Lets say you are old enough to have a daughter who can participate in this business.
1) Do you encourage and help her?
2) Do you try to work with her, "show her the ropes", etc.?
3) Do you screen for her, weeding out the guys whom you think she should not see and/or are not worthy?
Why do I ask these questions?
Because I am certain the scenario has been played out over and over again through time and I have just been made aware of a local lady who has her daughter "under her wing" and is dictating whom she can or cannot see, should or should not see, etc. They are even sharing a hotel room as evidenced by their continually matching locations and schedules.
Your thoughts and comments on this subject are welcome. And, just for the record, I much prefer the company of a "mature women" to "young girls" and have zero interest in seeing the young lady. I am simply curious to see how other ladies might handle this scenario
I was going to start a thread about taboo subjects on TER threads and start with something very similar. I decided not to. I suspect my decision was the right one.
aboo subjects are seemingly definitely taboo....that much it seems is true.
I just read a post by a provider, commented on it, and then it was taken down. I think she realized how taboo hers was...and I think mine further fanned the flames and then poof...gone.
There's a whole wizard of oz thing going on here and we are not allowed to see behind the curtain.
Just stick to the basics I guess. The business side appears to be no one's business. I guess you gotta respect it.
Perhaps it was not taboo but was moved to the newbie board and now she is looking for you.
Taboo subjects are seemingly definitely taboo....that much it seems is true.
I just read a post by a provider, commented on it, and then it was taken down. I think she realized how taboo hers was...and I think mine further fanned the flames and then poof...gone.
There's a whole wizard of oz thing going on here and we are not allowed to see behind the curtain.
Just stick to the basics I guess. The business side appears to be no one's business. I guess you gotta respect it.
I may be crazy but I was raised by an old school Italian old school Irishman from South Boston.the minute I had a steady boyfriend husband or children you would never see my face on here again.that is my choice and that is what I would do with myself in my life.
unfortunately I cannot state anything about this woman what's going on in her brain what's going on in her child's brain what is their situation in life I cannot give any advice because I do not know them or know their situation
again this is a topic that is subjective and no one can say what they think other people should do or at least I believe that no one should say what they believe other should do I believe what you want to do with yourself is great but I don't appreciate it when other people start going on and on about how they feel should live I just don't think it's admirable and I think it's really of annoying and waste of breath to preach on how you think either should be
I cannot say if they are right or wrong it is there life and I am NOT in their head and I do not know what they are going through.
for them it may be a good thing I don't know maybe they can handle it maybe they can do it well and maybe it's going to help them I don't know for me if I happen to have a boyfriend or children I know that I would not be able to do this anymore because I just would not want to and its just the way I believe things should be
I would definitely have to downsize.
and I would definitely have to find a place that would hire a two-time convicted felon.
I am a hard worker but I do have an explosive temper.
for me keeping a job is very hard.
I also not able to keep track of days and times and all that stuff it's just a little bit of a shortcoming I have upstairs faulty wiring I suppose.
to get names numbers and dates really really confused!
but can I manage to make it up to people when I do something stupid like forget the time we were supposed to meet and they show up and I'm not ready I can do my best to make it up to people and show some respect
this is why this is one job that I can't get fired from
it also doesn't take a brain surgeon to manage to pull yourself together for one hour'
especially for such a large amount of money it's a very motivation to pull it together for an hour and do what needs to be done for that hour
however if you help me with a ride or we hang out before or after I may just be in a velvet running suit not to be confused with sweatpants you bastards
however I do love sweatpants too
but anyone that wants to be my friend before or after an appointment for whatever we both have going on I do not stay in character I don't act like Angel I'm not going to give a f*** about what you want in life and what you want me to do
I think all the power to them if this is something they need to do for whatever reason they should go for it I don't care what other people do
unlike some people on here' one thing I am NOT is a busy body and I think being a busybody is one of the most annoying trait someone could ever have I may be crazy but at least I'm not a busybody it sticks my nose in everybody's business and tries to tell people that my way is the only way xz
..to throw up...
Do you have any consideration for the reader?
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she clearly stated she has "short comings upstairs"
Humiliating folks with a disability cripples an entire society.
from keeping there sentences short, sweet and less than a zillion words..
If its Diarrhea of Mouth, thats what the bucket is for...
I simply laid out the scenario and asked what other ladies would do.
I am simply curious and did NOT comment positively or negatively on the subject matter.
I did NOT ask for anyone's psychological evaluation of this particular lady either.
I personally think everyone has choices in life and it is up to each individual to make their own. This lady and her daughter have made this choice and if it works for them, great.
I am not judging them so maybe you need to go back and read what I posted again and possibly post something intelligent and legible.
Or schizo. Just based on the flight of ideas and poor impulse control. Lol
unfortunately I cannot state anything about this woman what's going on in her brain what's going on in her child's brain what is their situation in life I cannot give any advice because I do not know them or know their situation
again this is a topic that is subjective and no one can say what they think other people should do or at least I believe that no one should say what they believe other should do I believe what you want to do with yourself is great but I don't appreciate it when other people start going on and on about how they feel should live I just don't think it's admirable and I think it's really of annoying and waste of breath to preach on how you think either should be
I cannot say if they are right or wrong it is there life and I am NOT in their head and I do not know what they are going through.
for them it may be a good thing I don't know maybe they can handle it maybe they can do it well and maybe it's going to help them I don't know for me if I happen to have a boyfriend or children I know that I would not be able to do this anymore because I just would not want to and its just the way I believe things should be
I would definitely have to downsize.
and I
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No, No, No, and No again. Does that sum it up pretty succinctly?
There's nothing to 'handle' here.
reason I kinda liked you 
It's always about 'them'...always.
Remember that gentlemen..........and that's all I have to say about that.
Address it to hobbyists too.
My reply: I don't think I'd ever be ballsy enough to suggest it, but if she were to suddenly get the notion to enter it, and told me, I'd level with her and assist her.
I'd be somewhat conflicted, for a number of reasons, as you can imagine.
I figured there would be many hobbyists who would respond as well. LOL.
No worries mate.
Why just limit it to daughters? What about if your son wanted to try this out?
I know I would never bring it up, but if they asked me, like you I would level with them, make sure they had all the facts and really understood what they were getting themselves into.
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about sons.
I'm just not going to go there myself right now.
It's Friday for Christ's sake after a very long work week.
Maybe sneak into one and just look at the plethora of women who can be considered cougars.
You don't think that those gals wouldn't pay for a good looking young kid to fuck with
When I was 14-19 years old, I would have fucked anything with a pussy (or anything that felt like a pussy) for free. So, I still maintain, the market is p4p not p4c (cock).
I guess I have a very different standard than you then. Which is fine.
Do you honestly think that many of these "older" women can get anyone nearly 30+ years younger to fuck them for nothing?
Did you ever watch 2 and 1/2 men? Remember how Charlie got his piano? Or Alan got his rolex?
Yep...plenty of women pay for it for the same reasons many of "us" pay for it. They aren't looking to upset the home life either LOL
That and the career choice will be useful currency in prison. Lol.
Do you have kids?
I know I would never bring it up, but if they asked me, like you I would level with them, make sure they had all the facts and really understood what they were getting themselves into.
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I would imagine it is different for a man... Men by physiology are equipped to protect themselves better than most women. I own a gun, I am trained to use it, and I can conceal and carry due to a weekend class in Miss. lol. I still screened every guy I met, never worked from my home, or put a bullseye on my ass by broadcasting this part of my life, because it's a scary place out there.
Since they give conceal and carry's to just about anyone. Lol.
I've never asked this of any provider here or in person, but I hope they take good, effective measures to protect themselves.
...Is, I suggest, to know whether a poster actually has kids (#1) and, in particular, a daughter (#2). Otherwise, it's just academic. So far, I only know that HTG has one and therefore I would put more stock in what she has to say.
This is the first time where I find Mr Fisher's comments are naive.
Before you all call me a hypocrite because I'm a John, consider this.
The first big question for my daughter (I have sons but not daughters) would be to understand why on earth she wants to do it. If it's money, I'd be happier if she lived off of me. If it's curiosity, I'd quickly disabuse her of the notion there's anything really fun or fulfilling outside of a sex addiction. Let's face it guys: we are functional sex addicts. And no offense, but I wouldn't want my daughter hooking up with any of you losers, myself included. Anyone with a child will know that no one/nothing is good enough, especially not a John/ps. If she has a sex addiction, I'd offer to pay for a trial of therapy and counsel safe sex.
After all that, if she is of adult age and set on going into the business, I would repeat the steps above again, with double the intensity. After that, then and only then would I take Mr Fisher's stance to give pointers.
from time to time. Since it's hypothetical the best answer I can come up with is that I hope my girl follows a different path, but no matter what she does, including being a provider, I'll love and support her.
Many of us have freaking children who are toddlers, and the thought is disgusting. To answer your question... NO! And, before we go into the hypocrisy of a mother wanting better for her daughter, go ahead and ask yourself how many marine, navy, army and reserve fathers would never wish war on their sons. As for the so called mother in question... blech. Sharing a hotel room? Gross. That's all.
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WTF are you talking about? Saying many of us have toddlers? How is that revealing? I did not say I have a toddler, but everyone knows pretty much how old my one and only child is. BFD.
To say: "Many of us have freaking children who are toddlers, and the thought is disgusting." I totally agree with you. But I'm a newbie & didn't think your persona reflected the softer side of you. However, I know you have one, as every mother does.
did you miss the thread where my 'softer side' came out to bash some idiot who was clueless about where to show her ass... as in, around children? Anything having to do with children, animals, incest, or trafficking, will certainly drive me crazy. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything though.
Also mentioned showing your ass. I don't do that on social media. I write. I don't post pictures or write innuendos. I don't think kids should be exposed to that, hell I think adults being exposed to that is tacky despite being adults. I've even mentioned before that part of what is made through "this" goes to my brother's education at a top school. A commitment I made at 26 when I was employed and cannot fulfill it now that I'm an entrepreneur.
But I don't believe in shielding them from everything. Then they grow up to be wanna-be-self-righteous adults.
When I adopt kids and become a mother I will think long and hard about how soon I can expose them to the reality of poverty, injustice, crime, everything that is bad out there. So that they can choose how they want to affect this world. I want them to question everything and listen to conversations about tough topics.
I will work hard so they don't have to choose a profession they don't want to choose. Just like I've led my life
I don't believe in sheltering children, but I do believe in only introducing age appropriate material. I've done stupid shit in front of my child, so no one is perfect. JB and I are fine too. I really have no reason to dislike anyone around here. You guys were like family to me for a long time. 
I will leave with that.
The below sound like liberal issues. lol
I would be disgusted if my daughter wants to be prostitute..
But totally cool if my son wants to see hookers and wants some advice from Daddy. Daddy will buy beer to celebrate the occasion...
I know it makes me a hypocrite....somewhat... But at least I am honest about it... 
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Yup and most sane, caring fathers would never want their little girls doing it either. But hey, every hooker here is someone's daughter.
Daddy will take care of her first before she feels she has to do it.
I wish my son would never have to hobby. Because if he has to its because he failed in his relationships with women like his old man did. I know it's a 50/50 chance he will fail, but I am doing my best to have him learn from my mistakes.
From his wife's or future wife's first bite of 'I hate sex cake' both the natural influences as well as societal influences will cock-block his connubial sex life. With icons like the black billionaire misandrist Oprah Winfrey giving advice, or her conniving girl friends giving advice, and the overflow vitriol and marketing from the divorce industry your son has a snowball's chance in hell for a fulfilling marital sex life.
My advice for a son would be "HOBBY" and never get married. Or at least wait until he/they are too old for kids and their reason is ‘companionship’ rather than romance, lust, and procreation.
I wish my son would never have to hobby. Because if he has to its because he failed in his relationships with women like his old man did. I know it's a 50/50 chance he will fail, but I am doing my best to have him learn from my mistakes.
Sure it will kill their marriages and spilt their assets in half if "Dear...Wifey" ever finds, but it would probably kill them if they don't tap that sweet ass. I am not one of them because I am not married or ever had a relationship with anyone.
So if your son were happily married, would you still object to his getting strange pussy every once in a while?
Something to ponder..
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Hopefully he will be happily married and getting it at home. If he doesn't get it at home after 20 years, hopefully he will be able to bail and not be stuck in a marriage in name only.
But sometimes life doesn't work out the way you'd choose.
Thank you, ladies, for giving those of us who would otherwise have to go without, some intimacy and fun.
I want to fuck the hooker. Who's pimp mother forbid her to see me.
That ads some element to the session.
for her never have to start --- I don't even want her to know what it's like to be in this profession.
For me, living a double life can be miserable and way too much work.
I have friends who say, (and a couple know,) "Maybe I should start doing what you do. It would make life so much easier." I say, "Don't."
While it's not terrible, and I (obviously) don't judge people, I will say I am a completely different person than I was before I joined this business. Used to be a sweet, loving, caring, honest, and harmless individual… but after dealing with the cut-throat competition, the men who trash your naked body in public forums, and trash your friends' bodies as well… I've hardened.
While we still have choices as to what kind of person we are no matter what we do, when a heart hardens, it stops sending signals to the brain in a sense. It's easier to move on a survival level rather than out of love. You can't love the men you're fucking, and you can't fuck the men you love. If you do, you'll always have your profession in the back of your head.
I long for the day when my two lives become one again. I don't ever want my daughter to not have the ability to come to me, her father, her family, or her friends, because she's afraid to say, "Hey. I have to prostitute myself because I have these few months where I can't get back on my feet."
Fuck the new car and the extra 400 sq feet in the house. Turn the AC down 5 degrees, shop at Aldi, whatever I have to do to use that extra money to keep her out of this… that I will do. All it takes are a few clicks on the internet to learn about this profession, and an empty pocket desperation, and a vagina to take action.
Damn... well said sista. My faith was another issue that sealed the deal to retire for good. Soon, I will have to give up TER as well which is gonna suck, but no looking back.
You'll get there too. First leap, then baby steps lol.
You've done what you set out to do, so congrats.
Have to come off my Fuck list now.
Who could be with a hooker who's a real, intelligent sensitive woman? Lol. I'm honest like Curly.
Seriously, not your fault, but, nevertheless, a poignant sound bite for the industry.
I think I was off yours a long time ago lol.
But really, there are tough things in this job, just like any job. I enjoy the gents thoroughly, but the cut throat business side? Not at all. You have to grow thick skin, which actually prepares me for the industry I'm moving into at the moment. It will not be an easy ride, and if anyone thinks this business is drama filled, imagine the next one.
There are three things I DON'T like about this business, but many, many things I do. You have forgotten about the many, many positive posts I've made on here. Joyful, up beat, funny, fun, happy go lucky, light hearted, playful, sexy, horny lol, etc.
The things I DON'T like:
1. People who purposefully fuck with your business
2. Men AND women who trash ladies physical features publicly in the sex industry. It hurts to see people do that to other women.
3. And mostly, the double life, meaning the constant to lying to everyone close to me about pretty much my entire life. I'm sorry, but I do NOT enjoy it and it fucks with you.
Now 1 and 2 you'll get anywhere, but 3... Nope.
It is hard to love somebody, have sex with him, and know you're tricking behind his back. Or you pass up very good opportunities for love because of what you do. Not to mention when you have to dodge questions about work. That's all I'm saying.
The 'daughter' I'd have I would never ever want to do this. If everyone else can say it, why can't I? I'm sorry, but that's just how I feel about a child under my teaching and protection.
You, on the other hand, Enjoy the many ladies who also feel this way, but don't let you know, who like the business, but have things they struggle with.
I sincerely apologize for being human and showing it.
Xo!
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already know my response. What more needs to be said. Notta.
keep saying this, but will still end up staying in this profession because the money is so damn good and relatively easy !!!
You made us guys look like hardened criminals who just come in to bury their bone in a hole, and don't really think of the woman as a person..And you are a result of heartless guys.. Ironically, you came (at least I hope you did) here by choice.
So what we use the review system to write explicit reviews? Don't you get the benefit of the same by using it to your advantage. How ironical is it that some of you will boast about the reviews you got on AD board and then come here and moan that it hurts your feelings...
I started hobbying just to have some good time, not to abuse anyone...
Of course, you will get a lot of support from your "sistas".... Good for you !!!
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They complain that they are broke because they spend hand over fist...
Ask your "sistas"- drugs and alcohol will get you there fast.. And so will Gucci and whatever and wherever the fuck you shop at.....
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Just trying to be a little less harsh here and to people I like.
No one's saying you can't be all of those things you want CO, but there's really only one output for the service we care about: fun.
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Sheesh. Gimme a break!
Forest Gump Ping Pong
I love your wit. Your sensuality. Your humor. Above all, I love what you just posted even though it made me a bit sad. You rock, babe, and I'd love to meet you, if only for a drink and a chat.
It was only meant to discuss the subject. But I am pretty artsy, so maybe I'm just good at drawing emotion into the subject lol
she has it 'all'. My question to you is why 'wouldn't' you want to book Court.....ya know the whole enchilada? What's with this drinks and chat crap....you been hangin' with CPA and the other one a lil too long. As far as I'm concerned she's much more bookable than your so called 'ticas'. Getting something out of a session besides fucking a woman till she's 'blue' in the face....is perhaps ...oh idk... may be something you could work towards in the future...hmm? You're not one of those afraid of 'change' or actually the thought of hitting it of with someone on a slightly different level, are you? I didn't think so. You are a grown man afterall.
Growing up is indeed a good thing.
Muah xoxo
I simply said I'd see her "even if" no sex was involved because I like her. Actually, I'd love to bone her, too. I guess this complexity is a bit much for your wittle bwain?
As for your tica reference, you again haven't a clue. First of all, you've never met one. Second of all, if you had, you'd know they are pretty much like other women. There's an infinite variety of types and looks, not to mention the Nicas, Domenicanas and Columbianas.
What a shame that a woman needs to dismiss and type-cast other women she doesn't even know.
Jealousy ain't pretty, hon. You might want to study what makes so many guys like Courtney's persona here.
And am so, so, so, so glad I am child free!
Nor would I support her in involving herself in any illegal endeavors. Not cool, as there are just way too many risks and other legal opportunities that I'd rather have her pursue. I can only imagine any caring parent saying the same thing, although I'm not judging the mom/daughter in the OP. Different folks, different strokes.
i am almost disbelieved in TER and you ladies and gentlemen
meeting here and criminals and drug users dealers and pimp[s and just soo rude cheap people that I almost went to depression just kidding
about depression
( not no kidding - I was almost giving up on this community)
Is not it is good to know that there are like minded men and women
I did enjoy this post tremendously
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