Apologies for the long post but... So I contacted a massage therapist on massagefinder and she came to my place twice for far. She brings a massage table and is a legit massage therapist with degree in Chinese medicine. Here's the twist! I asked what is she comfortable with as far as me being in underwear or naked and she said she's seen it all and doesn't care. So I got completely naked and jumped on the massage table. She didn't drape me and started the massage sitting on my naked butt and giving me a great shoulder massage while she was fully clothed. The rest of the massage was amazing but nothing else as far as teasing, etc. I booked her for the second time and the same thing happened. I just booked her for the 3rd time and I'm curious to make a move or ask for additional services as I really don't want her to freak out - she gives amazing massages - but also I don't think sitting on my naked butt to give a shoulder massage for the first 15mins is normal lol. What do you guys think?
The risk is you lose a good massage therapist. The reward is you get what you’re hoping for. I wouldn’t say her sitting on your butt is necessarily unusual. Massage therapists using their sexuality and teasing is a thing. That said, as long as you’re respectful, risk is probably low. She probably won’t want to lose your business.
wearing while sitting on your butt. Was it panties or a bikini bottom, or was it a little white uniform with pants and a shirt like they wear in a spa? Answer this, and I will tell you what is reasonable to infer from her attire and her actions.
That would be worst case scenario (well not really absolute worst case would be citing harassment but very very unlikely). So if she is really great pro masseuse and you don't want to feel awkward after she rejects you... id prolly just not try it and keep it professional.
If you're willing to potentially lose her as a cmt and you're interested in going to at least second base... I mean why not.
also offers extras, then you should stick to those who offer or at least strongly imply that in their marketing.
However, that being said, it is not all that unusual to find a massage only gal who will, after you establish a relationship, will perform some sexual favors for an enhanced fee. Don't expect too much more than a hand job, maybe topless if you get really lucky. The important part of it all is establishing a rapport with the gal. Spend some time chatting about your lives, etc. Subtleness is key. Making eye contact is a big plus. i have had a few experiences like that over the years. The best resulted in me getting to massage her and then drink milk form her nipples while doing a body slide on her. Like the old folks say: Goes to show you never can tell.
The most I'd do is tell her he finds her attractive and ask if she dates outside of working hours, then see how she responds and take it (or don't take it) from there. But I'd beware of starting out by directly asking her for "extras."
.... and let me tell you - HE's are easily gotten and a dime a dozen, but great massages and truly skilled masseuses are not. I prefer to keep those 2 worlds separate whenever possible. More than once a great massage routine was fucked up once sex got involved.
Do it in the least direct way. Maybe confide in her that you occasionally go for sensual massages and you wish the sensual provider had the same massage skills that she had.
On the other hand, after a third massage with no hint of teasing, she's likely 100% legit and could be put off completely knowing you're a monger.
if she was open for personal attention it would have happened or been hinted at by now . she is a professional masseuse .. if you are seeking more will have to be with someone else. i say enjoy what she does offer, not to be taken for granted.
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