in thinking that the provider appreciated me as a cliet and  would be more likely to want to book again.


HH

Guys what are your views on thank you notes?

For example :
Do you feel like the provider really had a good time with you?
Does it make you feel warm & fuzzy inside?
ect...

~* Your Rockstar Barbie Doll
Krista Starr

On the guy and how cynical he might be towards the business. Some will appreciate it and others won't care one way or the other. I personally think it make for a nice ending to an appointment.

Thank you notes/e-mails are nice, but I assume that it's all part of the illusion to get you to come back.  But that's why we do this...to have our egos stroked by beautiful women.

Christ, now I really am depressed.....

Just common courtesy, and my way of telling her I may be calling her again.  As for receiving notes, nice of the lady to take a few minutes to let me know she enjoyed the time together.  Things like that will be taken into consideration in deciding to see her again.

Not sure whether they'll allow your link to remain, but I couldn't help but follow it...wow, that ink's hot!   If you ever decide to tour NYC...  

'Your Rockstar Barbie Doll' would be pretentious and you'd presume he had a great time before he actually wrote a review, it at all...

Just sayin'...

a nice touch.
Depending on the provider, client & services rendered, a little hand written note is very thoughtfull.
It shows that you took the time to put it together and the forethought about the individual client. I'm a newbie, so I dont speak from experience, however, if after my first time I was handed a note that read thank you jj blah blah blah, I'd have like it. I know it would a marketing ploy, but I know pepsi stoops to much lower forms than a personal handwritten note & I'm loyal to them.

Now if I had just spent 2 hours strapped up, beaten, gagged and forced to lick your boot heals - maybe I wouldn't need a sweet thank you card. But maybe you could force me to write one to you before I leave.

JJ.

...... online " Thank You " notes or other occasion greeting cards.  I understood the reasoning but appreciated the gesture.
I also had one other special lady send me text messages wishing me Happy Fathers Day, birthday and other holiday wishes. I knew that this was a "tickle" message to remind me of her and the truth is, it did work, whenever I received her message I went into a daydream mode thinking about how frigging hot she was.

It's funny that Krista posted this message because I have communicated with her lately in an attempt to sway her in the direction of Las Vegas for Halloween but she isn't buying it.

The one lady that I would Love to someday receive a Thank You note from is in Arizona.  Do airlines fly into Arizona ?

The Mrs. at home wouldn't feel all warm & fuzzy inside, now would she?

...but Drunken Asian, he luvs love notes. LOL

Wow!! I love your pics!! Sooo sexy!!

To answer your question I would appreciate a note if you enjoyed our time together!

Jd

I agree a nice touch but not required, however it would be nice to get a thank you from a gal if you suggested that a few of your boys go see her and they did. It would take her only a few seconds to do that especially if you put a few grand in her pocket

Be honest in a brief note.  It was mentioned a feww days ago on this board that ladies hate it when a guy says "I bet you say that to all the guys."  Just be brief and sincere.

Also, keep it via his hobby email.  Texts aren't a good idea in much of he hobby world.  Though some guys can deal with it, it's a BAD idea to assume a guy can.

That would be nuts!

But never required.  And as others have said, it shoud be sincere and if possible, personalized ("The flowers are beautiful", or "I loved the wine at dinner", "Your nose is the perfect size", etc.).

Do you really think any monger with half a brain would give a provider his street address?  Only a very few  of them require you to show a driver's license but they just do a quick  scan of your name and photo.  Unless she's got a photographic memory she'll never recall your street address.  And she'd have to have less than half a brain to send a snail mail note anyway.
Besides, most mongers won't even see a gal who requires that kind of screening.

Yep, that's nice,  bigav, but it really ain't my ego I want her to stroke!  lol!

The entire hobby is a fantasy, so the thank you text/email on your leaving the session is  just part of the fantasy as well.

Then Hell, yes!!   Just a brief "I had a good time"  "See you again"

As a client, I like to express my enjoyment of a session.  Rarely do I get a reply.   A "Me too"  "Hope to see you again"  Would be nice.  

In either direction, brief & to the point.  On the other hand if you don't give a flying forklift if he calls again, just ignore anything he sends that does not lead off with Benjamins.
H

it does make me feel good. Makes me think that I made a connection with the girl and she really enjoyed the time with me and was alittle more then just a business transaction. Also will make our next session that much better because the note will be in the back of my mind. Just my $0.02

In business, I always give a follow-up call to say thanks - it's a professional courtesy. After a civvie date, I always give a follow-up call to say thanks - it's an ego caress. After a rendezvous with a lady, I always send a thank-you note. This is not meant to be anything but "Thanks!" - an acknowledgement of time spent together. I do appreciate one back, but not for any reason other than "Thanks!" - an acknowledgement of time spent together.

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A thank you note for the many lap dances ordered by a gentleman 20 years ago has evoked a still continuing long distance friendship, along with a glittering annual Christmas gift in the mail for a close friend of mine.

It's amazing what a little show of gratitude can sow.

sure they do Romeo, but sometimes it's so hot the tarmac melts and the planes can't take off or land....

and on thread... yes Krista, a thank you e-mail is appreciated...

I have been in the hobby only a few months but I make it a point to either e-mail or text with thanks and letting the lady know that I had a good time and I intend to repeat. If the lady did everything as promised and advertised, I make it a point to appreciate it...

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Yes it would make me feel good and stroke my ego, and add to the fantasy, to feel like I was really appreciated, and she had a good time and enjoyed meeting me, but just the fact that I gave her a wad of cash should call for a thank you. It's a common courtesy thing. I am also in a service industry, and I send thank yous to my customers, and I receive thank yous from  people and companies, that I give business to, including my dentist!

Not only are thank you emails rare, but I rarely even get a “you're welcome” email.  I always send thank yous to the provider, and more times than not, I don't get a reply. If they are not going to send out a thank you to me, at least acknowledge my “thank you.”  Some ladies, I even tipped well and not heard anything. Is it asking too much to expect to be appreciated? A little acknowledgement "Hey thanks for the tip." "Thanks for the extra." "Hey, I just opened my envelope and you made a mistake. There is too much in it." It would be nice to hear some kind of feedback.

On the other hand, one incident that always makes me feel good was after getting home from a two hour first time date with a provider,  I turn on my computer to start typing a thank you email to her, and in my inbox is a thank you from her.  She told me she enjoyed meeting me and how thoughtful I was for the gift. (I had put a couple gift cards in the envelope with the cash -- nothing big, only 25 dollar value Starbucks and Bed Bath and Beyond cards) This was 4 years ago and I haven't seen this girl since (only because she never came back to my town) but we still communicate with each other by email occasionally. I think that “thank you” was genuine and heartfelt. Why would she be still communicating with me years later,when I haven't given her any additional business?

It had barely been 5 minutes after leaving her incall and my phone received a text: "It was lovely to meet you and you are welcome back anytime!" Was it sincere? Only she knows. But it's always nice to hear someone enjoyed your company and to be invited back.

Bottom line: I thought it was a really cool gesture...and the next time I'm in her town she's getting a call.  If that was her motive, it worked.

Dumbjock

Alias it would be via Email .
C'mon now use Common Sense

Romeo I just bought a new puppy . So I couldnt possibly go to vegas and play ( even though I would love to go clubbing in a tight , sexy, black dress with you )

I can't leave my new puppy home alone.
Her name is Candy . She is an 8 week old English Bull Dog

....come on out and stay in luxury for free (plus compensation).... you and Candy together.

PLEASE !!!

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In a buisness/psychology sense yes that'll be the smartest thing to do and a must. What providers do is a buisness more like a service and that small thank you note would probably adhere to 60% of your clients (im only speaking in average). Now if you haven't done itb efore that's 60% of profit you lost in which you could've made with that small note. Now to be realistic your clienteles are probably more upscale judging by scanning through your website and reviews so probably 95% of your clienteles would react positively and the 5% might react neutrally so I SAY YES do it.