Perhaps you are being too active.

Relax and let her be the aggressive party for a while and see how that goes.

Keep up the good health habits.  Those really help.

You might want to think about adding some ginseng tea to your regimen.  It works for me.

Seven in appearance and eight in performance. That's about all it take for me.

After his advice Ive gotten 2 pops or more on ever session since.

so they must know something about it.

The problem is that regular ginseng out of a bottle tastes so awful that it's hard to stomach.

Recently a tantrika poured me a cup of ginseng tea out of a packet made by a company called Prince of Peace, and it tasted great.

I've made it a part of my nightly ritual.  I think I've noticed a marked improvement in my sexual stamina ever since.  It's been about one year now.

You can buy them on line and they're not that costly.

I am booking my first 3-hour session tommorrow so am hoping for several pops! What is the trick to maximizing them? I already eat very well ( vegetarian ) and drink lots of water to the point my pee is white .. I also get plenty of sleep and exercise.

So to get multi pops is it all about lots of foreplay, i.e oral and kissing etc?  Or is it about the thrusting/penetration , positions etc? My problem is when I start thrusting and "lose wood", it becomes impossible to regain it.

pomegranates, blue berries, cranberries, cumin, ginseng, walnuts and lots of water all if eaten regularly aid in getting and keeping a second erection in short order after the first. Do to some medications I am on before I added these foods to my diet I was a one pop a day or maybe on a good day two kind of guy and now I can easily get two cups in a two hour session. Before adding these things to my diet a second round was not going to happen.

Something that was posted by Avalon Rose some years ago (9/27/05) has always stuck with me.

Her response to the question of what is necessary for multiple pops:

"Is a long enough "reload" period with no stimulation of the male. I have noticed that if you rush the reload time, even if you may have erection, you will not have ejaculation. Granted there are some men who are fortunate enough to know they can do 2, 3, 4 or more in the hr, and they will make sure to get it. What is uncool tho is the "forced" 3rd pop when the second was long coming and yet they pretty much demand you try again and keep u down below knowing full well that they probably won't even get enough blood flow for rnd 3. Thankfully that doesn't happen often. Most are very considerate. Oh, as far as how long you need for reload time, I think it depends on age and physical/cardiovascular fitness (well, and genetics, but you can't gauge that one). I think you should always allow a full 10 minutes (you can cuddle and talk, or enjoy the lady if you like). Then if you go downtown and try "the revival", and "he" is reluctant, give him 5 more minutes. Rinse and repeat. :P"

Not overthinking it and thinking of a 3 hr session as a 3hr sex marathon maybe?

It will only keep you up it does not help for multiple shots.

Viagra can make it impossible to EVER ejaculate, which sucks.  It doesn't work for every gent who takes it, either.  But, Love Unlimited increases sensitivity, making it even easier to achieve explosive results.  Also, it reduces and in some cases, eliminates the refractory period.  Most importantly, it lasts for up to 3 days!  You don't stay hard all that time, it just makes it much easier to go from flaccid to erect.  

Many ladies and gents here at TER can attest to the efficacy of this product, including me.  My husband takes it regularly, and I have recommended it to clients, as well.  I have yet to hear that it didn't work.

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Best of luck to you,

-Rani

I just found this thread, so I don't know if responding will revive it...

I had the excellent fortune of finding a young lady who blessed me with a 5 1/2 hour marathon sex session, including 3 pops!  I have never had any trouble keeping hard before, however, at hour 4, things started to droop!!  I'm meeting with her again in a few weeks.  Is Viagra the best answer to long sessions?