Do you find frequenting the same provider to be beneficial? Is the second visit better than the first time or about the same? Have you ever ventured off to try something new and wish you had not? I'm curious on your thoughts because I know most of you hobby for the variety. Thanks.

I have, currently, two regular ladies that I have known-one for seven years and one for four-and see all the time.  In addition there are a few agencies that I use when traveling to add a bit of variety into the mix.

I don't usually answer this kind of question because it's been asked so many times before.  But you seem nice and I want to encourage nice ladies to post here.  So....
I tend to like a combination of variety with regular returns to ladies I know do it for me.  By that I mean I will keep going back, every few months or so, to gals I click with.  In between, I am continually auditioning new gals to be added to my rotation.  Said rotation keeps getting bigger.  Whatever am I to do?

Between seeing a  regular lady and intermittent variety. Each time with my regular lady gets better and the occasional variety satsifies the need to explore.

Encouraging nice ladies to post here??  
Auditioning new gals??
Your so full of......

And another lame one.  Can't you do better than that?  Really?  Poor Dungbeetle.  Your last review was almost a year ago.  Bet that was the last time you got laid.


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Saw my ATF in March knowing I would not play for 4 months at least. No Daty! Bookd with my second fav  and she cancelled 3 hours before our deal

U got shafted ? Taken for granted . Its bullshit. If the reg. Boards were better , and by that guys showing an interest, this wouldn't happen . I was overseas for a few months before I left I saw a girl who ripped off a guy with a new name bullshit pics and a dopey guy saying how nice she was . ? Another guy newb was smitten , the photos years old and take and she had no reviews . But still had her other name up also on her website . And nobody called her out ? I often asked for her reviews and she wouldn't reply? And 1 guy pm s me and I explained , even told him to look up mtge thread where she ripped off a good standing member , and he was - I liked her ? Who a jerk off . Sorry for your situation find new girls.

..... Spending time with an ATF as I have over the period of time that I have turned out to not be a very good idea.

I would visit Vegas for a 7 to 10 day stay and spend 3 or 4 24 hour sessions with my favorite of the time.

In that period of time she would become a bit too comfortable or probably way too comfortable in beginning to feel that she didn't have to try quite so hard at all.

In no time it was feeling like a marriage. We hung around together, partied together, spent each night together but the sex dropped off significantly over time.

I traveled to Vegas to find a solution to my loneliness but over time found myself stuck in the same situation that I tried to escape from.

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I've hopscotched amongst providers but I've also seen the same provider anywhere from 15-30 times each spread out over months or even years.  The repeats were women who were so sexually compatible that the only reason I stopped seeing them is because they retired, moved away, etc.  The hopscotching is because there is always the promise of the next great lay just over the horizon.

that sucks bro...sorry to hear that happened to you

after several months of different ladies, i've found the quality of experience i get within the same price range to be so varied.  i've seen it all from "knock your socks off," down thru "decent sex with a nice girl so why am i paying for this" to downright "lady are you sure you've done this before?"

I'm in an even smaller boat than you. I can afford three hours a month with one provider, but that's it.  The experiences I had in 2012 and 2011 were okay, but the girl now is so far above those others that I'd rather stick with a sure thing. If I had the cash to throw around that other members here apparently have, it would be different.

Some do not but many seem to lose there interest in keeping it new and exciting.

...I mean this is not a hobby for me but a full time job.  

Jayla I am a distinct minority here....  after running out of what looked to be one scary BP provider and an old Eros ad that showed 10yr old pics for that one, I found this site and bought a VIP membership and did some research...

If I wanted an ATF. I would get a girlfriend.
Not to say I never repeat. But it's rare.
I never understood the concept of the ATF.
Half of the excitement is the fact that I don't know her.
I'll admit sex gets better when you know each other..
But to pay someone in that way to me is a little creepy.
That's girlfriend territory. Know what I mean?
I guess it might be different if I were married, or older.
But I would kinda be ashamed of myself if I only saw one girl.
No offense to those who do that.. It's just not me.

If it hit it off with someone, it just gets better with time.  

That is a lot of time for that lady to be "on". Even if she liked you. She is still doing a job and at that many 24 hour stretches, well, she is way more woman than I'll ever be.

I tried the variety for a while, but I kept coming back to the same lady. For a little while I'd try something new, but it just didn't compare. And the time together didn't drop off; it actually got better.  

genious Simply because someone is labeled a hobbyist, does not mean that all people you see are hobbyists, doesn't designate all hobbyists are the same.