I recently saw a provider and had a mixed experience.  First, I got caught in some traffic was around 8 minutes late.  Once I arrived, I placed my donation on the table.  She then proceeded to count it while I was sitting on the bed.  I realize this is the first time meeting her, but I was completely taken back as this has never happened to me before.  Then, she quickly stripped and grabbed a cover and put it on the bed.  Although it there was some hot and heavy action, I felt at times she was very mechanical and in a rush.  I made a special effort to give her pleasure.  I got soft while I was going down on her for a good 5 minutes.  She gave a lame effort to get me hard and then said time was up even though I still felt I had ten minutes left.  She told me I should have scheduled an hour long appointment and then rushed me out the door.  I usually get an hour appointment but have had some good half hour ones as well.  This one not so much

 I read previous reviews on this provider and they were all glowing reviews.  A lot of high marks.  Did I catch on a bad day and should just let it go or post a honest review of what happened? I don't want to ruin her reputation or seem like the bad guy.

Any feed back would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Some providers hate half hours and judge the clients who book them as cheap and treat them accordingly.  She probably figures you're used to it.
If a provider has an offering at a half hour or a special rate its her responsibility to come through and be a star in every session no matter its duration or not offer it.

It would be the right thing to do to write an accurate review.

I presume the 8 minutes you were late were being counted against you (Which by rights she could do.), So that left 22 minutes.  Are you saying she forced you out after just 12 minutes of action?  If so, that's something to weigh against her, but if she gave you the full 22 minutes, then she is not at fault.

I also suspect that if you went soft that there is not a good chemistry between you, and that is no one's fault, it is just a fact, so you should not mention that.

To recap, yes, write a review that states the facts clearly (I.e, you were late, she counted the money in front of you, etc.)  Also mention the plusses like her heavy action, etc.

But I think this is a cautionary tale that half hour sessions are seldom a good idea unless you want a clear "wham-bam, thank you maam" session, which is OK with some guys.

It sounds to me you want and need more time.

It is also a good lesson to always arrive early in case of traffic, etc.

Thanks for asking and sharing this tale.

Understand that for a lot of volume providers the clock is ticking from the time you book the appointment, she probably had another appointment afterwards and was pissed off.  You have to manage your own time well in half hours.

I won't even speculate on the session, as there is your side, her side and the facts. Now about writing a review, you know you can write it anonymously and you also have 90 days to submit the reveiw. Either way it's your call,  good luck.

SkyFell,

Maybe it was his fault, however, most providers will buffer their appointments to account for traffic issues and other unforeseen problems. Even the providers have been known to be late for sessions.

Scheduling back to back to back appointments is NOT a good way to do business. IMHO.

Serpius

... his fault, however, most providers will buffer their appointments to account for traffic issues and other unforeseen problems.

Even the providers have been known to be late for sessions due to traffic issues.

The biggest thing is to COMMUNICATE with the provider/hobbyist stating that you're going to be late for the session. If that is done, there should not be any kind of negativity for the session.

I've had that happened to me before and I always communicated with the provider. They have been understanding and will not hold my tardiness against me.

Scheduling back to back to back appointments is NOT a good way to do business. IMHO.

Serpius

First of all, I wasn't there, I don't know you, and I haven't heard her side of the story, so I can only comment on what you say.

If you schedule an appointment, you get there on time. Take the traffic and shove it up your ass. If you work for me and are late more than once because of "traffic", you are fired. Grow up.

If a provider does 30-minute appointments, she is not doing one a day. In fact, there's a pretty good chance she had somebody else coming in 30-60 minutes. She's trying to make a living.

If DATY is what you want in your 30 minute session, then that's your right and more power to you. It would be my choice, too (not the 30-minute part, though). But if you can't keep an erection, and have already wasted 1/3 of your apt, whose fault is that?

"Mechanical" and "Rushed" sort of come with the territory with 30 minute appointments. Guys who schedule 30 minute appointments are usually in a hurry and WANT to get in and out. If you scheduled 30 minutes to save money and then expected a relaxed, luxurious session, you were delusional. Oh, and then showed up late too boot.

A great provider will not count the donation in front of you, even if it is your first session. Maybe she was annoyed that you were late, I don't know. Maybe she figured that if she excused herself to the bathroom and took her time counting that you'd think she was stalling and wasting even more of the time.

Maybe she was rushing you because the session was half over, you were flaccid, and she wanted you to come before you left. Again, I don't know.


All I know is what you tell me. You say she has glowing reviews with high marks, and your session was bad, all I can do is look at the things YOU did to make it bad and comment on them.

There's no "maybe". He was late, it's his fault. You want a provider to be "on call" for 15 minutes before and 15 minutes after your scheduled time "to account for traffic problems and other unforseen problems?" Pay her to be on call, just like any hourly employee in any business would expect. She's charging a half-hour rate, and is not responsible to give an hour's service. It's bullshit anyway, "unforseen problems" are the battle cry of the habitually late.

Maybe she did schedule back-to-back appointments, and I agree it's not the best scenario. How do you know she did that? Maybe she built in a 30 or 60 minute buffer BECAUSE SHE WANTED THE TIME TO SHOWER, RELAX, AND GET READY FOR THE NEXT APPOINTMENT. She should give that up, and essentially shortchange the next guy because YOU were late? Or maybe you think she should just book one or two 30 minute sessions per day. There's a get-rich-quick scheme.

There is an agency I know of (probably many, but one I know intimately) that specializes in 30 minute appointments, catering to the mid-day business hobbyist outside a big, busy city. The owner is highly respected in this field, the girls receive consistently high reviews, and they've been around for more than ten years. I guess it's a pretty good way for THEM to do business, regardless of your "humble opinion".

Your appointment starts at the scheduled time and ends at the scheduled time. You being 8 minutes late does not mean she should give you 8 free minutes.

Do you get upset when everyone else in the world that you hand money to counts it? This is a business.

Also you booked her for 30 minutes. You already used 8 of those before you got in the door. With 22 minutes left, yes that's a rush. She didn't have enough time to properly give you what you wanted.

I really don't see anything wrong with her actions. You should've booked a longer appointment or not have been late.

... the providers who are late. Whose fault is that? How should that situation be handled?

By placing the entire blame on the hobbyist for something that is beyond his control is not fair. Even leaving early to account for traffic issues does not guarantee that the hobbyist or even the provider will be on time.

Shit happens and it's no one's fault.

Paying the provider to be "on call" is a silly suggestion because if an employee works a typical 8 hour day, but he/she arrives to work late due to a traffic issue, the employee will be docked for their tardiness. So, if the hobbyist arrives late, then he/she will lose that amount of time, regardless if it's a 30 or 60 minute (or longer) session. What about if the provider arrives at the "outcall" location late? What then?

The original poster never mentioned that he was habitually late. He was late only ONE time and by 8 minutes, not 15 minutes.

Serpius

Say what you want, but don't do it because you owe something to others here, because that is just bullshit.

What I can definitely tell you is that if she has your contact information and your real information, you run the risk of getting retaliation if the review is bad.  So keep that in mind.  If your info gets outed by a spiteful provider, the guys who give you props for writing an honest review won't be around to share in that risk.  So keep that in mind.

If you have an issue with the provider, contact her first and let her try to solve it.

I would say that you have a lot more downside than upside.

If people REALLY must know who she is, they can PM you.  Otherwise, like I said, you don't owe them shit.

Why would I address the "provider being late" issue? What does that have to do with the OP?

Shit happens, and it's no one's fault? Again, the cry of the habitually late. People who respect other people's time are ON time.

and you say that if a hobbyist arrives late, he will lose that amount of time. Exactly. If you schedule a 30 minute session, from 1 to 1:30, and you arrive at 1:08, your session still ends at 1:30. So what's your argument?

A half hour connotes rushed in and of itself honey....takes most guys 10 min. just to freshen up and get undressed. What do you expect? I don't get how one can even offer a true gfe in a half hour, or an hour really. She is a half hour provider, so you pretty much got what is indicative of that type of service. If I did half hours, there would be zero sex, kissing, etc. It would be strictly fbsm with a bj.

This has nothing to do with her having his info. Or potentially being spiteful.

*HE* scheduled a 30 minute appt. Then showed up 8 minutes late, pissing away a third of the time he scheduled. Now he wants to know if he should write a negative review because he felt rushed in the twenty-two minutes he had left?

The better question would be: how could he not feel rushed? And she took, what.....30 secs to count his money?The downside is anyone with half a working brain should recognize he is an idiot. And yet, he still....seems to think she slighted him on time.

If that provider got pissed about him writing a negative review? I wouldn't blame her one bit. She would have every right to be pissed.



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He'll try to bring you down to his level of incompetence and then beat you with experience.

I'm an advocate of sharing information that might be relevant to other hobbyists. Sometimes showing up late or staying later is OK (particularly if you call the girl ahead of time). It's good for others to know that this particular girl is all about punctuality.

However.

Half-hour sessions are the hobbyist version of Walmart. You should expect a business-like experience when you chose an economy-length session. For 30 minutes, the girl expects that you're showing up for a quick bang, no conversation before or cuddling after. With an hour long session, 8 minutes is a drop in the bucket; in this case, it was almost a third of your time together.

I'm curious about something. You say that you "still felt I had 10 minutes left". Was it just a feeling, or is that what the clock said? Is it possible she stopped you about 30 minutes after your scheduled start time? My guess is that you were hoping she would alter your appointment to accommodate your late arrival.

Whether you write the review or not, let it be a learning experience that showing up on time is very important, and the length of time you book implies your interest level. Think of a similar industry, strip clubs. Most guys come up to the stage with $1's or $5's, you were rifling through your pockets for a quarter.

then again, what is a provider to do when she has a pimp, works for an agency that demands she see 6 a day, or she just needs the money? I never see more than one on any given day locally, but touring it is usually 2. I try to book one at 10 or 11 a.m. then another at night, but it does not always work out that way I am afraid.

I won't be "on call" before and after, but I do take into account that shit can happen. If I want the money, it would serve me well to allow an hour of traffic time for the guy just in case. What is the alternative to not doing that? I either miss the appt. entirely or I am in the situation we see here, having to rush through it. Neither of those options appeal to me, so I just make sure to take into consideration that things can and usually do happen when one is driving to meet me.