Maybe: Unrushed service, Discounts on repeat visits, GFE  
      treatment. What would keep you going back ?

Unrushed, DFK, CBJ, she gets off, GFE - EOM

This GFE thing has been chewed up and spit out a lot over the many boards, but I have returned to my ATF because of the bonding I feel.

She looks great.  A classy lady or a cute sprite, my choice.

Her BBBJ's are very deep and skills so good that I really didn't know that she doesn't like cum in her mouth for over a year!

Her sexual attitude is as though she is hungry for my attention and really having a good time...as though she's greatful for my skills.  Though my performance is laughable for me to think back on, she makes me feel real special.

She is inovative and tries to make every session unique in some way.  Sometimes loving, sometimes kinky, but she has a way of reading the moment.

She never makes a mention of time or $ (and I would never knowingly abuse that), and her phone is off when I'm around.

But the best comment that I can make is that some how she makes me feel like she is in love with me.  I of course know reality, but when I am with her or talking to her, I feel like I have her full devotion.  That keeps me hooked.

except for BBBJ that sounds exactly like Lady Angelique in Portland!

I've been fortunate to find 3 ladies like that.  It's one of the best things about the hobby.  I believe they're my friends.  If it's just my belief, great.  But it sure feels like a reciprocal relationship.  What more could any guy want!
GFE relationships must be cultivated.  The payoff is worth it though.

I enjoy and find that I am more likely to return to the
provider who offers dfk and oral to them and gets off
bbbj is not so important to me bet in my case dfk is a
big issue and I look for that in a provider, there is not
to many willing to do so, so I pretty much keep to those who
do.

"Clicking".  It's chemistry, pure and simple.  Plus, when I genuinely like them as people, and we are comfortable with each other without those "first-time nerves"... that's what makes the second time even better!

Feeling a connection beyond just the sex. Of course the sex has to be good but there are some ladies that may not be quite the hottest looking that I go back to over ones that looked hot but I didn't connect with.

There is one thing that would really lock me in with a lady. If when I arrived to see a her she had a friend with her and they both gave me the full treatment without asking for anything extra. Of course this is pure fantasy, but I can still hope that maybe someday...

Chemistry, good conversation, interesting person, passionate dfk.  The rest flows from there.  IMO, when you have passionate dfk, everything else falls into place.