considering it's BDSM appointments, and there is no determined length of time...What if all of the appointments were like 4 hours long??

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no way

he justs wants to use and abuse you..make your ends meet somewhere else..your health and well being are worth a lot more than a thousand..

Why not PM with Zoe Piers?

She has some great experience in story telling  LOL

But you'll have to work on the embellishment factor in your story.  Your bud likes to "tie up" girls and sees Dommes.  Kind of bizarre as that is just backwards given YOUR story.

And as long as he likes his gals on the "athletic" side...you'll be fine.  But if you're fudging on the weight issue...might be closer to BBW.

Maybe you can get him to prepay for two years worth...that would be $ 24,000.  Give that a shot first!

I don't do SD type deals any other way, so be warned. If you allow him to pay you weekly, you never know if that's going to suddenly stop. For a g a month, he would only get an hour at a time each week, but by my normal rate that saves him a lot actually.

Do what you feel comfortable with, but don't let him pay you weekly. If you do it that way, then tell him the fee is more...end of story. If he wants an "arrangement" and not an escort pay as you go, he has to pay upfront.

To me that sounds low, but I've heard stories of girls doing far more for much less in the sugar world. It really boils down to what you are comfortable with. Since you are coming here asking it tells me you are not comfortable in the arrangement. If you're trying to make ends meet why not become an escort? You can do one dinner date a week, and almost make what he is offering for the whole month. He should at least be covering your bills and offering up a few shopping trips & dinners.

Does he know how to tie up a submissive properly? The BDSM board on this site has some dominants and submissives who can advise you on how to check this person out and make sure he knows what he is doing and won't leave you all marked up from badly placed ropes. Some say to do it in a supervised dungeon first. Anyway, somehow $1K monthly seems a little low if the hours are not mentioned.

Hours need to be defined.  And paid up front.  Supervision at first.  No Marks.  Safe word.   You are taking the greater risk here.  He clearly wants more than GTE...  
if I were you, I'd pass.  If you decide to proceed, baby steps & nothing that makes you unsafe.  
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1.  Anything you agree to has to be paid upfront, in advance.

2.  You need to establish guidelines and boundaries, from safe words to rules during session, to time of session.

3.  Only you can define whether the rate is good for you.  That's $250/week.  How much time are you willing to put in to get $250 every week?  Only you can define that.

Bottom line is if you feel comfortable with him and the money. Talk about it first and set ground rules (no BDSM if you don't want to do it)  He is getting a good deal so he should expect some limits.
Have you been with him before, if not you should spend some time with him before setting an arrangement.
Finally be prepared for the worst (feelings on either part, expectations not being met, one gets tired of the arrangement)

While you may need the money based on my experience in a similar situation there are alot of other things that come up that make it good or bad.

Are you in Raleigh? i'm looking to replace my current arrangement