Hi all,

Just wanted some opinions: which one do you prefer and why?

new provider every time.

Pros - the excitement of someone new waiting behind the hotel door is a rush.
         
Cons - she might not be who you expect.

ATF all the time.

Pros - knowing what the session would be like. As good as last time if not better ( I would think sex would be better, practice makes perfect ? ( you would know  a little bit of info from the last session, what she likes and dislikes and for yourself as well ).

Will she treat you better because you are a repeat client? - I am really curious as to what providers think about this question....

Cons - it may be the same as last session. ( although I don't think in 1 session a provider can show you all her tricks.....but what happens after a few sessions??

I am fairly new to this hobby. I reviewed 5 providers on TER, 2 independents gave me whitelist referral, 2 were agency girls and the last independent I did not ask for referral. I have seen some AMP and AA that is not on TER. I have not repeat any provider, I do have one agency girl that I keep thinking about - my ATF, but she is out of the US now.  

There are a few touring girls that I would love to see. Actually 3 of them is coming through all in the same week, I booked one and I am trying to decide on what to do with the other two.

It seems that after my ATF session, I am constantly comparing my latest visit with my ATF and would be disappointed soon after the meeting.. any thoughts..

I see my atf on a regular basis but see other providers also. Multiple reasons for that, but one is that this atf is also a friend. My seeing other providers helps remind both of us that our hobby relationship is strictly professional.

...seeing my favorites and some new (to me) ladies. I like seeing new ladies for the variety and favorites because ...well they are favorites for a reason. Sometimes a new lady becomes a favorite.

For a while I made it a point to see 5-6 new gals a year, but circumstances are forcing me to cut back from that.

I now see 5-6 local regulars, plus a few traveling gals who I see once or twice a year.

It keeps things interesting, and also provides stability

...but I haven't been hobbling long enough to get a true ATF.  I do have a few favorites though.  I guess I need to get out and do read my wings more lol


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retires, goes on vaca, etc...  you've got no recourse.  In addition, I find it useful (since I fall for who ever I'm with at the moment) to rotate a handfull of favorites.  3-4 has worked well for me.  I'm down right now due to 1 retirement & 1 falling out.

See who you most want to see... for whatever reasons you choose. Over time, your ATF will appear as the one you always return to, the one you choose most often, the one you prefer above all others and compare all others to.

Even if an ATF is apparent, exclusivity is not a "hobby" attribute.  

After 3 years, I know I have an ATF because I have seen many others. I doubt she has any idea that I see her as my ATF... I haven't always shown it by choosing her. I may just need to change that; I tend to be too easily side-tracked.

In any case, my suggestion is to choose as you do and let things fall into place as they will. There is nothing wrong with seeing your ATF or choosing another... that is the nature of this world.

and I use several of them, sometimes both at the same time

I much prefer to session with atfs. Comfort is my number one priority. Unfortunately, the atf relationship is fleeting. Therefore, it's incumbent that new ladies are thrown into the mix in hopes of discovering new atf relationships.  

Does an atf treat you better because you repeat? Absolutely. Do atf sessions become routine? Absolutely not. In fact, one atf changed things every time. I never knew what was going to happen. To be honest, I don't think she ever planned anything out. It all seemed so spontaneous. I saw her many many times before she retired. If a lady does the exact same thing twice, I doubt she'll warrant a third session.

I've been seeing one provider for the last two years. Very happy to see only her. Every Session although is pretty much the same as the last one, are always great. When I see a provider I like I just see her. Seeing a new provider would be great. But I'm pretty satisfied with the current provider I'm seeing.

It's your hobby...play the game as you see fit.

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Variety is spice of life

i have many repeats and i am an atf to a few...i encourage them to see others and have a lot of fun...some do, some do not...as for your question if some providers treat their repeats better, well i do not...everyone is treated the same, with courtesy and respect...the thing with a repeat is that we move one to another level to our "relationship"...yes it is still a business, but we become better friends, true companions even for a short period of time...we share our lives together, our kids, grandkids, work, just every day life...so please do not choose one or the other...a healthy balance would be good

the thing is, I'm not sure it's all that easy to find a true ATF with whom you want to be exclusive. I think most of the time it just happens -- like any other relationship, I would note. Of the scores of wonderful women I've had the pleasure of spending time with in the hobby, only one has captured my attention fully. But for her, I think I'd be continuing to experiment with lots of ladies.
That being said, even if you don't have an ATF, there's no reason to try to find a new person every single time. Before I took up more fully with my ATF, I had many women that i visited on multiple occasions, and loved my times with all of them. You get to know them, and they you, without it necessarily being a full-blown "ATF" situation.
Mostly, have fun, and see whom you're inspired to see.

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Just like you, Kim.........your posts are always precise and wisdom filled.