Okkk Normally when I see a provider and when we're emailing or texting each other back and forth before the appointment I will say well ill see you when I get there I'm about to hop in the shower when I get there provider asks here's a towel an hop in the shower if you want I tell her that I took a long good shower before coming She Kinda gave me a weird look when she turned her head I don't think she noticed that I looked at her, I feel as if they do that to steal some time out of the time you Scheduled with them , Or sometimes they say at the end of the session you can hop in the shower if you want...   If a provider asks  me this in the future should I just turn around and walk out?? I always take a good shower before my appointment

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but to many, this means they just took one that morning, & a couple of hours has passed. If you have peed even once since taking a shower, you need to at least wash up with soap & water again. If you have touched anything on your drive over(which of course you have) you need to wash your hands. If more than a couple of hours has passed since your last shower, you should take a full shower again...sorry, it's just common courtesy. And on another note, excusing yourself to the restroom(for even 5 min) gives her time to count the donation.... unless you want her to count it out in front of you.

Ok I can see brushing my teeth which I do an washing my hands but if I just drove an hr or 2 out the way I feel like they do it just to steal time

F she wants you to take a shower then take a fucking showing. Why? Because it makes her more comfortable that's why. As for you feeling that she is doing it to cut time you are out of your fucking paranoid mind. As for walking out, go ahead walk out. Who is the loser now. YOU.

I always shower before seeing a provider as well.
Never been asked to shower before starting, but probably won't refuse if she requests.

If you just drove an hour or two, then YES, you should, at the very least, be washing up again. It has nothing to do with "stealing time"... and really... how long does a quick shower take...5-6 min? If you believe that someone is trying to "steal" 5-6 minutes of your time... maybe you are dealing with the wrong types of ladies?

I see my ATF at least twice a month, and I know she prefers that I take a shower before we start.  She does this with everyone, and personally, I'm glad she does.  Shows me that she thinks about good hygiene.  Besides, if she feels freer to touch, lick and suck more bodily parts because she knows you're clean, why not do it?

I always shower even if it we meet 10 minutes from my house.  

Not only is it proper protocol, the last thing you want is for her to have to perform smell tests or wonder if you are clean enough. I want a provider to be slurping on my cock without reservation.

Just about every post you put up here is either clueless or down-right adversarial.  A two minute shower will reap huge dividends in the way a provider treats you.  Refusing to take one will generally turn most of your body into a "no touch" zone for her.

It's your call but you need to understand that they way you conduct yourself with better providers directly effects the way that they treat you.

gfe when it comes to licking your balls and forget about messing wiht your ass. if your balls are mashed into your ass for 2 hours on the way over, they don't smell like fresh flowers dude.  
i know providers who insist every guy showers right when he gets there or they won't even touch him. she looked at you stupid because she knew you did not 'just' take a shower, but probably did so 2 or 3 hours prior.

Not everyone has been hobbying since the 70's there BG57. He just needs a little direction, that's all.

And I've only been hobbying since the 80's...

I usually do outcall, that way I can hop in the shower 15 minutes before she arrives and then be ready to open the door.

It will go a long way in making her feel comfortable. Ask her to join you.

Why do you always approach this like every provider is looking to short you some how? If it's such a big  deal to you about the time ask her to join you. She can count the $ if she wants and then get in with you.

Surely you can figure out by reading his posts that he needs a little advice.

No you can stay home!

And if you feel your time has been shorted include that when writing your review.

What kinda providers are you seeing it seems like your always worrying about your time getting shorted somehow.

He's been posting here, albeit infrequently, for a couple of years now.

If you really want to make this about me go ahead.  I've got all day...

.... As one of the first people said "everyone says they took a shower before arriving" and it may be true but in Florida heat and if you urinate a few times before we "get to it" things could get just a teeny bit stale down there. If you're an "environmentalist" and use lightweight antiperspirant but no deodorant you might be more ripe than you realize.  

in fact I usually bring up the subject of my need to shower at her incall,  during emails before the session. It goes a long way in putting a provider at ease. And has been brought up already in this thread,  if you feel as though the provider is shorting you time because of the shower, you need to do better research, and find escorts who don't mind the extra minutes involved in you showering.  

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If you brush your teeth before DATY the risk of exchanging blood between you and the provider will be greater.

Listen jackass. You told the guy to stay home. He didn't need your little shithead comment.

I said he was relatively new. You brought in the semantics, so go out and get some fresh air or hit that bar for a drink. The bar with the flattened stool.

All she wants you to do is take what's called "a quick rinse." Soap up and rinse your crotch and ass, under your arms, rinse and dry off.  If it takes you more than two minutes, you have a problem.  I always arrive clean but if she suggests a quick rinse I just do it to make her comfortable.  The day I worry about someone "stealing" two minutes of my time I should play a different game.  Besides, most of the girls I see will let things run a few minutes over.

Yeah, it's safer to use a good antiseptic mouthwash before/after appointments- brushing abrades the gums and creates tiny wounds which make disease exchange more likely. Never brush directly before/after appointments!

Totally agree. A quick shower shows the ladies we appreciate what they are about to do, and I have yet to be with a lady that watches the clock that closely

Yes!  In fact, for the same reason it's also a bad idea to floss that morning.

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I've never been asked though sometimes I like to start there & request it.  I usually have the benifit of leaving from home in which case I'm right out of the shower.  If I can get to her in in under an hour, I'd just spot wash without getting into the shower.  Over an hour, I'd shower again.  I have been complimented "You're always nice & clean!"  

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Cheap and effective.

Well, actually, you are name calling.  Why so angry?

By the way, you re not the board police.  I'm not going to stop putting posts up but you are more than welcome to stop reading them.

Furthermore I'd say that affects my performance

If you can't support your argument without calling the other guy names it's not much of an argument.

I'm not the one doing the name calling here.

Like I said, if you want to make this about me that's fine. I'm not sure how we got from a post about hygiene to your apparent obsession with my past history here on TER but hey, whatever...

I have it on my site that I prefer my gentlemen callers to have good hygiene and haven't been disappointed lately. If you take a shower right before you leave the house and spend a couple mins in the bathroom spot cleaning I believe that is sufficient. I don't feel that you'd need a full shower, but if you want the full GFE experience, and for me to explore all of your 2000 parts I really think you should be open to a wash up of the boys and for sure your hands! Us ladies are sensitive and need to keep ourselves as germ free as possible inside and out. I think it makes the experience much nicer for both parties and we can concentrate on having an excellent time! I also suggest a shower afterward for my special friends benefit, but I love to play with oil.... LOL I guess thats for another conversation.