(First, I could have worded things differently, but similar inquiries with other gals have led to good discussions and then good encounters.)


This time I wrote:

To: [email protected]
Sent: Tuesday, July 23, 2002 9:48 AM
Subject: dc trip

Hi Gauge, I was thinking of trying to see you when you visited dc next week. I'm on the edge, deciding whether it's worth it. Maybe if you e-flirt with me a bit, it will help me decide.

Also, is it true you don't have implants or breastwork? You can be honest. I'm just wondering.

Thanks,


SHE RESPONDED:

Please, get over yourself.
With an attitude like that, buy some astroglide and watch my movies, closest you'll ever get to me.

LOL - there's your e-flirt.


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So, lay it on me; what blunders have I made here? I was just doing some research, which seemed smart considering the $1,500 price tag. Actually, I feel the research has paid off.

Anyway, perhaps it isn't really her behind that address.

Maybe it's cognitive disassociation.



-- Modified on 7/24/2002 7:46:03 AM

You wanted to know so here it goes. When you contact a woman, you should know whether it is worth it or not. What did you expect her to say? "I get 1500 for a session, but I am not that good." If you have done your research, why were you asking about breast implants? If somewhere it states they are real, then they are real. Never contacted someone of that caliber for a session, but she has to be a busy gal (as are most escorts) so why would she waste her time e-flirting? Answering phone calls and emails take up a lot of time. Some ladies don't mind, but most do. They have other things to do in life and time is precious.

is failure to communicate. Under the circumstances, I think Gauge's response was rather restrained and she was obviously joshing you, with the, here's your e-flirt buddy.

I have dabbled in the PSE arena once. Saw Sierra, a truly erotic woman who enjoys what she does. What I especially like about Sierra is that she isn't with an agency, does her own screening, sees the clients that she chooses to, and her donation is a reasonable 700/2.

Not all of these ladies have the inclination or time to conduct the escort portion of their work in this manner. But I did get a few, very nice e-mails from Sierra and a sweet phone call or two. It's a nice personal touch, so I can appreciate your request to Gauge, even though your wording was a bit awkward. Bottom line, she did take the time to respond to your message...... MfSD.

If you actually sent this email to a provider then you are a ignoramus.  This is not research, you want her to ask you to visit her.  Then by asking her about her breasts is implying you're too good for her is they're fake.  She's right, get over yourself.  Read the reviews on her, look at her pictures then decide.  Personally, $1500 buys a lot of astroglide and movies!

You gave away your youth, proved that you weren't doing your homework, and made an outrageous and unreasonable request.

You need to pay closer attention to the exchanges on the board.
Here's a comment a couple of weeks ago from Lisa of Chicago on this very subject:

"lots of younger guys (& probably older as well), use pen pal in lue of a subscription xxx. W/no interest in actually scheduling."

You can see the full context here:

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Messageid=25190

It was a rookie, bonehead move on all counts, especially to pull on Gauge, for crying out loud.

your friend,
riker

dear keanu,

i'm thinking about trying to see you sometime soon. i'm just on the edge because i don't know if it will be worth it. maybe if you beg me a little?

anyway, i was wondering if you've had that penis enhanced at all. c'mon, you can tell me the truth, we're pals aren't we?

love,
someone you don't know from adam


you know, kid, i really can sympathize with you. i've often pored over ads, websites, etc, trying to figure out if the one or two specific things i am looking for are offered. that's what reviews and discussion boards are for, so we can help each other out. but try your above approach when buying ANYTHING and see what a warm welcome you get. NOT!

Dear Keanu,

it can't be easy being a guy!  And I dont think any one of us grows up without doing foolish things ... (I cringe at myself) But please dont shoot yourself in the foot by saying these things to a lady with whom you intend to spend intimate time and be treated well?

I have to tell you that your email does truly come off as arrogant when in actuality you might have been bracing yourself because you are a bit shy or tight in the pocketbook?

Sometimes out in dance clubs, guys will tell me later that they are intimidated by me, but by the way they have acted, I feel like they think I am dirt.

Anyhow, we ladies get every kind of email there is, but personally Id rather get one where a guy tells me he is wanking off to my pics, rather than get one that tells me to prove I am worth my fee.  I dont even deal with those kinds of attitudes (it usually indicates to me that money is really tight with the feller, so tight that he might even rip me off, or at least push for two hours when he has contracted for one.)  

Ouch, you dont want ladies thinking that of you.  

Also, I dont mind a bit of echat, and a bit of phone might be desirable to some ladies to get a feel for the man, as you seem to intend with the lady, but we do get inundated by emails and calls, that's why I dont use instant messengers, and why I have autoresponse and a newsletter.

Good Luck, it'll get better, look at all the support you have here )

xoxo

FiFi





-- Modified on 7/24/2002 1:31:03 PM

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 11:41:20 AM

cause God gave us a brain and a dick but only enough blood to operate one at a time!

Amen brother. I struggle every day!

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 12:29:10 PM

I do require a little bit of a connection myself, to make sure I'm not getting ripped off or that she is dysfunctional, but I see none of that here.  Keep in mind the amount of weirdos she has ot dealwith on a regular business. Being a porn actress isn't quite like selling insurance, you know.

Way I see it, if you had any amount of play to you whatsoever, you might not have had to request for said "e-flirt".

I kind of like the young lady's style myself!

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=22&Page=1&Messageid=1813

DD

What kind of response did you actually expect from that email?

Now, onto some points:

1. Porn stars don't always answer their own email.  This may not have been Gauge but based on the response I think it was actually her reply.  However, alot of the ladies have others respond.

2. Gauge is 100% natural and I know that from personal experience.  Absolutely NO implants!


Lastly, nobody but yourself can decide whether seeing a particular lady is worth the fee.  I suggest doing the research and then making an informed decision.


Happy Birthday Gauge!

San Te

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 2:22:19 PM

If a guy were to talk to your mother or sister like that, how would you feel?   Talk to all women as you would want your mother or sister spoken to and you should do fine.  Your email correspondance was not gentlemanly and you were not respectful.

Posting private email correspondance on a public discussion board is not discreet.




-- Modified on 7/24/2002 4:05:10 PM

Howdy, you big ole sweet thang!!  Are those your real teeth?  If not, would you consider taking them out during your French lessons?  I will even give you a couple extra dollars if you will. Your pictures shore are purrty and those storebought titties are nice-can't even see where they went in on you to make em bigger.  Are your nips sensitive after having them thar implants?
PS  I bet you don't sweat too much for a big girl either.
Can't wait to hear from you as I bet I made you wet.
Bubba

Can my dawg join us??? He has a real cold nose that will drive you up the wall if I dont.

Damn Hoss, at least you're consistant. LOL

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 6:55:49 PM

she wants you to e-mail her back and negotiate a lower rate. LOL

Just jumping on the pile. I've done more moronic things in e-mails that I'd rather not discuss, so don't feel alone.

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 6:59:35 PM

as I was born ignorant and have been losing ground ever since.  We rednecks will inherit the earth with our pick-ups and huntin dawgs and a bumper sticker that says, "Coon Hunters do it all night".

-- Modified on 7/24/2002 7:03:04 PM

Gotta get those pickups off the blocks first

But I do agree with you. It's bad form on top of everything. Someone protect Keanu from himself!

It was a successful exchange. I haven't even looked at her picture since then. That's 1,500 I can spend elsewhere. Imagine how I can enjoy that money.

Again, I said the wrong thing. Yet, she apparently doesn't need to nurture a clientele in that way, whereas other gals have chosen to communicate with me a bit thru email, in fact luring me in, to their credit, and gain. A friend of mine emailed Gauge more tactfully and she pretty much dissed him too. She needn't care, she's a star. But I'm fine with it all too.

Lesson learned. Yet, thanks to ter members who emailed me with more supportive responses. A sample:

"My total disinterest is because I've read the reviews and seen the pics. Besides any savvy person knows that the porn star escort bubble is likely to burst this Year in a series of Mann Act prosecutions all over. The porn world is far too much in your face, and we have an AG who covers up breasts on marble statues. Gauge did you a favor by keeping you out of her and her agency's computer, and perhaps saving you from an embarassing FBI visit."

In reference to other girls who have "lured you in" do you realize many of these emails aren't even the porn star?  Many times it isn't even a female who is responding to the emails.  For instance I have exchanged instant messages with somebody who claimed to be Gauge; it was not her!  The person wasn't able to answer some questions like Gauge's cell phone number which she had given me when we met.  I am pretty sure I know who was trying to impersonate her.  Always be skeptical because you never know who is on the other end of an email.

In reference to the possible future LE problems by the high profile agencies, I think it is not a question of whether one will get busted but when.  

Lastly, even though I saw Gauge and had a fun time I would not pay $1,500 per hour to see anybody.  It is just way too high, especially in the current economy.


San Te

-- Modified on 7/25/2002 3:26:06 PM

Take that $1500 and run do not walk to a PROVIDER who can appreciate your generosity.

Anyway, I was just trying to liven things up by sharing that whole exchange.

You might never see this, and I might email you about it anyway.

Already this morning I was going to jokingly comment about your harshness regarding the fellows who repeatedly went after Rip-Offs. But I figured they deserve it a bit. And perhaps I do too.

Yet, then I saw your post regarding Keanu's attitude. You, tho, could lighten up a bit.

after all this discussion and your own admission that you were a jerk, you close by basically saying that it was good that you learned what a jerk Gauge was, and that she's not worth your time or money.

The truth is that she did exactly the right thing in the situation you presented her with. And she did it with class.

The net is; you don't seem to have learned a thing.

All respect,

riker

ps: I'll work on my attitude