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ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 63 reads
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First of all, I really dislike the current trend of using “move” as a synonym for “behave” or “act” or “comport oneself.”

Second of all … uh? I see extroverts and introverts. Both can be lovely. Both can be challenging – extroverts if they talk constantly, introverts if you have to work hard to draw them out or read them.

This isn’t a dimension that feels particularly productive to analyze.

Babylongirls995 reads

There’s this idea that confidence and being outgoing automatically make someone a “better” guest. But I’ve noticed something interesting  introverts often move differently.

They tend to listen more. They read the room. They’re not trying to impress or dominate the conversation. Sometimes they’re more observant, more aware of tone, energy, small details.

Extroverts can bring great energy, of course. They break the ice fast, keep things lively, and make everything feel dynamic. But introverts? They often create a calmer atmosphere. Less performance, more presence.

From a Provider perspective, I’m curious how people see it.

Do you think being more reserved actually helps?
Or does being outgoing make the whole experience smoother?

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ClaireLaCrosse64 reads

First of all, I really dislike the current trend of using “move” as a synonym for “behave” or “act” or “comport oneself.”

Second of all … uh? I see extroverts and introverts. Both can be lovely. Both can be challenging – extroverts if they talk constantly, introverts if you have to work hard to draw them out or read them.

This isn’t a dimension that feels particularly productive to analyze.

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impposter71 reads

I wonder ...  
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"Screening required. Recent Provider Referral. 30% Deposit. Take the Myers-Briggs Test using my website [so I can see your score]." (M-B testing is a money making franchise industry. "Certified"  
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http://neuroscience.zeitgeist.university/beyond-the-buzz-the-troubling-truth-about-personality-tests/
Beyond the Buzz: The Troubling Truth About Personality Tests
"... But as we eagerly share our four-letter codes—INTJ, ENFP, and the like—it’s worth pausing to ask a critical question: Do these tests truly reveal who we are, or do they just tell us what we want to hear? ..."
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers%E2%80%93Briggs_Type_Indicator
"... Despite its popularity, the MBTI has been widely regarded as pseudoscience by the scientific community.[1][3][2] The validity (statistical validity and test validity) of the MBTI as a psychometric instrument has been the subject of much criticism. Media reports have called the test "pretty much meaningless",[62] and "one of the worst personality tests in existence".[63] ..."
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Here was a thread about correlating BJ skills to the MBTI scores.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/myers-briggs-is-pseudoscience-1030059
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And an older thread on which scores make Providing a good career choice.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/whats-your-personality-type-593287
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I think that TER could generate more revenue by developing the TER Personality Test (to give a BETTER result for the OP AND Clients:
1. What is the Provider score?
2. What is the Client score?
3. Based on my own test score and the score of the other party, should I see this (Provider / Client)?
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Another Data Field in the Provider Profile!

Posted By: Babylongirls

There’s this idea that confidence and being outgoing automatically make someone a “better” guest. But I’ve noticed something interesting  introverts often move differently.  
   
 They tend to listen more. They read the room. They’re not trying to impress or dominate the conversation. Sometimes they’re more observant, more aware of tone, energy, small details.  
   
 Extroverts can bring great energy, of course. They break the ice fast, keep things lively, and make everything feel dynamic. But introverts? They often create a calmer atmosphere. Less performance, more presence.  
   
 From a Provider perspective, I’m curious how people see it.  
   
 Do you think being more reserved actually helps?  
 Or does being outgoing make the whole experience smoother?

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Babylongirls56 reads

I feel i am more like Sensors kind of person

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EdrienneCole58 reads

My INFJ takeaway was that most of us on both sides are introverts and the few extroverts to respond were men.

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Laspho60 reads

ISTP (Virtuoso) whatever this means

 
🤔

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MindfulMelancholy53 reads

If you want to be a real man with your provider, you take along an orange, you cut it up in 4 slices, you take the slices and put them in a bag, ...and you can have a healthy little snack later.  

AND AT NO POINT WILL YOU OFFER HER ANY OF THE ORANGE.  

Because you are a man, and that is your orange.

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Readytorock165 reads

Op using ai to write these never ending question themed posts.

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GeorgeSpelviniii52 reads

Never ending trolling is good though, right?

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Readytorock148 reads

If thats your thing, be my guest. Troll away to your hearts content.  

Im just asking a legit question?

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GeorgeSpelviniii48 reads

My thing??? Wow!  You didn't even understand my simple post.  

-- Modified on 3/7/2026 6:39:52 PM

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team_rocket_qwerty47 reads

It was obvious from like three first posts.

I already made the joke of the whole training Ai model for mongers, but it actually may be real.

Our responses may be used as training data. If they aren't already. After all, Ai giants don't shy away from scraping all internet for all data for their models.

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TiannaTemptation52 reads

Perhaps so, and some of the questions are a little silly, but some actually spark interesting conversations.  

At least these posts provide an interesting change from the tired old repeat posts about bbfs!

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