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HappyChanges 97 reads
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"add xx years to her age" by the reviewer would help with the problem. Assuming he can actually gauge her age. Or, writing "age is off" somewhere in the body would help. I rarely read any mention of age in the reviews.

I'll admit I'm guilty. I've been with many provider who clearly where not the age they stated. But I left it out of the review. In fact one of them list 36-40 but says she's 52. I think she's more close to 60 but who am I to gauge. Lol.

It used to be that girls typically lied about their age by 3-4 years. Then it became 5-7 years. Now it seems to be 10 years or more. I am well aware of the "lights down low" trick but at some point any guy should be able to tell that the girl is way older than she says she is.

How come reviewers almost never mention that many of these girls are way older than their stated ages?

GaGambler110 reads

It is a valid explanation, some guys simply have no taste and they just don't care how old, how fat, or how ugly a hooker is, she is still hotter than what they have at home and since their wives have emasculated them decades ago, they just don't know how to stand up for themselves against ANY woman who will get naked for them.

 
What these spineless, tasteless jellyfish fail to realize is that appearance DOES matter to some of us, and that it's their fault that the numerical rating system is FUBAR.

Posted By: GaGambler
Re: I guess that also explains why they don't mention it when she is 40 lbs fatter too?
   
 What these spineless, tasteless jellyfish fail to realize is that appearance DOES matter to some of us, and that it's their fault that the numerical rating system is FUBAR.
The problem is that a guy might want a MILF 32-40 but does not want a 50 year old "Gmilf" It makes it hard on both the guys and the girls. If a girl is honest about being 38 a guy might not answer the ad because he figures she is probably closer to 50. It's a sad situation because the 38 year old might say she is 28 and the guy who wanted a  28 year old is ripped of.

I dont mind unless its a lady that says late 30s but really is early 50s.  My bigger issue is with them concealing 20+ pounds.

18-21 I expect her to be right around stated age
22-27 I add 4 to 8 years
28-32 I add at least a decade, maybe more
33-39 God only knows
40-44 Plus 12
45-50 I go back to expecting her to be her stated age

If age matters to you this can be one of the hardest things to sort out...

GaGambler151 reads

The problem with this line of reasoning in trying to figure out a hooker's age is that they all know that guys use this kind of "guesstimation" where it comes to there age, so they just tell bigger lies, which leads guys to put a bigger "pad" in their "guesstimation" which leads to even BIGGER lies by the women which creates the exact problem cited by the OP, and of course punishes the honest providers who don't lie about their age, but are assumed to be lying by guys like you. (and me too I suppose)

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For example, someone the other day told me of some place where gals are eight before they're seven.

Weird, huh?

Posted By: tankbinding
Re: Age algorithm
18-21 I expect her to be right around stated age  
 22-27 I add 4 to 8 years  
 28-32 I add at least a decade, maybe more  
 33-39 God only knows  
 40-44 Plus 12  
 45-50 I go back to expecting her to be her stated age  
   
 If age matters to you this can be one of the hardest things to sort out...
My experience is somewhat different. I rarely see girls with listed ages under 26

Listed Ages:

26 is usually 33-35
32 is usually about 40
40 is 50
45 is around 60!

Perhaps I should start lying about my age instead of telling the truth just in case someone assumes I'm 40.

...or are you just naturally attracted to them?  

I can't recall ever meeting a gal who wasn't within 5 yrs of her published age. Most didn't lie at all.  

Maybe you need to improve your research skills or change where you're looking. SMDH

I hope this is a joke post. Either you are joking or you are blind. I've been doing this for more than a decade and things are getting worse not better and I'm a very good judge of age.

And no i'm not seeking out BP girls or bargain girls.

Senator.Blutarsky100 reads

...I guess we just travel in different circles. I have no idea what your taste is and frankly don't care.  I just think you are making a big issue out of something that isn't an issue, at least where I sit and who I play with.

I know a LOT of women who fudge by well over a decade, including a few I dated. One Thai girl I dated for quite some time did astrology charts for all the other girls, probably at least 20 of them over the time we dated so I knew every one of their "real" birthdays including year. Every single one of them fudged their age by at least 5 years and many of them by ten or more and none of them ever got a bad review over it.

 
So let me ask you good Senator, are you REALLY sure they didn't lie about their age, or are you just going by their word?  Not very many johns ever find out exactly how old the hookers they see really are. Unless you get into a relationship or friendship with them, it's not like they are going to show you ID. I have a lot of hooker buddies, and just about all of them lie at least a little about their ages, the ones that "only" lie by five years consider themselves to be "the honest ones" lol

I have gotten to know quite a few girls pretty well and they just laugh about it - then shag me rotten as only a gal in her 30s can...

Generally, they say they are 24-28 and they are really a thoroughbred aged 32-36 - which IMO these days is the "sweet spot" anyway - this does however explain the change in their physical appearance as their photos correlate to the posted younger age...

...but you're right, I don't really know, with the exception of a few who I've gotten close to. However, not all of us see the same type of women. Some carry their biological age very well and still look several years younger than they really are. So who cares if they are 5 years older than they say, if they still are hot, fit, energetic and willing to ride me hard and put me away wet, I sure don't.  

My point is, it is pretty hard to disquise that you are more than 10 years older unless your pictures are very out of date. I'm able to pass on these without issue. As with any thing, there are exceptions which you've noted. I'm attracted to very different women than you are, so we won't have the same experiences.  

Solo mis dos centavos.

GaGambler100 reads

but at least you admit you don't really know if the ladies you see are lying about their age or not.  

 
In most cases it's very hard to disguise ten years worth of age, which means there are a LOT of reviewers who are either blind or simply have no standards. Even the outdated pics of many of the women claiming to be "39" are obviously of women  over 50 and I am sure they look even older in person.

 
Now Asian women can fool even the best of us. There is a HIGHLY reviewed Korean girl in Dallas who still advertises as mid thirties who I know for a fact is 56. Not that awful long ago I dated a Thai provider that I was worried was much too young to date (plenty old enough to fuck though. lol) I was actually pleasantly surprised to find out she was 38, she advertised as 26 and looked much younger.

 
Most guys, myself included will never know exactly how old most of the hookers they fuck really are, but "most" of the hookers I am friends with, have dated, or otherwise know for a fact exactly how old they are, are lying about their age, most of them by at least 5 years. The really young ones of course have no reason to lie, but most of my hooker "buddies" aren't 20 years old. lol

You are right about Asians. It's almost impossible for a white guy to guess their age. I suspect maybe natives of Asia can tell but most of us can't.

White girls might be able to get away with fudging on their age by 2-3 years but not the 7-10 or more years some of them are trying to get away with.  

John_Laroche54 reads

In hindsight, I'd say 1 in more than 50 providers I've seen was likely more than 5 years older than stated.
OTOH, of 9 providers I ended up getting to know on a personal level, none had originally lied about her age. All were 24-29 at the time we met.

Well, as those old sayings go: ( 1) A Woman, is like A Fine Wine, She gets better with time.          (2) A Rose by any other name , "Woman" will still Smell Just As Sweet.                                               (3) Experience Counts.   & My Favorite" "Ladies" is , I'm old enough To Separate, The MEN From The BOYS!!      XOXO

Well its obvious, there's always at least one jerk that wants to make a big issue of it, and if the shoe is on the other foot..most all of us are younger then the men we date.*..but as for me , love men of all ages !! ,   *xoxo

When honesty is my priority, the last person I'm going to look for is a paid companion.

 
Age means nothing to me.

1) It also seems like many ladies either top off at 39 or stay 39 for a while;
2) If you see a lady and her age is incorrect then you could send a note to TER admin and they may update her TER profile and you may receive credit;
3) This is separate thread, but when/where is it acceptable (if at all) to fudge a little (for both gentlemen and ladies)?  Age?  Weight?  Occupation?  Earnings?  Reason late?
4) I personally love more sophisticated ladies ...

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Posted By: ANiceGuyToHookUp
Re: Interesting - a few random thoughts ...
1) It also seems like many ladies either top off at 39 or stay 39 for a while;  
 
That's the old Jack Benny joke. For 41 years, he never aged beyond 39.

To low-volume hobbyists, but I learned from an OB-GYN golfing buddy that you can get with a few years of her correct age by taking a good look at her labia for telltale signs of changes that occur at various ages (that have nothing to do with usage).  You just have to know what you're looking for.

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: This is going to sound weird . . . .
To low-volume hobbyists, but I learned from an OB-GYN golfing buddy that you can get with a few years of her correct age by taking a good look at her labia for telltale signs of changes that occur at various ages (that have nothing to do with usage).  You just have to know what you're looking for.
I know a frugal veterinarian hobbyist who tells me that he can tell the age of the old nags he sees by looking at their teeth.

HappyChanges98 reads

"add xx years to her age" by the reviewer would help with the problem. Assuming he can actually gauge her age. Or, writing "age is off" somewhere in the body would help. I rarely read any mention of age in the reviews.

I'll admit I'm guilty. I've been with many provider who clearly where not the age they stated. But I left it out of the review. In fact one of them list 36-40 but says she's 52. I think she's more close to 60 but who am I to gauge. Lol.

People always teased me about having a baby face after all. I feel more comfortable advertising my correct age though.

At first it was gals lying....

Then, for the ones who want to be honest.... why does it make sense? Do I really want you to add 10 years to my age and when I 100% look vastly younger with the way my build and face are?

More often than not, guys think I am lying at 30. Eh, most people peg me at 17-24 range, because I have a thin face and not wrinkles/signs of age.

So some of you guys would be jerks and add a decade to my age, which isn;t fair if I am giving proper age and look younger.

So although girls started this BS, Now you guys carry it on.

Just keep your TER/website etc up to date with your age and don't sweat it. I've always been straight about my age and never had an issue...

C x

Posted By: AlexandraMilw
Re: At this point, guys ruined it
At first it was gals lying....  
   
 Then, for the ones who want to be honest.... why does it make sense? Do I really want you to add 10 years to my age and when I 100% look vastly younger with the way my build and face are?  
   
 More often than not, guys think I am lying at 30. Eh, most people peg me at 17-24 range, because I have a thin face and not wrinkles/signs of age.  
   
 So some of you guys would be jerks and add a decade to my age, which isn;t fair if I am giving proper age and look younger.  
   
 So although girls started this BS, Now you guys carry it on.

I have said that I don't care how old a Provider CLAIMS to be as long as I can believe it when I see her.  
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I have met some claiming to the 26-30 and 31-35 that are 100% believable even though they are much, much older. I don't care! In my eyes, I am seeing a beautiful ~30!  
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I have met a 50+ who thought that a plaid schoolgirl skirt and tight white blouse would make her appear to be 23 to me. I had to walk on that B&S.

... , who look amazing in those plaid skirts, white shirts and pony tails. Damn they look great.  

Saw them both this week. Wow!  

I know I'm off topic.  
The thought just got me revved up.

With an Asian girl than can pass for 10 years younger, but there have been exceptions for Caucasian providers who keep themselves lean and fit.  

Were their pictures accurate? Were their ads accurate? Did you go in expecting what you got? That's GREAT!
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For me, it was old pics, false claims, and a HUGE letdown. It was easy to about face and walk away.

souls_harbor61 reads

This is big!  Women lie about their age?  Who knew?  We should get this info out there -- this is big, send it to the New York Times!!!

When I send an intro, I lie about my name. I lie about my age. I lie about my cell phone number. When she responds, she lies about all the same things. Then during the session, when she calls me sexy, I'm not buying it. When I say she's the best ever, she's knows it's a line. When she says she came, well maybe. When I tell her it's the best bbbj I've ever had, I won't mention her teeth. When she tells me no one does daty better other than her lady friends, I'm a little skeptical. Then when I write my review, everybody knows she didn't cum ten times. Everybody knows she's not a ten in looks. Everybody knows I didn't explode two times. Hell, I probably couldn't even get it up. My atfs tell me that happens about 50% of the time, yet you couldn't tell reading reviews. Everybody gets it up during a review.  

This is the underworld. We're living on the edge. Some closer than others. The truth is a little hard to come by on the edge. We're all lyin' our asses off, so I don't think we should hold the ladies to a higher standard of truth concerning their age. The only higher standard of truth I care about is that she shows up. If we click we'll have fun.

I don't know why a man would bother to lie about age. What you say is mostly true but you forget that we are BUYING merchandise and a service. Even in the drug trade a dealer who lies about the quality of his merchandise will be out of business sooner or later.

So yes when it comes to that lying about age the hookers should be chastised for doing it.

I don't lie about my name, my age, or my cell number, or anything else that I can think of for that matter.

 
I can't remember the last time I told a woman she was the "best ever" and I don't expect a hooker to tell me I am the best ever either.  

 
Just because you want to justify women lying to you, doesn't mean the rest of us are so forgiving about an OTHFB showing up in place of the hottie we booked with. If you want to be a BSU, go right ahead, and if you enjoy fucking fat ugly women, that too is your right, but putting up with bad behavior just makes it all that much more common practice as the ROB don't see any negatives to lying to spineless jellyfish like yourself.

I think I did. No need for justification. Lying happens. It's a huge part of the hobby, so why make a big deal out of it? I can't believe you think we should hold women accountable to the truth. In this venue? Are you kidding me?  

I also don't believe you don't lie to the ladies. Hobbying 101-Don't be dumb enough to give out your real identity.  

Lastly, how many times are you going to post on this thread? Ten, fifteen? What was it that Rasha called us guys? Blatherskites? Finally, a lady speaking the truth.

I am happily divorced, own my own business and I have no kids. Why should I care who knows my real name?

 
Yes, lying happens, but some lies matter while others do not. Pretending to be 28 and showing up at 45 is a lie that "matters" maybe not to you if you have no standards, but I am not paying to fuck women that I can easily pick up (well except for them being too fat to pick up) at any cougar bar.

 
Just because you have no standards doesn't mean the rest of us don't.

To me it does not matter if someone is lying about their age by a few years. If I want to book a date with a girl, who is well reviewed, and maybe lying about her age. I really don't consider it. Plus I have had providers who have lied about their age by only 3 years at most and they have told me the real age. It is no big deal to me because civie women lie about their age as well.

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