If they are new as can be, it’s very difficult. TBH, your best source for a noob is through an agency, booker, or a recommendation from a provider you trust. And for her as a noob, if she is legit and trying to make it in the business, she should start by working with someone that can help her navigate everything. I personally wouldn’t trust a noob who isn’t connected to one of these three.
So I only see TER highly reviewed providers…. I’m curious if anyone around has had success with unreviewed providers; or just using p411 or Private Delights, or similar.
If so, how do you get comfortable that the provider is (a) not a scam; (b) not LE; (c) professional enough not to out you; and (d) legit / matches description in the ad?
Just curious if anyone has other best practices for screening providers… I see like 95% of Tryst / p411 ads are not TER reviewed… (though i notice some just don’t have link to their TER and can be found on a search)
as an unreviewed provider (on ter at least) i wonder what convinces some of you enough to follow through with booking us. i’ve asked a few clients that have found me on forum responses and they’ve all said it just “felt right.”
For clients who don’t have much to lose, my guess is they’re just looking for no red flags rather than reviews as a way to assure that it is legit and safe…
For clients with a lot to lose it seems that reviews are mandatory… we need some positive assurances that the provider is legit and professional…
Of course there’s the fee differential as well. I notice the well-reviewed TER providers are usually at least 500 an hour; while providers without TER reviews tend to be less.
i must be one of the lucky ones then, i’m 600/hr with no ter reviews and have been trusted enough to book (thank you to those lovely few for trusting me)
what are other red flags beyond rates being too good to be true, onlyfans being the only form of contact, and no social media presence or professional website?
To me the most common indicator is just poor quality. Low prices, bad pictures, no screening, few details… I think these are real ads, not LE, but they raise big concerns about discretion and professionalism. (most of these are not attractive providers anyway, but there’s a few who I would see if they had a more professional presence).
Inconsistencies in scheduling or disparities to the market are red flags to me. My market is small enough that I’ve seen all the Tryst ads, so I recognize the new ones. If a new one shows up with no tour schedule, that’s a bit of a red flag.
There’s one who does not advertise her TER; but I found the TER and apparently her rate is massage only; then she tries to upsell. I’d probably see her but I don’t like that approach.
There’s a lot of tryst ads listed in multiple markets as the “home”; which seems a red flag.
Perhaps it’s a high standard but I need absolutely zero risk. I’ve really come to accept that the touring providers are the way to go for my market… higher quality, higher professionalism…
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I have seen a few. Ads alone will not cut it though. If they have a professional website, that helps. If they’re on socials, that can help even more. A provider who posts non professional pictures and still looks hot is a big bonus. I also like to see what she posts and if I like her personality. And, her engagement with others. I have seen providers who are not reviewed, but engage and seem to be friends with those who are highly reviewed.
I also look for red flags. Is she in too many cities at once? Is her price too good to be true? Is her socials littered with reposts. Are most of her posts mechanical sounding or quotes. Is she very new and therefore has only a small digital footprint? I like to reverse search her pictures to see if they are stolen or she has multiple ads in different cities at once.
Since I'm not looking in the same places as you just curious. Seems like one might also take a look at the new girl that shows up and wonder if she is actually new to the game just how well put together the ads and website might be. You might think too polished a site for someone that is just starting out might be a red flag itself.
Is that something of a warning sign to those who seek unreviewed independents? Or so many see a poorly crafted ad/website as the warning sign?
I’m not sure I follow… does anyone actually seek out unreviewed independents? Why?
is that there are a lot of fantastic looking women on Tryst for example, that have equally appealing pricing.
Very many of them though turn out to 1) Be unreviewed. 2) Have Onlyfans accounts as their only online presence.
And as tempting as they are (and, they are tempting), the combination of all of those represent a 'Pass' decision for me.
By new, you mean someone with 1-2 recent reviews, that are also her only reviews? And, her site looks too good? TBH, without more information, it can go either way. In my experience, if her website is very professional looking, she’s probably legit. But those websites in a can - like Milkshake - are huge red flags.
I was thinking of no reviews so someone that appears to be just starting out -- or presenting them self as just starting out.
If they are new as can be, it’s very difficult. TBH, your best source for a noob is through an agency, booker, or a recommendation from a provider you trust. And for her as a noob, if she is legit and trying to make it in the business, she should start by working with someone that can help her navigate everything. I personally wouldn’t trust a noob who isn’t connected to one of these three.
Have you ever run across a "noob" that introduces herself in here? It doesn't happen a lot but it happens. I have met a few in here and had some great times but it usually starts with a conversation thru pm where two adults can figure out if they're a good fit for each other and make a decision to move forward from that.
The only providers who have PM’ed me here are ones with reviews, lots of them. I wouldn’t be completely opposed if she was okay with me wanting to take my time and have at least a little back and forth. If she’s in any hurry, I would probably dip out and wish her luck.
I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for them to message you, I'm talking about a provider saying, hey, just found out about this site and introducing myself or trying to get established. Reach out to them and initiate the conversation. Beyond the work aspect, you might be able to help them with questions they have about TER.
I misunderstood your previous post. I thought you were saying she contacted you and said hi. I see now you mean on the boards. Yeah, I probably wouldn’t be the guy to reach out to her in that case. But I can why some would. There’s definitely some appeal to helping break in a noob in on TER.
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Once I've spent a bit of time with the agency I understand it's approach, what that ads will look like, what the providers will tend to be like and so that greatly reduces a lot of the question you have listed. Not sure that approach works for you -- many don't like agencies, want to deal with independents (or like the greater variety that affords) -- but I find I'm not thinking about a lot of the things you note when deciding to see some new girl with no reviews that shows up.
I’ve never tried an agency. I don’t think we have any in my metro…
In addition to many of the things others have mentioned, I'm more inclined to see unreviewed providers when their communication with me is open and honest and detailed. Short texts or emails without any personality behind them make me back away in the absence of any other encouraging factors.
….but I read a lengthy article written by a former escort who stated that she was not into reviews, but giys looking for legit women should focus on those with private websites - the more professionally done the better, plus a robust social media presence.
Scammers and LE want a high ROI so why bother with all that when I they can post a cheap ad with a sexy pic and a low rate and make tons of arrests or scam tons of money?
Most reviews I have read are just guys bragging how good they are at oral sex and how hot the provider is. They rarely provide useful information for me, which is:
1. Screening difficulty
2. Picture accuracy
3. Safe and secure incall (hotel? doorman building?)
4. Ethnicity (not race, which is obvious from pics) - I prefer American raised providers mostly due to language issues and better conversations
5. BBBJ?
All seem to have 2, most have 5, a few have 4, but I rarely see 1 and 3 as that is important for client safety, both from LE and scammers/goons.
Number 1 should be obvious based on information provided in an ad or on a website.
Around my area private incalls are relatively rare and the hotels are all pretty well known so number 3 is almost never a question mark. The ladies who host in private incalls are reviewed and it's not difficult to find reviews that mention parking availability, etc.
I guess the other aspect of this is that I am usually providing a full screen (DL and employer)… so the professional discretion is critical. If I was staying anonymous then perhaps I could compromise on quality / reviews.
I've been fortunate in that I've had very good success with companions who did have reviews her or elsewhere. I don't really do social media, so I never look at their social media profiles either. Of course, I'll look at their ad (usually Tryst) and their website, if they have one. In fact, two of the last three companions I met in the past couple of months (November and December) didn't have reviews here and I had fantastic experiences with both. Oddly enough, both showed an interest in TER, so I wrote reviews of them here (one to be published soon, if it's approved).
I really don't have a "method to my madness", other than I go by vibe. There has to be something more than their looks. It's hard to put in to specific words, so I call it luck. lol There are a couple others I see somewhat regularly and they don't have reviews here and aren't interested in them, and that's fine. That doesn't interfere with our time together at all.
What I've found works the best is really good communication and giving them a good idea of the kind of person I am. I was fairly recently in contact with a companion in Southern California and she's willing to work with me on screening (screening will NOT be waived or anything), based on our initial communication and how I introduced myself to her.
Lastly, these days I tend not to read reviews of companions I'm interested in meeting, even if I know they have reviews here or elsewhere. For me, the reviews here are purely erotic stories. I don't use them for "intel" or anything, since there are just too many variables at work.
this proves that happy endings do exist even without reviews, you just have to do your vetting due diligence and pick someone that you feel would mesh well with you, not necessarily the first provider that catches your eye.