usually leaves me speechless!

all the little "attentions" in the world won't make you hot. lol

Unless the place is so unsanitary that I am genuinely concerned about my health, I am not really concerned about those "extras" that only women see to notice.

Yep. Looks good. Lose it. (this all takes about 4 seconds).

When you wonder how we think of the little attentions....think of Clark Griswold at the Grand Canyon. Uh huh...uh huh....looks good.....let's GO!!

Well, one thing is for sure, we definitely notice when you don't. A clean and well-kept space is what we all desire. Toiletries can be another matter, but the thought of having the choice is better than wanting to run out of there.

Wow, looks like almost all the men on the board under GAGs rule have turned into "manginas" except for him and Phil. How deliciously ironic!

And yes, Alexa, most men appreciate feminine touches, organization and cleanliness...some because it means that they aren't distracted from what they came for, and many others because it enhances a lady and the environment itself.

Keep it up!  King of the Manginas over and out!

Take me away Calgone bath...

I definitely notice. Like most guys I probably don't say anything about it as often as I should. But I assure you I notice and I'd venture to say others do to. I've read a few reviews where the reviewer made note of things like that and appreciated them. For me the candles, play list and towels are the most appreciated. These are among things that tend to make a session special.

I'd say keep doing what your doing. I'll be more vocal about my appreciation.

Little thing like soft music in the background make me feel like you care and that make a huge difference in the quality of my time with you. Now taken individually I might not notice the candles or some other detail as I am easily distracted by a lovely lady such as yourself but I will notice that you did spend the time to prepare your incall for me. Such attention to the small thing do make a difference in the session and that is always appreciated.  

Plus if someone ever hands me a dirty towel I would never repeat ever... EWW.

I recently spent some time with a lady friend and when I talked to her the other day, she commented that I didn't like her place.  The fact that I didn't mention it made her assume that I was unhappy in some way about it.  Honestly, the place was really cute, but I was there to see her.  My logic goes like this...I'd see her there or elsewhere.  I'd only go there to see her.  Therefore, where do you live again?

Sorry, I'm a guy.  I'll notice your ass, your tits, your eyes and even notice if you're fun to hang with.  For the most part, the rest is just bullshit background noise.

I think that's probably you.  Not we.  I would appreciate it, if I encounter it.

...the way YOU look is lots more important and I probably won't mention the ambiance even if I do notice it.  What's more important is noticing the lack of it.  For example, a couple of weeks ago I visited a provider at her condo.  There was a carton of empy liquor bottles by the door.  That bathroom wasn't "fresh." The rest of the place was grungy.  She was nice but it all made me feel uncomfortable and I wouldn't repeat.  Maybe if she was hotter ????

details details

Especially at you, LP and Gambler.

I know you guys are not so young, dumb, and full of cum. But the reason why the ladies do this is because it makes THEM feel sexy. And inturn, they project that onto you when you meet with them.

I don't know. I appreciate it. Kinda the same reason I ask them what they would like to drink and/or have as far as eatables when they come see me.

Unless you're in for the wham-bam-thank-you-mame kinda gig, I prefer to take my time and enjoy each other's company before I put a lady's ankles behind her ears....

I notice those things.  Although still fairly new, my ATF had candles in the hotel room, and great music playing from her iPod.  She also was beautifully dressed, both outer- and under-clothes, and therefore she was a pleasure to "unwrap."  Been with women that were more attractive, but the ambiance she created definitely plussed-up the experience, and I still remember it as a result.  On the other hand, visited a beautiful woman in her slummy apartment, and it was a turn off.  Very depressing.  As others have noted, guys are really there for one thing.  But, speaking personally, the little touches are at least a tie-breaker, if not a little more, to enhance the experience, and generate a repeat. Please keep doing what you are doing!

I always appreciate the above.  In fact it makes me feel like I am home.

I'm right there with you Alex.....

I find myself sometimes getting overwhelmed with everything I am trying to make perfect when I see someone. And yet the side of my brain that works like a man knows that very few of them would notice.....I guess my theory is that plenty would notice and say something if I didn't take the extra time to make sure my place or wherever we're playing is very sensual and has a comfortable atmosphere. It's just one of those goofy things..you don't notice all that much if it's there but you certainly do if it's really not. (Hence, mr Fair Use's comment, by the way - I'm sorry you haven't encountered very many thoughtful women yet, I hope things change for you if you want them to.)

I mean I even change things like the sheets and bedspread when I go to an incall because I don't trust hotel linens even if the place is halfway nice. Plus, what's the point of having Egyptian Cotton if you're not going to use it? I also add candles in complementary scents, throw pillows for couches, and try to bring better towels when I can. If I have seen someone before and know what they like, I definitely make the effort to repeat that. For example, there's someone I have seen multiple times and based on the first time we met which was at his place, I have made sure that I have a kind of beer he likes on hand, a smoking room because he smokes, and ESPN News on when he arrives because I know he likes sports and that's what he had on when I went to his place. Normally, I would probably play soft music or a playlist designed for the occasion but in his case, I know he would be more comfortable with the television in the background. But hey...that's just me and that's partially what's enjoyable about this profession in my eyes.

It's funny...we providers who make the extra effort kind of treat our male friends the way that we wish really nice dates would treat us in our personal lives, don't we? Paying attention to the little details that always make us know that they've been paying attention and trying to impress us.

Just my 2 cents,
Estella Ayrs

...what is GAG's rule?

Well said Rimoss and I agree but would add that they are more than a tie-breaker for me.  I requently meet clients in my office and I want the visual welcome to be as pleasing for them as the business portion of our meeting... and that includes a clean bathroom!  Few if any ever commnt on the quality of my office but  any of us wo are in business know that it could make or break the deal.

Obviously the first thing that I notice is the provider herself - is she as attractive as I expected from her photos, her smile, her eyes, her body in the clothes that she has chosen fo the occasion (I too like to unwrap the package as part of the foreplay).  But I am also aware of the environment that she creates, be it in a hotel room or her regular incall, and very appreciative of her efforts to make both the ambience as well as the amenities comensurate with her quality as a provider.  Alexa  - thank you for the reminder that I should say someting to my provider friends about the environment that you have created as well as thanking you for sharing your most intimate self with me, while ever cognizant of the fact that what for me is a pleasure, is for you a business.

yes we do

Don't you dare try to take my crown away! I claimed that title and I have not been dethroned yet. LOL

My friend Gloria, a retired provider from Canada, told me that her favorite part of a session was dressing up beforehand - she had a huge closet of clothes, and would try to dress according to the impression her client gave her in their pre-meet conversations. A lady dresses up her space as she dresses herself - both are dressed to impress, and dressing to impress generally makes a lady feel good. A lady who receives incalls at her own place is usually as meticulous with her boudoir as she is with her makeup. Showing appreciation for this is not only polite, but provides gratification for the lady's attention to detail. I'm not likely to comment on the beautiful crown mouldings or the double-paned thermal glass in the windows, but I do notice and appreciate a lady's dolling up her room as I appreciate her dolling up herself.

...a loose screw on the hinge of the tray table in the seat in front of you on the airplane? It keeps coming loose during your flight and hitting your knees while you're trying to read or have a snack? Not only is it annoyingly distractive, I have other concerns about the condition of the plane, the flight crew, etc. -- if they can't get the little details right, what's going to happen with the important stuff?

If the details are taken care of, then I feel much more comfortable and relaxed about our session.

absolutely! It shows you care enough about the way you do business to give a little extra to make me want to come back. It is very much appreciated and noticed.

making the ambiance truly GFE.  Nothing wrong with scented candles, soft music in the background, lite refreshments (water, chocolates, fruit, cheese & crackers) and a nice warm washcloth for the clean-up

There is one lady I have seen several times that actually keeps a small crockpot with warm moist washcloths on the bedside table for after each round.

On the rare time when a lady comes to visit my hotel, I will ask ahead of time what her choice of beverage would be.  For extended dates I will often have fruit, cheese, crackers and/or chocolates available as well.  I almost always have some candles lit and the ipod playing soft music.  The better you treat a lady the better the evening will be.

Lex,

I really do notice small details like toiletries and clean towels..  I also really appreciate providers that make a point of making me comfortable, whether it is getting me a drink or helping me with my clothes..  Certainly great pictures attract us to a first meeting..  Great service and hospitality want us to return...

Phadrus

The ladies we meet go over and above.  That's the mark of a gentleman, and we'll reciprocate, as would be expected...