You find your ATF.............do most of you stay EXCLUSIVE with her or continue to drift around still looking.  I stayed this whole year with the same one, just wondering if I am strange or y'all do the same..............

You said you "stayed this whole year with the same one", but you have 2 reviews in May and 1 in June.

I did for a whole year then I moved two months ago 2500 miles and am starting over........its a bummer because it was so good for the last year, knowing what you have found. Was just wondering!!!!!!!!!!!

I saw a few ladies after meeting my ATF but found I was happier just seeing my ATF. After several months of seeing my ATF exclusively I got the feeling she was taking me for granted
(much like a SO does) so I started to "play the field" again.
  I still consider my ATF my ATF. However; I now have several other Favorites that I keep in rotation.

FYI- When your ATF becomes as critical of you as your Ex-wife it is time to re-evaluate your situation.

LTT.

I'm the only hobbyist she sees.  Or she agrees to see me free.

Sheesh!  Let's get real...as strong as I may feel about a provider, the fundamental transaction remains the same: it's sex for money.  It's a hobby.  It's a fantasy.  

The ideal solution:  bring her along.  

So gents, here's a related question:  Have you encountered provider jealousy?  Protests that you've seen someone else? What do you think of them?

Of course its a fantasy Turk, but what I found is everytime I go search out another one, I then get frustrated because she wasn't like the ATF.  So the fact remains, why not stay with the ATF until, like in my case, I had to move to the west coast.  Stay with the fav and you are never dissapointed.......

I've never had a lady say or do anything to my face about it, but there was one lady i was seeing semi regular for awhile who just happen to never be around to answer an email or a phone call if i needed a reference.

Needless to say, getting in touch with her at any other time was always easy and painless.

Don't see her anymore.

take out the second mortgage and buy her an annuity?  I don't mean to sound flip, but if it's for real, then why not move into reality?

Yes I have Turk'.  Unfortunately it was based on money spent on the other provider(s) and not a case of jealousy born of genuine affection.
Sadly again life dictates my mantra..
              "It's All About The Money"

  Cm.

   

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For the city she is in, I only see my ATF because she is the only one I am interested in seeing there.

When I am other places I see other Ladies.

You need to spread it around so that you are not "falling" for these gals... no provider is worth a year of my duckets unless she is some sort of Phenom and I think we are almost out of miracles. If she is your ATF it's likely that you are getting played (YRGP).