You say it to a woman you just met 15 minutes earlier.  She says it to a guy that just plopped down $300 in a white envelope 15 minutes ago.  Both may have SOs or spouses.  That just makes saying it even hotter.  Two total strangers in love?  Ultimate perversion?  Or just as close to love as anything else?  It always makes me shoot good.  Rub one off and tell me how you feel about love in the hobby.  We are all penises ans clits here, so feel free to chime in.

. . . to providers. It would diminish its true meaning.

Don't say that to me; I would not believe it.

saved for my relatives and pups.

I don't even know if I like you much less that.  Let's get it started and enjoy ourselves.

was she standing in front of the mirror at the time?

until at least the second date.  8o)

Love in the hobby?  Haven't experienced it, and would be a fool to look for it.  However there are many ladies that I've fallen deeply in "like" with.

Dave Chapelle in "Con Air": (guard) "your breath smells like shit" (chapelle) "he told me that he loved me"

Diane Weist in "Parenthood": (daughter) "Mommy, he told me that he loved me" (weist) "honey, they all say that. then they cum".

I say "I love your -insert appropriate body part-" or "I love what you just did to me". I never say "I love you". Once I said "I love that you don't sweat much for a fat girl". I was looking to get smacked around a little, and I got what I wanted.

If I use those words it would be about a particular feature.  "I love your breasts".  Otherwise, I save those 3 words for family.

Never believed it when said by providers who had only seen me a few times.

Have had it said, and said it back to only two providers with whom I was very close and the feeling was truly mutual.  One is still in my life - the other was on the opposite coast and got married recently to someone who was geographically closer.

Love is malleable, liquid; it is mercury.  

Does love exist because we say it?  Does it exist if we don't say it?  

Why can't I love a stranger for an hour?  Why can't she love me?  

Anyone who says "no" to this proposition is trying to put emotions into a box.

Absolutely.......love? NAWWWWWWWW But I do like my provider and consider her a friend.

If you're not with the one you love...love the one you're with!

Recently, with a well known provider in a city near me. In the middle of an awe-inspiring trip to greece she looked at me with lust-crazed eyes and breathlessly said "I love you!"
Real at that moment or acting, it blew me away and is an unforgettable moment.
At that moment, I loved her too.

I breathe in your spirit, see the goose bumps rise up on your skin, feel the electricity you give off because you are with me. And because everything that ever happened to you in your whole life has led you to become the person you are in this moment, every second of your life has been bringing you to this place, right now, in front of me.  I don't need to know any of it, don't even need to know your real name. I just know that you are here.  You are responding to me, to my touch, to my sensuality, and yes, I love you.  Love your eyes, your soul, your lips, the rushed beating of your heart, the sudden rise of your member, the sound of your sigh as I...
lick your neck, squeeze your ass, and yes, I love you because you deserve to be loved and I am here to love.... you...
I've never said "I love you" but it's always just beneath the surface...  I always feel it.

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never say it to a client, I get very uncomfortable when they say it to me. The few times it's happened, I really didn't know what to say in return. "I love you, too" is simply not an option for me.

My SO, my family and my closest, dearest friends are the only ones who I feel deserve that sentiment.

I "love" being your girlfriend-- but let's not blur the line. It's too easily blurred already.

i never lie to my clients, so i would never say "i love you"...it would be disrespectful to them, myself, and all the people i DO love, not to mention making a mockery of the whole concept of love.

now i have had a few say those 3 little words to me, but i read it as either infatuation or lust, not actual love.

I love your boobs-check!
I love being with you-check!
I love you-no!

when you mean that you love her/him as a real friend after knowing her a little bit more from not-only-one-session.

The few gents I met can be very very trustful friends of mine after a couple of dates and we can trust each other to share some personal life experience, thats wonderful not only we built friendship under the biz, but also we are supportive to each other, well, most time they support me in the terms of career and personal life.

I guess thats why we girls like mature gents, they are wisdom to direct you when you are in cross road and dont know where to go. Therefore, I couldnt stop saying it in my heart that I love you as my best friend.

Am I out of topic? The gents I know on TER have given me an idea from the way how they response to the varied topics, that most of gents are lovely to be friends even though we would not have chance to meet in person.

But I will still like to say, I love you guys---as friends.

purringggggg
Kitty

Just kidding there HD, but I have exchanged those words with a special lady friend.  We both know the boundaries of the game, but there are feelings between us.  Maybe it's love, or lust, or friendship but I'm sticking to my story that it's more that just money.  I don't get to see her as often as I like, and that's probably a good thing, but it's always good, and those 3 words have been there for quite a while.

the older I get, the more I discover that I can love in many different ways... and I can (fortunately) receive love in ways that differ from the the one that I feel towards the object of my love.  when I was younger, I always thought that the love I gave had to come back to me in the exact same form I offered.... now? I think I have a better view...

and yes, I know that some "love" my $300.... but then again, maybe I love their flat tummy,  or their well turned calf, or the way their voice sounds in my ear.... is that wrong?  so penises and clits?  well, maybe a leg and well kept hair... thrown in and perhaps 15 Jackson's as well.... who knows... but certainly well to think of.

I fall in love almost every time, for 2 or 3 hours.  We both know that no matter how infatuated I am, after she walks out the door we both move on.
To tell her "I Love You" would be (IMHO) out of the boundaries and out of the question.

But i'm afraid that the one i say it to won't understand that I have the capasity to love in different ways. They may run scared or think that it means more than it does. So, when I fall in love for the few hours we shar I just try to show it rather than say it.

For gents, it would be very difficult most of the time to admit. and the fear of rejection is very high for one form of "love" - for other forms, as you say, the phrase may have a different meaning to the receiving party that it would mean to the party saying the "L" word!  

Which is why, showing it is perhaps a better way to go!

Don't say those 3 words, but have been known to say 'luv ya', which in my mind is telling her she is special to me.  More than just a provider to me, but less than a gf.

Swim