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Was this in the 50's?   Lol

Anyone else here who loves to watch?  

Long ago I used to host swinger parties, but never participated. I love to watch!

Been a few occasion where a lady bought a friend over just to watch and I kinda got off on that. It wasn't AVN award worthy but as I recall most enjoyed the "show". I don't know how this would play with a larger audience but I'd give it a whack with the right girl. And if I wanted to watch I'd view free porn.

But for me, there's something about being in person watching up closes and personal  :)

I am thinking about a duo but trying to find the right ladies.

One thing that I would really look for is for both ladies to be really into each other. I want my piece too but a big part of it for me would be to watch them go at it. I'd love to see that up close and personal.

I certainly watch porn.  And many people want to be watched, that's what gets them into porn and swinger parties.
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I don't really want to be watched, so I'd feel uncomfortable at swinger parties because there could be unspoken pressure to join in (although I am homely enough that maybe the pressure would be for me to leave. :-)
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I'm a pretty private person, so that's a no.

 
If someone did watch, I would hope they'd soon forget.

 
*Character played by Peter Sellers in the movie version of Being There, based on the novel by Jerzy Kosinski.   A really excellent movie, by the way, and novel for that matter.

President "Bobby" to Chauncey Gardner: "I admire your good, solid sense. That's precisely what we lack on Capitol Hill."

Posted By: mrfisher
Re: Shades of Chauncey Gardner*...
I'm a pretty private person, so that's a no.  
   
If someone did watch, I would hope they'd soon forget.  
   
*Character played by Peter Sellers in the movie version of Being There, based on the novel by Jerzy Kosinski.   A really excellent movie, by the way, and novel for that matter.
I agree about the book and movie.
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However, it may be noted, it was alleged that Being There plagiarized an earlier work, Kariera Nikodema Dyzmy — The Career of Nicodemus Dyzma — a 1932 Polish bestseller by Tadeusz Dołęga-Mostowicz.  
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerzy_Kosi%C5%84ski#Plagiarism_allegations

Apologies if this constitutes hijacking a thread, but literature (not to mention music, movies, sciences, etc.) are full of wonderful works whose themes and plot echo other, possibly not so great works.

 
The art is how the artist (author in this case) presents and arranges their work which takes skills beyond just telling a story.   There is use of language, fleshing out characters, presentation, etc.

 
Besides when the Wiki mentions that he had a kinky sex life, my vote was in:   Not guilty.

It just goes to show that Chauncey was right: "If you plant a garden [plagiarism theme], it will grow."*

Posted By: mrfisher
Re: I don't think that borrowing a theme or plot, per se, is plagiarism...
Apologies if this constitutes hijacking a thread, but literature (not to mention music, movies, sciences, etc.) are full of wonderful works whose themes and plot echo other, possibly not so great works.  
   
   
 The art is how the artist (author in this case) presents and arranges their work which takes skills beyond just telling a story.   There is use of language, fleshing out characters, presentation, etc.  
   
   
 Besides when the Wiki mentions that he had a kinky sex life, my vote was in:   Not guilty.
* I didn't find this exact quote from Being There, but it's close. At least it isn't plagiarism.

where it was a regular mixer in the Living Room but in the bedroom there were several girls and you could either watch or fuck. I went in for $20 to watch but it was so hot I quickly ponied up some extra cash and jumped (humped) in. It was fun.

CurlyW-NatsFan111 reads

I heard about something similar at Planet Hollywood...Not the greatest of the hotels but it's a great location.. Love Center Strip.. I didn't know how much it costed to watch and /or to partake, but $20 sounds dirt cheap.  

Hosted by an Asian guy named Spider and several girls from 100 Proof were there.

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Nah !! We talking about completely different things then..  

 
This was something which was advertised under the banner of ménage à trois. It was actually something that was organized by bunch of ladies.  Some dude on TER reached out to me and asked if I'd be interested. I wasn't too keen on spending $2K for couple of hrs.. But that was back in 2014-15.. If someone suggests today, maybe I will bite..

There was a time in my P4P career--about 2 years--where I would pay a couple of ladies to just let me watch them get it on.  It was a break from regular playing and it was a lot of fun.  They were always surprised that I didn't want to jump in but I was thoroughly pleased to watch.  Once they realized I wasn't kidding they usually put on a lovely hour's entertainment.  I always told them, pretend I'm just a camera with legs.  There was some damned fine girl-girl play for my exclusive viewing pleasure.

Even now, when I have a duo session, the first half is dedicated to watching the ladies do each other.  Now of course I mostly jump in.  Mostly, but not always.

Hi QueenBia, I love watching and being a voyeur, especially watching a couple  M/F such a turn-on! 🙂

Posted By: QueenBia

Anyone else here who loves to watch?  
   
 Long ago I used to host swinger parties, but never participated. I love to watch!

Who was very bi.  She would get the hots for a civvie friend. Approach her friend & ask if she wanted to make a few extra bucks (from me).  
A threesome would be arranged. My provider friend would take the lead. Always very hot

Hi, QueenBia, your post just reminded me that I posted a  ISO voyeur experience M/F session in either the L.A. or San Diego city board  post, and you reached out that you would be gladly happy to offer that; I would have to take up your offer 🙂

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Totally hot watching and love being watched.

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Good subject.  

I love to watch women.  Particularly when they touch and arouse themselves (they know their bodies better than I do).  

But, as I'm still relative new to the hobby, I'm unclear on how one determines in advance whether a particular provider is comfortable "putting on a show".  In other's experience, is it 'standard' or a 'special request'?

Come to think of it, that may be a good idea for a new TER review category:  'Exhibitionist' (No, Striptease, Fingers, Toys)

Another category I'd appreciate is:  'Expressive' (No, Moaning, Screaming, Dirty Talk)

If I were interested in them putting on a show, I'd just ask.  I think you'll find that most are not only okay with it, but quite happy to do so.

I’ve been to a swinger club in Atlanta with a few providers, and it was a ton of fun. I really wasn’t self-conscious at all, and that community is very welcoming and accepting. It was always a great time.

CurlyW-NatsFan120 reads

But surreptitiously.  That's where the fun is...  

 
But I know it's unethical and illegal and can put me in jail..  That's why I don't..

...i love watching...and...being watched...in touring band and there have been times where passion overcomes modesty..(i always ask first)...cant imagine not being part of swinger party that i hosted.... i love seeing and learning how others fuck

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