When I was in my 20s, there was a real male ego thing with me about being the best in bed. Back then I had the libido, eqipment, energy, and relatvely good looks to attain that goal.

Now that I'm approaching Grandfather status, a lot of those assets are no longer available and neither are many free girlfriend providers. As a matter of fact, I prefer to go to providers from this site for many reasons.

I can't help but think that a provider with a client like me is not really into sex for herself 99% of the time. Good providers will provide the fantasy, and I thank them. But I would prefer to have an honest provider who would be the F***or and let me be the F***ee and forget about me trying to satisfy her. As an example, I have compensated for my age by becoming, IMHO, the best pussy eater East of the Mississippi. If the provider is not into me or sex for herself at the moment, I'd rather pass on the pussy licking and tell her how to get me off.

I don't want to offend, but I don't want to waste her time and mine if its something she would prefer to forego at the time and would allow me to do for my sake.

What is the delicate way to put this to a Provider??

I had my first set of kids late in life...

but - I have found that the ladies know, and the good ones are truly spectacular at assessing and handling the situation.... and these are the ladies whom I see that truly make the years melt away - and for them I am truly grateful - and they seem to enjoy the sex as well.   There are physiological signs of a lady getting off- sometimes they are subtle - but sometimes not.  

What I have found, if a lady truly likes me and enjoys my company (and there are more of those than not) then I tend to have a good time as does she as I put the effort into her enjoyment - and that actually makes a better session than if it is all about me - (or for that matter - only about her).  Those are the sessions where if I booked an hour - I wished it was two, if I booked two - I wish it were all night...

my reviews reflect this.  For the other ladies not in tune with this?  well - I never down their score- because I rate for what they try- but a 9 or 10 is reserved for those who read my perception correctly and get it right....

Do I think that any of these ladies like me as an SO?  NO, but would they rather see me come through the door than a clueless, thoughless, unclean jerk?  yup.  and that really helps.

If you feel that a provider is not into you or the fun at hand, simply move on to other activites which YOU enjoy.  There is no reason to even discuss this with a provider... unless of course, you are actually INTERESTED in satisfying her.

I certainly could be misreading, but it doesn't sound like you are interested.
"I would prefer to have an honest provider who would be the F***or and let me be the F***ee and forget about me trying to satisfy her"

IMHO, this has nothing to do with someone being an "honest provider".  If that is what you want, there are MANY ladies who will accommodate.

"I can't help but think that a provider with a client like me is not really into sex for herself 99% of the time."
That's a sad belief which seems to imply that 99% of the ladies are only here for financial gain and not financial gain WHILE enjoying themselves.  Perhaps you are seeing the wrong ladies?

If you think the ladies are not enjoying themselves you prefer to move on to simply being satisfied yourself?  Hm.  I prefer the gentlemen who will work WITH me to ensure a mutually satisfying engagement.  Perhaps ladies are not enjoying themselves as you have already created the reality that they are actresses and it's not worth your efforts?  Just a thought.

If you really believe that a lady is not enjoying herself, why bother wasting your talents on a lady who isn't enjoying them?

If you really believe in the scope of your talents, why would you believe so many ladies are NOT there enjoying themselves?

Myself, I *insist* on enjoying myself, and take full responsibility for doing so.

and you captured what I was trying to get at!  I agree - I would rather pay to be with someone like you than to spend hours and lots of $$ with a civilian who plays games.  

Thanks.  It is about a mutual experience and you captured that nicely!

One of the reasons I just LOOOOOOOVE what I do for living is because I get the best sex ever from my clients.

Civvy guys do not turn me on at all. And I have tons of them offering to come over and "take care of me for a change".

If I have to choose between a client and a civvy guy...I will pick the client for my pleasure.

Yesterday, I had three clients and they were simply wonderful. None looked like Clooney, far from it, but ohhhhh they were soooo good.

We kissed, licked, caressed each other. They ate me like there was no tomorrow and made me cum few times, they fucked me in my fave positions and we had screaming orgasms.

I was done working by 10 pm and, after dinner, I was bored and chatting with some civvy guys online.

They wanted to come over and keep me company, so I picked one of them, a guy I know for a while.

Sex with him has allways been soso. I was bored and didn't want to spend the night alone, so I invited him over.

Big mistake!!!

It was horrible. This guy is young and good looking but he was totally blah and, no matter what he did to me, I could not get off.

Sexually, he didn't hold a tiny candle compared to any of the clients I had before.

I ended up giving him a quick bj to get him off and out of the door.

So, if you the best pussy eater east of Mississipi, come ova!!!! I have a juicy kitty for yah!!!

Have fun and don't worry, just show your skills and enjoy!!!

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-- Modified on 3/5/2006 4:34:48 PM

Amen, brothers and sisters. If someone is gifted in the oral department, Im into it 100%!!

-- Modified on 3/5/2006 5:46:34 PM

Boston, we all come to the point where we realize that this is all  just massive make believe.  It seems you're finally arrived.

As I see it, you can either just enjoy yourself on whatever terms satisfy you when you hobby, or give up the hobby and return exclusively to the world of non-commercial sex.  You have plently of counterparts approaching grandma status who would be more than happy for your attention and company.


Good luck.

you can lick my honey pot any day of the week and I won't complain.

Hugs,
Ciara

You need to tour the country and state your claim to being the best all-around pussy eater.  You need to organize a pussy eating contest with providers and porn stars as judges.  You need to get crackin' as there are a lot of details to hammer out.





lol

Because I am E of the Mississippi and IMHO am the cunnilingis champion of Company C (a song from the 1970's off broadway play "Let My People Cum"!)

"I'm not as good now as I once was, but I'm still as good once as I eve was". lol

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