The question has been asked several times, but just turns into a pissing contest or rhetorical debate...Ladies please define what you mean when you post as GFE! Inquiring minds want to know! Maybe we can get on the same page, here & now, with a 'generic' definition??

This is what I do:
- smile and have my smile reach my eyes
- focus on the here and now aka being present
- participate, respond and initiate in the ways I know how
- hold you, cuddle up to you and send you even more of my love and light through my touch afterwards
- be kind, all accepting of who you are and are not and love anyway.

A GFE to me but more pure intimacy.Peeling back the pretense and allowing to be yourself.

I am an affectionate kissable friendly lady..thats what I offer and who I am. The rest just seems to seamlessly fit in.

Do I consider myself a GFE?  Yes

Kisses Haley

Glorious  Followme  Extravaganza



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What are your rates, and where is your website?

My definition...

Make you feel like you are the only one I am interested in! (Because you are!) Run my fingers through your hair. Look into your eyes when you talk to me and when I perform certain acts. Rub your arm, leg, or whatever part in near gently during our conversation. Pay close attention to all you say and engage in a stimulating conversation. Hold and cuddle with you! Understand when no one else seems to. Cater to your needs on every level.

I provide  BFE

Bodacious  Followme  Excursion.


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Personally I don't think GFE is a menu.  The acronym isn't GFM (girlfriend menu).  It's an experience.  I don't think it includes greek, cim, bbbj, cof and all that other good stuff.  I think that falls more under PSE.

My definition of a Girlfriend EXPERIENCE is making the guy feel comfortable.  Not rushing things along.  Going that extra mile to let the guy know there isn't any where else you'd rather be than with him.  I think cuddling and kissing are a must with a girlfriend experience.  Not watching the clock but also be respectful of time to some extent.  I believe it also shouldn't be a "she just laid there" experience.  

I've always considered myself a GFE but some who define GFE by GFM, don't think I am.  Everyone will always have their own opinions on this.  But if GFE included bbbj, then hell, CL has a ton of 200/hr GFE girls.  You might only get a quick pop no conversation, and your time shorted, but hey you got the menu you wanted right??  

Where do I sign???

So it's kinda like I thought...'GFE' as a meaningful acronym is pretty much worthless in and of itself, as far as specific services goes. (Sorry Ben, looks like times have changed-GFE ain't what it used to be!)

So what I get from this is that 'GFE' (nowdays)is more an indication of a type of lady than a 'laundry list' or menu...it's the ladies that either care about their partners enough to create an intimacy (GF) environment or those who are hot, horny & loving it themselves enough that it 'just happens'. Is that right?

So I guess when I'm asking a new prospect "Are you GFE?" I should be asking "Are you full of hormones or just looking to get paid & get it over with? Do you like to kiss with tongue and do you like DATY?" (OK I enjoy a slippery BBBJ too, but I can live without it.) Hopefully not forever though! LOL

Where I run into problems with that is it seems like (especially recently) the girls don't want to even mention anything about services on the phone and won't answer 'that kind' of question any more. Well, sorry ladies but I'm not going to promise to pay you to come over unless I have a strong idea I'm going to get something 'special' for my money. If it's not defined ahead of time it can lead to the 'upseller' or 'destination charge only' or 'sliding scale: NOW-How-much-do-you-want-to-spend' territory.
Not to mention the notorious, oft-referenced "Book of No's"! that only comes up after the envelope has been pssed. And the criteria in reviews is always YMMV in my experience...rates & services that one guy enjoyed may not be offered to me or vice-versa?

So now I'd like to know - What questions CAN I ask you ladies that will get me the answers I need if I'm looking for a "GFE...including my personal wishlist of menu items" (esp if the girl has no website or menu listed online). If the question isn't "Are you GFE?" and you won't answer other more explicit questions...well- then what? TOFTT?

Back to you, ladies...
JP

I'm very much in agreement with Ashlyn.  

I like to lay back with a guy listen to him, run his bath water, rub his arms and be there, I mean really BE THERE, with HIM,  for his time.  It's not all based on kissing for me (and I'm not knocking anybody that likes kissing because there are some things that I may love and the next person may just like or just can't stand at all.)

Although I consider myself somewhere in between GFE and PSE, it depends on the mood BUT I dont advertise GFE because if a guy and I dont click or if he is rushing and non-sensual with less than minty breath, I'm not going to really really want to engage in a kissing session with him. I guess it was originally explained to me that GFE was about kissing.

Maddie

go back and switch my ads lol.  My definition is nothing like that one, and I am GFE, but I am not a REAL girlfriend and all that looking in your eyes stuff, has to go. Unless of course I happen to be somewhere doing something at the time lol.

I provide ALL the acronyms expertly and CBJ is not in my vocabulary, stay the FULL amount of time, offer luxury incalls, beverages, bubblebaths, and am great company and a friend, but I cannot ACT! If I am not intersted on a huge level, I am still going to blow your mind, make a guy feel appreciated and special, but I am not going to make him think we are moving in together lol.

Maybe I am more of a pse, but a gfe for the first 20 minutes lol.

I enjoyed reading your post Joepager.  I actually agree with you on many points.  Most girls will even say I'm not GFE because of my lack of bbbj.  So asking most ladies whether they are GFE or not is still a pretty good indication of what they provide.  

When people ask me, I usually say I am light GFE and explain I don't do any uncovered service, however I love daty and to kiss.  

As far as how to go about asking a lady in depth questions, which I also think is fair for a gentlemen to ask since they are the customer here.  MOST, not all but most, are usually willing to answer any questions you may have after you have been screened.  They screen first for their personal safety which you being such an understanding person, I am sure you can appreciate

I know I get about 6 IMs a day with people out of the blue asking me what I do, how much etc etc.  I try to be cordial and let them know I won't answer those questions without proper screening.  If they refuse to screen then I simply point them to my reviews.  My review tree thing pretty much says it all.  

I love when I get those guys that "can't afford to pay the 20 bucks to read reviews" LOL  Come on now, you can't afford 20 dollars but you are trying to see a lady who can range between 250-400!?!?!