Most of the time when I see a provider it’s because she has had a decent number of positive reviews here on TER.  On occasion I will see something somewhere, perhaps on her website where she will specify she doesn’t want any more reviews.  Sometimes it’s not listed anywhere about requesting no reviews but while I am emailing back and forth to set up an appointment the provider will raise it as an issue at the last minute.

A wise Egyptian man told me once, "just do not care", which would be exactly my takeaway if someone told me I wasn't to leave a review. In fact, I'd probably care so little, I'd mention that she asked for me to not write a review, in my review.

If she asked you not to write a review, but she follows through with a session as you expect, I don't think that you should write a review. At that point it's only bragging. She obviously has reviews and apparently doesn't need more at this time to sustain her business. you obviously found her and were not concerned about the frequency, or lack thereof, of her reviews.
Now if  the session falls short of your expectations based on prior reviews, then you're not obligated by the agreement.

Your last sentence seems to muddy things for me.

I have seen providers who said they had a no review policy. One was a provider who had no TER profile and preferred to keep it that way. She was amazing. At the end, I asked if she was sure she didn't want a review and that it would be a great one because she earned it. She said she still didn't want it. I respected her decision.

It just doesn't strike me as too big of an ask by the girl. If she is in some way a threat to the community, I would feel differently, but that wasn't your hypothetical.

Oh but she is a threat to the community Bob. If she's attempting to normalize "no reviews" she is ipsofacto a threat to the erotic *review*, which is, case you got lost, is the website you posted that on.

I don't find women that do not wish to be reviewed a threat to anyone. The women I have spoken to who do not want them aren't trying to "normalize" anything imo, as they just don't wish to have every intimate detail of their professional, sexual life online any longer or they have a very difficult time to get fake reviews pulled or maybe they are getting stalked or numerous other reasons.

Can you please tell me how you got to this statement, logically?

I also don't like the whole "if she was good then I honor, if she wasn't I don't honor" start at this point either.  

The OP says that the provider told him she does not want any MORE reviews. That means she has some now.

If someone doesn't have semi-recent reviews, like, last 6 months kinda reviews, she may as well have zero reviews.

“I don't think it's honest to tell the seller one thing and then do another thing. Therefore if the seller is adamant about no review and asks that I promise it or else no appointment, I will not be doing biz with the seller.”
 


I've had one provider in particular ask me to post a review.  Then, after our session, she sent an email asking me not to post a review.  Then, she immediately sent another email asking that I post a review, but leave out some details, because she claimed that she may not offer some services to every client.  Then, I received another email stating that I should just post my review.

Yes, I was just stating my opinion and I guess here I agree with all these people on a fundamental level.

Take a breath, read the post I replied to, then go re-read the OP. Reading comprehension is fun. Or maybe you’re just PUI? I used to do that, so I understand and you’ll get a free pass.  

“Let's say the provider never says anything about no review policy until the very meeting, and when you're ready for a hot steamy sex session and go to her incall after possibly driving for hours, she (or he, I don't discriminate) hits you with "no review or you walk". Like that would be kinda low.”

I have posted several times on this topic. There are many gals (for very obvious reasons!) want nothing to do with the at time dehumanizing and objectifying nature of some of the reviews being posted by some less than savory members of this community and on other review boards. I have said I don't care either way if guys post reviews or not of me as the whole nature of this commentary is just not really needed to be successful in this industry anymore. Reviews that were written just for blackmail or those that are just obviously not real or are false are not being taken down in a timely manner and do cause unnecessary angst for providers and their business. And yes, if you post a review for a provider who has very specifically said "no reviews" you may get blacklisted by that provider. The industry is changing. If you want more gals to participate on this overrun sausage board and allow and encourage reviews to be posted the derogatory comments, name calling, rude and misogynistic comments needs to end.    

I have felt for a long time that for reviews on should need .
Looks like the pictures , what services offered , what services received ( acronyms) , price paid for service received and time .
Lastly would you recommend and return.
I have no need to know how many times she orgasmed when I did whatever .  
Long before I had VIP had a lot of success without the play by play.

Exactly! More yelp....less penthouse.....

Frankie, baby, I like you plenty, that's why I bother to talk to you, don't get it twisted, I like seeing you around. Also there's like 10 posters on this board these days, so, by your measure we're all stalking eachother if we're talking at all. Remember that the next time I say something smart.  

Sure sure, I get it miss. I'm not saying I'm accountability's #1 fan, or that mob rule doesn't have it's own downsides, it's more that, we're all operating in the dark, and reviews are the only way power is really balanced here. I do understand that, many women intuit this and don't like it, they'd rather have all the power. Such is the state of men and women since the beginning of time.  

Or a troll. No problem with that. I like newbs and tolerate trolls. lol
Now, you may just be uninformed or obtuse but those are your choices. For you to say "...I say the industry hasn't changed for thousands of years..." wreaks of not knowing this industry.... at all.  
There has been MASSIVE changes just in the last few years. Just look at Sesta-Fosta, Covid, MeToo, the rise of twitter and other social media platforms, the increase in providers asking for RW info, deposits, selfies, etc.  
It's amazing you were ignorant to all those changes. Maybe you just came back to this business after a 5 year break? Not sure but what I am sure about is that you possess very little actual knowledge of what has gone down in the last few years. Just ask a few guys here with real experience if you don't believe me. They can educate you. Are you willing to learn?

You really think the internet being involved changes it? Because last I checked, I'm still paying to get my rocks off.

When I challenged your assertion "I say the industry hasn't changed for thousands of years" you then respond to my critique by acknowledging that all my examples in how it changed in just the last few years are true!!! Lol!  
So I am going to go with "Troll" for $500 Alex. lol
But stick around. You are funny, in an unintentional way, and that is needed here too.

your speculative posts does not make someone a troll.  It could just as easily be argued that YOU trolled HIM.  I think you are nit-picking terminology.  Are you saying paying for sex is not the same as it was thousands of years ago?  You pay a prostitute and she fucks you (or if you pay her and she doesn't fuck you, you got really fucked!!!).  That has not changed for millennia.  There are CULTURAL  differences through the years, but the concept is the same.  You just drive to her incall in a Ferrari rather than an oxcart.    

Whatever was left of your absurd point was finally crushed to death when CDL came running in to WK for it. lol.

vet their guys. Reviews are for the guys to vet their gals.  

Nah man, you're just missing the point.

Seeing a provider without reviews is like a provider seeing a client with no references. It's a huge gamble. It's how we screen to see if we're a good match, she's not LE, crazy, a bait and switch artist, and so on and so on. Don't know why this is such a difficult concept for some ladies to wrap their heads around. When they're looking to spend their hard earned money on any given service they look for reviews, recommendations, etc so that they are comfortable moving forward with said service... but when it comes to them potential clients are just suppose to take them at their word...?

If you have no intentions of ever seeing her again and have enough other references for future appointments, I wouldn't care what she says. I'd agree, fuck her, then decide whether I want to or not...

It's just that many don't need reviews. Thats the part you are missing. I know that may be had to believe. It was hard for me to believe at first and yet the changes over the last 3-4 years have allowed many women the luxury of no longer needing them.  
In addition, many that use to be here, have gone on to other review sites that they deem less intrusive and gave them more control. You or I would do the same if the stitch were reversed. Anybody would, again, if they could.

OF is another. As for other sites, I cant name them here. Thanks for your response. You are always a class act Mr Fisher.

Ack! Please get mrfisher started talking about class! We might end up back here:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/i-had-a-professor-who-insisted-that-i-study-descartes-before-i-could-take-his-course-954530

I was afraid someone was going to say that I must obviate once a month.

Doesn't TER delist a provider if they find out she has a "no review" policy?

Well maybe,  but I recently saw an ad on a local TER board where the provider specifically said  'no reviews.'
As a good citizen,  I reported it and TER's official response was 'meh.'

I think the provider has to request it by contacting TER and showing them the proof that she now has a no review policy which is clearly stated on her website and/or ad.

I no longer know what it is -but thought when I started if you saw a provider that had an add you were entitled to write the review.
I she retired or and wanted a no review policy she had to remove all adds.
That was before Fosta /Sesta and lawyers getting involved .
Then if she had a no review policy her profile was removed by TER.

Reviews may exist for men, but saying providers shouldn’t be able to read them is quite foolish.  

LMFAO. I Like that post

If a provider kindly requests no reviews respect her as long as she respects your privacy. Don't book with a no review provider if you have a problem with her policy.  You’re welcome Smile for me! Xo 💋

Be a man.  See who you want and don't let them tell you what to do.  If you review her and she doesn't like it, what the fuck are they going to do about it?  If I review a provider and get any flack back, she loses my future business, but that doesn't mean I won't see her and write a review initially irrespective of whether she has a no-review policy or not.  Sometimes I'm just curious about what a no-review provider is hiding that she doesn't want reviewed.  

Well with that attitude no wonder a lot of men think we will give up their personal info. I ask for it but in doing so I am promising to keep it private. So don't see someone who has a no review policy. If you think it's hinky why would you see her. But don't agree to it and then write one any ways. I thought in another post you said you had integrity oh maybe that was your alias. Integrity is not like a jacket. Taking off and putting it on. You have it or you don't.

If anything, that just highlights the attitude of some sellers.  

How exactly do you secure PII? Because if you're promising to keep it safe, I'd expect at least ISO/IEC 27001:2022 standards. You just read that and have no idea what it is, and that is *exactly* why nobody should expect you to keep their PII safe, you literally do not know how to and shouldn't promise that you will.

on your part.  If they don't have reviews, they probably don't know how much HAVING reviews will drive new business to them.  Be leery of ANY provider who claims that she is doing so well she doesn't need new customers.  It's complete bullshit. It's an old marketing ploy . . . . you want to float the impression that something is hard to get, even if it's not really, but when the time comes, it's remarkably easy to buy because, voila!, you are "approved."  This is part of the psychology behind intrusive screening.  They want you to get to a point where you are completely invested in trying to see them, and that you feel lucky that you are "accepted."  

Bruh you sound like a fucking loser for real lmao. You think a website where men post the details of their sexual encounters is a "community?" One that you need to show some kind of dumb ass allegiance to??  

Well u sure have sum negative opinions of me. Is this an alias of CDL? And my 10 pages of pretty good reviews say I would never use peoples info to harm them. Sheez even my less than stellar reviews did not question my integrity. Which I have. And that is why I can be trusted. Ur a dick.

See, I don't think you would try to harm your customers intentionally, nor did I ever say that. I said you are incapable of preventing your customers from being harmed when they send you personal identifying information. That's objectively true.

I am an open sex worker so I have no leverage to hold over anyone. Your argument holds no water for providers like me.

First of all I'm quite sure he's not a CDL alias. But if he were, and you outed him you would have violated TER's terms of service, just the way Bia tried to do with me a few weeks ago. She was, as usual, wrong. But in either case if you actually do it you can get banned here.

who left TER did so during the 20 months that TER was dark in the US from April 2018 to December 2019 after FOSTA/SESTA was signed into law, and social media was the only other place to land.  You could not even access TER from a US location, and we had to use a VPN service during those many months.  TER also would not accept reviews for US providers and the photo and ad boards were down for the US.  However, the Discussion boards were kept alive by a small group of providers and mongers, mostly from the US.  

Okay, but serious questions. Obviously you’re right about anyone saying hey everyone this alias name goes with this handle. Straight to banned jail.  

on another thread will quickly answer your questions.  

PS: I think "outed" and "outee" are the same thing. The banned person would be the "outer."
And, yes, it has been caught and people punished. Just not that often. Because few people are as dumb and arrogant as QB.

They usually have something to hide with a "no review policy".

don't give 2 fucks.