never down there!

So, I broke out the shaving cream and razor and he was a very happy camper

Kelly

And I DO have a point regardless of getting 'paid'....it is no different than showering, brushing your teeth, or putting on clean clothes before meeting a provider.

And I LOVE your haircut! I was thinking about growing my out a little bit and your cut has inspired me to do so. Thanks so much!

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other than "Dear, I've started seeing hookers and I want to please them."

How about:
- It's easier to keep clean.
- I itch when it's hot in the summertime.
- It's not about how it looks - it's cooler this way.

I trim and this worked for me.


filmat11

arthropods are humans too!!

but when you're right, you're right.I'm always at least trimmed and sometimes shaved, and I have to confess, I have been rewarded.Just having a woman say "ooh nice and smooth" and give a little extra attention down there is all the reward I will ever need.

Re: I suggested to a client that he trim and even offered to do it for him

The first time I ever trimmed was at the request of a SO. I have to confess I was a little nervous when she got those scissors close to Mr Happy. I kept wondering if I had done anything to piss her off lately. lol, but I've been close trimmed ever since.

We just disagree with adipose tissue content. But we did agree that we'd be like oil and water, so that's 2 out of three...aint bad Huh?

Re: I suggested to a client that he trim and even offered to do it for him

Very good! I like this one! After seeing a earlier post on the subject I did shave the area (that is around the balls and penis) and trimmed what is on top - if I shaved there she would definetly notice when I got out of the shower! I must admit - the ladies liked it but I had razor burns for a while!

She hasn't said anything thing yet - so I am OK with keeping it clean!

BTW - on another subject - I like the landstrip versus totally shaved for the ladies - what are your thoughts?

Have you considered a mohawk look? (j/K)

I totally agree that a small trim would be better than tryign to get throught the "jungle"

No one would want to see us if we left ours grown out

Since you brought this one up - if we do our part then I want to know how many guys like the totally shaven versus a landing strip or partially shaven? Just so you know - I have a goatee - so I like the landing strip myself - it has an awesome feel to it! Sorry - but thought I would consider the flip side of the coin?

Ok - gents - what is your preference?

I'd pay full price for you wiping the crap off my ass.  LOL.

now I'll have that visual for the rest of the evening.

What too tubby to reach around and do it yourself?

...the hair on the brown hole are shorter.  Blowjobs are so passe.

I'll apologize again later, and you can bitch at me.

Yes, yes I am...thank you

Oh but you're forgetting something...we're not paying for it.

Shave your head and I'll shave my pubes.  The two areas of hair should be shaved, not just one.  The when we are both hairless, you can complain about something else.  May I suggest socks?

TY, i try to  provider a good home  for the little fellas!  They need love too!

When you decide to cut those braids off, just don't send them to Locks Of Love ( you know, the foundation that makes wigs for cancer patients)
That would just be Icky!!!

ONE MORE DAMN TIME.....I DID NOT SAY/SUGGEST/IMPLY THAT MEN SHAVE THEIR PARTS...I SAID NEATLY TRIM THE AREA!!!! YOU TRIM YOUR HEAD HAIR, YOUR FACIAL HAIR,.....WHY STOP THERE??? I'LL BE WILLING TO BET THAT EVERY SINGLE GUY THAT REPLIED FREAKS OUT IF HE FINDS ONE SINGLE HAIR IN HIS FOOD....YET HE THINKS NOTHING OF OFFERING UP HIS BIRDS NEST FOR US TO FEAST ON. OH, WAIT, MY BADD....PAYING MEANS HE CAN TOSS HIS HYGIENE OUT THE DOOR.....AND THEY WONDER WHY THEIR WIVES DON'T WANT TO BLOW THEM!

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Some of us actually agreed with you. No need to shout.

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Some of you people are just disgusting.  Just some sick degenerates.  If I read one more post about braiding pubic hair, and lice, and crabs, and wiping crap out of asses, and getting pubic hair caught between your teeth, I'm going to hurl.  I'm actually dry-heaving as I'm typing this.  Seriously, did anyone else read these posts and then begin to rethink their hobbying, on account of our fellow hobbyists and providers being such stank degenerates?  LOL

I trim because it just feels nicer. *And* I get a bit hairy. Buy some clippers (about $30) and knock down the forest a bit, trim your asshole (I get my SO to help there now - lucky her) and trim down the balls. Feels so nice!

Gents, just tell your SO that you are just trying something different... SURPRISE!

That being said, I would love it if providers didn't all shave. I love a nice trim, but natural look. Alas. Maybe there is a bit of hippie in me.

I am hairy chested as well. I trim that as well, but it tends to be prickly, even if left a bit long. It's give and take.

Regardless, I try not to think of the other guys who have shared in the lovely lady I am with. I am sure there are some real turn-offs that you just have to deal with. Ugh.

Hey Aug5 that was good. I almost spat my coffee. We do tend to degenerate into the gross sometimes. I guess it's part and parcel of this very intimate business we are in. What with all the body fluids and swapping them and such. It reminds me of sitting at dinner with a couple of doctors who talked shop. I could see the faces of the other diners turning a decided shade og green before someone noticed and changed the conversation. Thanks for the morning giggle.

Most of my friends are stank degenerates. lol

I like a nice dinner, served in a quiet restaurant.  I don't think that means that I'm incapable of searing cow flesh.  After all, as a male, we're born with that talent.  Sometimes it's just nice to relax and be pampered.

The thought of you wiping the crap from my ass is oddly appealing to me.  In the meantime, I'll keep doing it myself.  If I remember correctly, I've already performed that task today.  But, I did think of you at the time, so maybe there's something else going on...

In your mind maybe...I don't share your fascination with feces or the act of thinking about another while wiping my a$$. Oh well it takes all types doesn't it?

I just want you to play with my ass!

The only way I would ever come near your ass is with a 3 foot long, 10 inches in girth dildo so I could bang the living daylights out of you but not actually touch you. Oh and I would would be suitably coverd in a hazmat suit...don't want any splash-back.