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A Third Ask, Wow!
hehitshewins 2400 reads
posted
1 / 40

In my other thread the idea of threesome demand vs. supply was brought up. It got me wondering, how often are guys asking for it? I’m one guy so I only know my personal interests. My questions are:

 
Providers, how often do your clients ask about a threesome/duo partner? If this is a service you offer, is it one you prefer is done more on a limited basis? As in, do you prefer one-on-one sessions? Or, do you prefer threesomes? Or, don’t really care because you love both equally?

 
Clients, how often is this something you want? Is it more of a want to try it once/occasionally? Is it something you would do more/less often?  

 
For clarity - I have no angle. I’m just asking out of curiosity. I’m open to whatever your answers are.

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 75 reads
posted
2 / 40

Depends. Sometimes i feel like two gals. The double bj is a wonderful thing.  Or sometimes i like to get spit roasted by two humg ts gals. Sometimes, one of those hung ts gals will join me to spitroast a willing lady provider.  

Really, all just depends what im in the mood for. And i love having options.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 70 reads
posted
3 / 40

She is UTR & I love doing duos with her because we actually love each other in real life. 🥰

I am updating my website now to offer more creative fun options for doing doubles with her.  

I love being someone’s first experience when it comes to threesomes!

doccrox 17 Reviews 93 reads
posted
4 / 40

I generally prefer one-on-one sessions.  They tend to be more cost effective, and I really enjoy the company of the providers in my rotation.  I've only been in the game this year, and I've done two threesomes thus far (with a third planned for this month).

I've had what basically amounted to one FMF and one FFM threesome - and the latter is much more desirable for me.  I would only shell out for another duo session if I was damn sure that both providers were into one another.  

My first threesome was perfect.  I had my ATF bring one of her friends, and we role played a scene.  They were really into one another, and really into me.  Having two sets of eyes looking up at me during a double bj was one of the most amazing feelings.  

My second experience was in Japan, and while both providers knew each other - they didn't have much chemistry together, so they focused on me.  That seems great on paper, but I felt a lot more pressure to perform to satisfy two women.  It was still hot for sure, but ultimately would I have had more fun booking each girl separately?  Absolutely.

lopaw 29 Reviews 74 reads
posted
5 / 40

... But of course my situation is very different. Unlike with a male client, any two providers that agree to do a threesome with me can't fake it, lol. I learned early on when trying two girl VIPs in strip clubs that it's always best to let one of the providers select the third for the event 👍

To date the only issue I've had during a threesome was at a now defunct nude strip club in Vegas. The dancer who approached me was very drunk, and insisted that her girlfriend join us for a threesome in VIP. I agreed, tho hesitantly. Eventually the very drunk girl passed out on top of me. It took me most of the VIP to get out from under her dead weight, lol. In hindsight, it was pretty funny but in the moment I was horrified that she would also puke all over me (she didn't, thank goodness😲)

dateiza 73 reads
posted
6 / 40

but only about a third of those actually commit to booking a duo. i like both equally so i’m happy either way, however there are some clients that ask for a duo that i think would benefit more from a one-on-one.

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 81 reads
posted
7 / 40

I've had less than a dozen duo sessions in a decade of being EC (has happened more frequently in my personal life). And all but one were an absolute treat!🤩 I'm much more of a 'full three way interaction' kind of person and the less-than-stellar experience had a vibe closer to feeling like I was the trick pony, the novelty item that the other lady and gent wanted to sit back and watch perform.🤷🏻‍♀️  
 
I am truly bi and have never had an issue with creating chemistry with another woman whether she's the civvie partner of a client or another professional. And more often than not, my slightly dominant side comes out in threesome situations - mostly in that I can be a bit of a 'director of activities' because it's just so fun and dammit, I WANT to have ALL the fun I can!😂
 
My rates are 1.5x for a client and civvie ladyfriend and just the rack rate if the other lady is a professional. *Sigh* All this talk lately has me jonesing a bit...🤪

-- Modified on 12/5/2025 5:48:03 PM

EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 114 reads
posted
8 / 40

... as a 'willing provider' for the you+hung TS lady scenario. 🤭 Yes, please!

calliecruz-GFE See my TER Reviews 78 reads
posted
9 / 40

Replying to "Providers, how often do your clients ask about a threesome/duo partner? If this is a service you offer, is it one you prefer is done more on a limited basis? As in, do you prefer one-on-one sessions? Or, do you prefer threesomes? Or, don’t really care because you love both equally?"  

I'm pretty UTR, but most of my clients know that I offer duos with one partner (Brielle James). We fully engage and also get along really well and clients see that, so our duos are super fun. I love both, definitely a different vibe from a 1:1 date but clients love to change it up.  

Regarding demand, from what I hear from gentlemen, it's very hard to find a duo that engages in a way that is authentic between themselves and with you - AND also worth the investment. It also seems to be hard for ladies to find a duo partner they are attracted to AND trust. I consider myself very lucky LOL

hehitshewins 79 reads
posted
10 / 40

We went for a buddies bachelor party and met a local and he showed us around and helped us navigate things. We threw him some nice tips, which I am sure was expected. But he was a good dude.

 
Anyway, he took us to this one club loaded with escorts. I told him I wanted a threesome. He pointed out one of the ladies he knew liked other ladies. I picked her, and then picked the next hotest lady there. And, that was where I made a mistake. He even sort of gave me a clue when he said they never worked together before but they're willing. And, I learned the hard way that if you have one lady that's into ladies and one who is not, you're not getting what you may have hoped to get.

 
So yeah, spot on that the best way is to pick one you like who you know is game, and then allow her to get the third.

-- Modified on 12/5/2025 3:51:12 PM

hehitshewins 93 reads
posted
11 / 40
MaggieLinn2 See my TER Reviews 89 reads
posted
12 / 40

But I don’t know any ladies where I travel to so I tell them to find someone but it never happens. Back in day I had a friend who got me into this named Kara and she taught me how to do a double blow job . I miss those fun days. I had another I did bachelor parties with. Sigh the good old days.

hehitshewins 99 reads
posted
13 / 40

I just got back from a NYC visit a week ago. You and Brielle seem like a great time!

ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 125 reads
posted
14 / 40

I am truly bisexual, love women, and enjoy doing duos. It is ALSO true that they are much more intellectually, physically and emotionally demanding. There’s the behind the scenes labor of negotiating and coordinating, and there are also twice as many people to take care of, attend to, check in on, and generally balance.

So it’s not that I enjoy them less - they’re equally or more enjoyable, but they're also more work. So while I don’t currently charge extra for them, I am seriously considering doing so.

helixir 54 Reviews 105 reads
posted
15 / 40

Before TER, I got burned on a number of duos.  Even today when I read duo reviews, I'd say 40% of the time they describe little to no interaction between the ladies; which may be fine with other guys.  I find that uninteresting.  A truly, intimately interactive and engaged duo is worth its weight in gold to me.  Props to you for bringing that great duo energy.

snafu929 20 Reviews 67 reads
posted
16 / 40

From another thread, a couple dudes laid out some very compelling information (in their minds) that gals are using this theory to arbitrarily boost their rates because they have disclosed to the world that an interactive 3some is actually half the work for the ladies.  

 You should probably get in touch with heshits and rocket querty and have them explain to you why you are likely way off base here.  

"intellectually, physically and emotionally demanding"....that's some real flat earther stuff right there.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 76 reads
posted
17 / 40

Absolutely 100% energy exchange is draining yes it’s exhausting when dealing with emotional and physical needs.  

It takes me a day or two to decompress depending upon how much time we shared.

My gf is itching to do some pegging & I suggest a spit roast. Any takers? 😈

hehitshewins 66 reads
posted
18 / 40

I never even suggested they’re half the work. You’re just a troll starting shit. I asked questions with a genuine open mind. I got accused of stuff I never said, because people often think there is an angle. In this thread, I made that abundantly clear. And, in return, I got honest answers and no one made accusations.

 
So, unless you’re out there escorting and doing threesomes, I suggest you stfu and stay in your lane. The best part of your stupid argument is you didn’t even take the time to know who you were talking to. Typical Snafool. If you did, you would know that she doesn’t even up charge and has no motive to say they’re more work. And, I believe her.

XOLove 118 reads
posted
19 / 40

Let me answer as an agency. We have different clients, some of them are taking 5 girls and dont even have sex with them, others could take 2-3 girls with deep lesbi experience and never ask for it again...

From the providers part if girl says she is Bi, she would be king of ok with lesbi too, others who is not bisexual, may just imitate something to satisfy you. So basically just ask your agents to make sure the girls are Bi and enjoy.

 
+17864519815 tg/whatsapp of our American manager. She would help you arrange any wish you have.

snafu929 20 Reviews 96 reads
posted
20 / 40

Um, I was responding to Claire and I happen to enjoy trios very much.  I don't whine about the cost either.  That said, I don't know her but I will take Claire at her word and what she meant in the post that I replied too, lol.  Perhaps YOU should read it as well.  After the part where she states WHY threesomes are ARE more work she summarizes with...

"So it’s not that I enjoy them less - they’re equally or more enjoyable, but they're also more work. So while I don’t currently charge extra for them, I am seriously considering doing so."

Let it go, heshits, let it go...

hehitshewins 82 reads
posted
21 / 40

Read your own damn response to her and try with your pea brain to process how stupid you sound.

calliecruz-GFE See my TER Reviews 90 reads
posted
22 / 40

Sorry to miss you! Please tell me you will be back again soon? ;-)

calliecruz-GFE See my TER Reviews 83 reads
posted
23 / 40

We are happy to :) It seems like you are in LA, I have a trip planned there in the early part of 2026, perhaps we are destined to meet? Email me if you want to try!

ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 112 reads
posted
24 / 40

I think you’re both actually being very polite and respectful to me (thanks! 😘) and just snarking at each other. ♥️

hehitshewins 77 reads
posted
25 / 40

I’m pretty sure you’re the only one truly being polite here. Snafool and I are being a couple of a-holes. It’s what we do to each other. It usually begins with him trolling me. And goes on and on with me joining him and neither of us letting it go.

1angelinajones See my TER Reviews 68 reads
posted
26 / 40

@hehitshewins

Clients  query  "Threesome"  scenarios  
about  50%,  however  the  actual  
culmination  of  one  is  25%  as  of  late.
 
Logistics,  schedule  alignment  and  
finance  deficiency,  hinder  their  
frequency  however,  not  my  affinity.

One-on-one  sessions  equally  incite
my  love  of  "P4P" 😘
This  is  my  desirous  "social  life" not  
my  "career".

 
With  regard  to  your  previous  thread  
"Threesome  Demand  vs.  Supply"  
to  which  i  replied;

I  stated  in  my  preface  to  your  post;
"In  so  many  words",  "you  stated"....

Perhaps  in  my  haste  stating  my  
opinion,  @hehitshewins  ,  I  misquoted
you,  thus  i  apologize... 💐

However  I  stand  firmly  by  this  thought --

"The  logistics  of  creating  a  truly  
mind-blowing  "Threesome  FMF  Tryst"
takes  creativity,  STAMINA   and  ultimately,
the  genuine  affinity  between  said  
Providers.  

Regards,
AJ

hehitshewins 81 reads
posted
27 / 40

Misunderstandings happen. All good. I appreciate your response here and reflection on the earlier post. My only issue was the assumption that I thought it meant half the work. Honestly, it wasn’t something that crossed my mind. It’s important to understand that a sex worker’s experience is much different than it is for a client. You may see it as work. But as a paying customer, I see it as pleasure. So when I ask these questions, it’s with as much as I know. And, often, I truly want to hear your perspective. I try hard to assume nothing.

RespectfulRobert 81 reads
posted
28 / 40

They are all over themselves, and you, from jump street. It's amazing how interactive they are. I have had the pleasure on multiple occasions. Both total sweethearts too. :)

KatieKuada See my TER Reviews 80 reads
posted
29 / 40

When it comes to requests for threesomes or more, my experience is somewhat unique, as I spent most of my professional career working for an agency. While I can't provide a specific percentage of requests across the board, I can share my personal booking statistics. I would estimate that a third to half of my bookings were for threesomes or larger groups. In hindsight, I think I often got booked with certain providers because we had great chemistry. I noticed that whenever a hobbyist requested a slender or athletic Black girl, I was usually the one chosen for those bookings. Some clients preferred the GFE and sought one-on-one sessions, while others were drawn to the thrill of having two women—or more—at their disposal. What strikes me as amusing is that, despite the perception, the women are in complete control at all times. We’re literally putting the weakest part of your flesh into the strongest joint, with the strongest bones, in our bodies! My agency also hosted a "rainbow" night, inviting women of all shades and different ethnicities. I was consistently booked for those events, which contributed to my numerous experiences in this realm. However, I believe this trend is more reflective of the clientele I served and the agency’s focus than it is of the general population. I can’t speak to how it is for the everyday Joe in America, but from my perspective, threesomes and more were a significant part of my bookings. They are available for a fee, with a plentiful supply.

hehitshewins 90 reads
posted
30 / 40

I go maybe once a year, but not every year. However, you said you will be in LA in early 2026. With your duo partner? I'm in LA, so we may be talking if you are.

snafu929 20 Reviews 65 reads
posted
31 / 40

....and can't resist making note of or directly engaging with those afflicted with chronic dumbassitive fucktardiss.  If you'd like to make yourself a paper asshole hat, have fun!

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 75 reads
posted
32 / 40

Client pov (obviously) for me:

Threesomes can be great for me but they also are generally bad value if you want to maximize sex or $ per hour/minute/{your choice of time unit} of sex.

 
The logistics around the deed means you will spend less time having actual sex. The payoff is to have a fantasy and sensory overload you otherwise wouldnt have with just one sex partner.

Mostly a kgirl consumer, I did have some threesomes where I paid close to 3x the price of solo. However I was very picky with my providers, basically only doing it with girls whom I've seen before and whom I was a big fan of. And they were excellent sessions.  

But it's not something I'd do often. There's limited availability of doubles in general and most of the time they are not featuring atf or close to atf providers

 

However, if the value goes up I'm game to go for threesomes with girls I don't know.  

For example a somewhat utr place might as well call it a brothel, had a reopening after relocating after popo got em the first time.  

Visiting it at housewarming, I got doubles with table shower, rimjobs, Greek from one of the girls, toy play including paddles and ballgag, mirrors, all for under 400. And we can add extra girls for 100 each! Not to mention any monger could drink some expensive whiskey from a rare cask bottle and just chill in the lobby. It's a great experience and value.  

 
Talk about excellent value. Yes sometimes the girls might rush you, sometimes the ones you get are not amazing, but when cost of toftt is so much lower, quantity over quality works too. Especially in this biz where often thrill of "new pussy" is very alluring.

Shell out 800ish on doubles with one girl you don't know or just try an extra girl for 100 when you're with two or three others... One of these is a lot more risky than the other.

 
Now not saying this place should be the standard setter because it's hard as hell to compete with these kinda prices and coed orgy environment in the middle of bay area... but my point is that there are thresholds of value for everyone. Lower prices and better value will attract customers who wouldn't otherwise do doubles or consider them a couple of times a year event.

 
Just my two cents.

hehitshewins 71 reads
posted
33 / 40

The place charging more is riskier than the cheap place that was recently shutdown by the po po?!?

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 61 reads
posted
34 / 40

Riskier in context of toftt and getting what you might not like as much.

Not risky as in getting busted by authorities.

 
I thought I made that pretty clear.

hehitshewins 102 reads
posted
35 / 40

You just said one of these is more risky than the other. I took that to mean all risk, which includes both what you meant and what I implied. Come on bro, all risk matters when making a choice.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 65 reads
posted
36 / 40

My post was all about my approach to doubles+ in context of your question about demand for doubles and up.  

 
I don't get why you focused on the very small part of it. I probably shouldnt even have mentioned that they were busted before. It's not terribly relevant to the discussion here imo.

The point I was trying to make, is that high price is a detriment from trying an unknown for me. Whereas lower price of entry enables me to try out more doubles, even if they are *worse*in quality. At higher price it forces me to be way more selective and hence, avoid doubles for the most part unless it includes someone I really really like.

hehitshewins 96 reads
posted
37 / 40

I focused on that because it’s a detail that jumps out. If you go to an art gallery, you may look at everything, but when most of the art is somewhat standard and boring, but one piece is a naked chic, smoking a cigarette, holding a bloodied machete in one hand, holding a dude’s head in another hand, and the rest of his body is on the floor, that’s probably what you will focus on. I know, extreme example, but making a point.

 
And you’re right, it wasn’t too important to your point and if you left it out, your point still stands. It just jumped out at me is all. I get your point. I didn’t say anything else about the rest because I didn’t feel there was anything to add or question. Your reasoning is sound.

Hpygolky 232 Reviews 88 reads
posted
38 / 40

Done a few and all went well but I found myself over thinking what I was doing and who I was doing it with.  Came to a point where I was thinking,”Did I do her doggie or was it the other one?”,”Did I just go down on her or … “I was like a kid in the candy store , running around all crazed out, and full of sugar.
Now I’m a simple guy who just wants to keep it simple.
My orgy days are over 🤣

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 93 reads
posted
39 / 40

BTW I try to not count how much money I spend on this hobby (because I'd get depressed lol), but I'd estimate that I spent around 10-12x the first time this place was around just on this place, as opposed on higher priced doubles.

And im probably gonna do it again and binge the hell out of it until they get busted (given the superbowl is in the bay area and so is the world cup, it's a matter of when and not of)  

Low cost, high variance (with girls rotating) and new providers can be very addicting.

 
So like, this low cost entry and emphasis of many girls at once definitely worked on me. Of course the other thing is being treated like a king outside of sex, but that's another story.  

This is more of a sex addict kind of thing tho. For those looking for connection and chemistry with particular provider I feel like doubles aren't necessarily interesting besides maybe a once in a long time thing to break up monotony.

hehitshewins 79 reads
posted
40 / 40

I feel ya, and no judgment if that’s your thing. I’m on a budget too and can’t just throw tons of unchecked money at the hobby. I take a different approach. I research heavy. I target a higher end fantasy. I save. I spend. I wait. Less trips for me as a result. But it meets the fantasies I’m looking to get. It’s a lot harder for the ladies at these cheaper joints meet my peak fantasies. I will go to them occasionally. But it’s just not the same for me. But you should do you. It’s up to you and no one else to decide what you enjoy.

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