I’ve noticed some people are all about the quick half-hour or hour just to get that rush, while others swear by longer sessions where you can really relax, take your time, and enjoy everything without looking at the clock. Personally, I think both have their charm depending on the mood, but I’m curious what do you guys usually go for? Do you prefer short and intense, or long and drawn out?

Then, if everything is as advertised, and that certain hard to define chemistry and connection are present, that is when I will ramp it up and do the extended date with dinner on date #2 or beyond.  
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That said, on occasion, and being either pressed for time or just coming off a date very recently, I will see someone for a quickie if its someone's I know and they announce a last minute tour.

I prefer longer and drawn out. 2-3 hours is my standard and 90 minutes is the shortest appt. I’ve done. You do risk there being little to no chemistry when it’s a first time meeting and the second hour dragging on but I’ve probably only had that happen once or twice.

I use the Hyperbolic Time chamber from Dragon Ball Z to get the best of both worlds. Inside the Hyperbolic Time chamber, time flows at a different rate. While a day would pass in the outside world, a year would pass while inside the Hyperbolic Time chamber. This would allow people like Goku to train for many years without much time passing. I was able to find a Hyperbolic Time chamber while traveling to Singapore once. What I typically do is book a half hour or short stay date and then step inside the Hyperbolic Time chamber with the provider. While inside the chamber we make love like muskrats for weeks... until the half hour is up. This allows me to save money by booking shorter dates while experiencing the benefits of an extended date. This method isn't for everyone. These types of chambers are hard to find and become increasingly taxing with each additional use. However if you can get your hands on one and make it work... it is well worth the investment!

I prefer longer dates & rates reflect sweet incentives for those who appreciate and value time. I am single, so I cherish my adult playtime. I might make you fall in love, or lust. lol 😂 Smile for me! 😊  

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I prefer short meets.  Lots of things factor into it, but all in all, an hour long meeting just isn't worth what it used to be in today's climate.  

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I don't always have the piggy bank for it.

First meet 2 hrs. Then if we gel I’ll go longer.

If I am being honest, I prefer them short. I have done longer sessions and they can be good. But I have had some get weird too. Ocne the lady and I got into a couple type of fight. It was over something silly too. We moved past it, and ironically it brought us closer and the sex was great. Also, I feel the more time we spend together, the more personal and attached we can get. For some, this is fantasic and what they want. But it's not for me.

lets see ....  28 seconds of fun ... then 20 minutes of snoring ... followed by 40 minutes of apologizing ...  i think for most guys 1 hour is just fine !  

I've only done a half hour once - because the lady had an issue and had to pick up her son from school so she needed to cut it back to 30 minutes.  

I'm an hour guy. Love to spend more time chatting etc but I'm a natural flirt and pretty good at it. I can flirt/talk all night at a bar with the pretty ladies. Just don't want to go home with the civilians. Too complicated.

If I'm paying, then 2-3 hours is the top end.  If I'm not paying, then a 3-day weekend is preferred.  I agree that both have their charm, but mood doesn't matter.  Only paying/not paying matters.  Lol

Haha not quite, just like sparking some good convo. Feels like the board gets way more interesting when people actually share stories instead of just one-liners.

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