I absolutely hate discussing money, rates, donation, etc...

All the ladies I have seen have their rates clearly posted in their ad or website.

Which providers I decide to spend time with is based largely on their rates. With that said...

Why do some providers ask you to call for rate information?

I don't want to waste time calling if your rates are more than what I'm willing to pay.

Why the secrecy? Why not just post your rates or suggested donation for all to see?

A young escort in Vegas was sent to the room for me by the concierge.  She started wanting $1500 for full service and agreed to $300.  I hate having to negotiate at the room.  It kills the atmosphere.  Also girls that negotiate do so all the time so they have the upper hand.  That was before I was a TER VIP.  Getting my VIP was free and fun for me since I had already seen some Craigslist ladies before that I could review.  I got a month of free VIP for my first two reviews.  I have never had a well reviewed lady on TER try to up sell me.

Others try to get around it by refering to them as "donations" rather than rates.  Still others use the "rose" method of indicating rates.

I agree that it is best to just be open and up front about the rates.  I won't see someone if I don't know what I'm getting into.

They want you to call. And like a previous post said, it gives them flexiblity. I stay away from those ads. BTW sometimes the price in the details of a TER review is NOT current. It's a good idea when there is NO price in the ad, but a price listed in the review to re confirm her price.IMHO

I will never respond to e-mails who ask for my charges as everything is on my website or ad. Yes their are those who don't do that because they fear attention from LE. Their biggest fear should be talking on the phone or in person about rates and services.

I'm selling companionship here and that can have a price of what ever you wish. This is not a flea market where you find an item you want and barter a price. You are both putting yourself in danger of getting busted.

If the lady has no price move on. If she tries to get you to talk money or what you want for your money in person run for your life.

Kisses Haley

added to that, many cheapo "escort malls" copy lady's ads. So you may find very out of date ads for particular ladies floating around, quoting a wide variety of rates.

Always get the rates from the lady's primary website....

call for rates, I move on to the next lady. There is a real good chance that she's going to be too high priced for me, so why waste my time and hers?

Hi Haley

While I would not think of attempting to "negotiate" a rate for a regular visit with a lady, I *do* think it appropriate to discuss the donation where extended (several days minimum) or *travel* are concerned.

That being said if a lady is firm about such rates I totally respect that, and intend no disrespect by having the discussion. It has been my experience, though, that a lady would rather have the discussion and not have you reject out of hand the notion of extended time together or travel based on her published rates.

I personally am not going to take a lady with me overseas and foot the bill for first class travel and accomodations *and* donate at a rate of several large a day. The ladies I have traveled with in the past have been glad to look at this as a semi-vacation, and not attempt to recover their lost opportunity costs....

I broke that rule myself yesterday with a gentleman I have yet to meet. He needed an overnight rate and for only one second did I hold back. I too discounted my rate due to his travel just to see me and wouldn't have it any other way. Now I am building with anticipation and it is such a wonderful time.

Kisses Haley