How discreet and cautious are some of you men truly being..... Lol  
That was SO uncomfortable for me to even read!  
Has anyone else gone through this before?!  

If a girl contacts me. I'm assuming we the providers, are technically the other woman involved. So do you mean why did I lie to his significant other?  
I didn't lie to her at all.... After her five minute venting session I apologized for them both being in the situation they're in. Because I genuinely feel sorry for the woman while I also feel sorry for my former friend . But I 100% do not feel bad for the fact I provide a service and that he reached out to me. So after apologizing I of course reiterated the fact that it takes two as I'm sure this was not the first time she's seen messages from some "other" woman.  
Which is where the question of carelessness and indiscretion on the clients part comes into play. I don't care to know about your other relations when together and definitely do not want it to follow me back to my place of peace afterwards as I'm sure clients wouldn't want that either.  

Some men are dumb enough to share their smart phone (unfortunately the smart phone is smarter than its user), computers, emails, etc.

For what? You weren't sorry about the fact you were fking her husband so why the need for the apology?

Far too many take risks they should not be taking just to see a hooker, and then wonder why the wife finds out. I have heard anything from leaving laptop actually open to the email page whilst drunk, using real phone for this with saved numbers (again left out in the open), having hookers to their house and in their bed (Epic Fail), etc. You can't fix stupid.  
 

I once got a call (at work too!) from the boyfriend of a gal whom I saw and he was not very thrilled with my having seen his girl.  (He got a hold of her cell phone.)

Unless you are claiming that there is no such thing as BSC and vindictive hookers more than willing to ruin a man's life over something as petty as a 7-7 review, and I know that you know better than that.

I tell her something like, "Remember (insert providers name here) that I showed you here ad last week? Well, I am off to have some fun with her. We will be at (location). I will be back at about (estimated time of return). I will call you if anything changes. When I get back I will tell you all the juicy details." Why lie? She tells me about particularly memorable clients and providers she does. I could never pull off the lie so I would never even try.

... that you reminded him that you paid her car payment... and likely his too!  

This is really good advice.  For lots of things.  It often does very little good to admit something on someone else's terms.  

I knew from her boyfriend was a three-time loser, so I said that my family was very tight with the LE in my town (Our next door neighbor was a cop.) and one call from me to them will get him picked up and tossed back into stir.

If this happens again, just ignore.
Inform the ladies of a leak and ignore.

Why get involved? I'm surprised you felt the need to respond to this woman as your response alone is proof of his guilt. You do not owe explanations. You do not get involved. Detachment and discretion are part of your job requirement in this business and why you were hired in the first place.

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