Which led me to ask,what do you want  her to do. I like when a girl let me do my thing,at least for a while.  
Even if the guy is boring or she don't find him attractive, most women Will do their job  nonetheless.
Regarding this trend, I think a bit more communication is  probably what is needed as to what one wants.

Well, If you tell her to just let you do your thing.........then what do you expect?!! You can't have your cake & Eat it too

As for me ,I don't have a problem of such; I communicate.  . Just seeing  mention of  the issue frequently in reviews lately.
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i am only speaking from my own perspective but that would be boring to me.

Lots of women joined the profession during the pandemic when things were relatively easy. A lot of them are burned out and should move on, but they don't have better options so they keep going. As a result they are detached and disassociating during sex, which is boring for the client. Communication is great but it really doesn't do anything when the other person is detached and not present.

I had a guy 3x my size want missionary then say this. I could barely breathe much less move, I was pinned!

about 27 years ago when i was single .. went out on a social date,  woman was late 30s an executive ..  dinner was nice .. back to her place, in short order in bed ( those were the days!) ..  as we are about to do the full monty she goes, "i am really exhausted from work ..  so if i fall asleep on you during missionary , its ok just go ahead and enjoy yourself" .   ..which i did  lol .. but only for a few moments and i stopped , i did feel a bit selfish .................... so next morning i called another girl and "finished" with her  LOL  

That a shitty position to be in. Both of you.