It pains me to say this as you are not only my type, but live in my state as well. That said, one bad review won't hurt your reputation if the bulk of your reviews are glowing, in your case however mediocre reviews seem to be rather common and they seem to have a common theme that you just don't seem to be much into it. Are ALL of these guys "Hygiene challenged", or are you the one hard to please?

I wash my ass and brush my teeth. I also do my best to be a pleasant person and seem to get the most out of my dates, but I am NOT about to be admonished into being "the best client I can be"  I am rarely short with waiters, but I damn sure am not going to patronize a restaurant who challenges it's bad reviews by blaming the unsatisfied customers for the bad service he got.

Sorry, as much I want to take your side on this, you come across as much too much of a YMMV provider for me to ever want to take a chance with you. You do have the option of course of posting on your regional board about how bad your customers are and offer that as a reason for your poor reviews, but somehow I just don't see that helping your cause. My advice is step up your game. Houston and Texas in general is chock full of great Asian providers that don't seem to have any problems getting fantastic reviews.

I just checked the Houston P 411 for Asian providers, there are 30 currently listed, most of them priced less than you, I can see where lackluster reviews would be an issue. My only advice would be for you to step up your game. One or two bad reviews can be excused, forty percent of the reviews on your first page give you performance scores of 6 or less. I think you should look inward to the source of your problems and quit blaming the system.

BTW even though I don't live in Houston, I have seen about a third of the Asian women currently listed in your market. I have to say, you do have your work cut out for you, some of those women are gems and almost all of them charge less than you. Yes, I can see how this might be problematic for you. I know this is not the answer you were looking for, but it's the truth.

But one thing is true. reviews are completely one sided. Yes I know. It is by design. The problem is that bad reviews can ruin our livelihood and how we put bread on the table u know.  

I would suggest when someone give us a bad review. To open a channel to challenge it, or at least to give our side of the story and explain why he had a bad experience.  

Not to take it down. But to at least justify why the person had a bad experience. That would be fair. Now for good reviews it wouldn't be necessary.

If you don't like a review you always have the recourse of pleading your case on your regional board. Some times it works, other times it makes the hooker look like a drama queen. A lot of it often has to do with the credibility of the woman vs the credibility of the reviewer. Don't get me wrong, I LIKE drama, and I LOVE train wrecks, but do we really want a constant river of he said/she said arguments over reviews?

There is never going to be a perfect system, not as long as people on both sides lie. but let's use the OP as an example since she put herself out here. Do you really think most guys would discount her last 7/4 review if she claimed the guy stunk? Especially in light of her many other subpar reviews. I don't want it to be open season on reviewers where every guy that gives a below average review has to expect an attack by the provider in return. I know the hookers want a voice, but the unwanted side effects are hardly worth it. TER was NOT designed to be an ad venue for hookers, it was created for guys to look out for each other and be able to warn each other about B&S, ROBs and other unsavory behavior on the part of hookers and as insensitive as it might sound, the guys are the ones paying the freight here, so our interests should come first. When the ladies (except our friend lopaw of course) start paying us we can talk about what's fair.

There are a lot of unfair things to deal with in hooker/john dealings, but there are always things that seem unfair in any business dealings. It's not a perfect system, but TER managed to become the industry standard for a reason, I don't see them changing any time soon. and this thread is a perfect example of why they shouldn't, I bet the OP blames the guy for every lackluster review she gets. Why should we have to suffer through the same old story every time she gets a bad review. Lets face it, just like there are some whiny johns, there are also some whiny hookers. They already have a voice, let's not give them a megaphone.

I get it trust me. It's not a complain. I'm like u in the sense that this is how Ter works and there's other sites that work different. And if one doesn't like it well, they can leave. I get it. But there's a difference between a fair review, and a mean spirited one. Do t u agree?

Your a beautiful woman by your pictures.   Price is determined by your market.    Your not talking price.     Gambler's right that one asshole won't hurt your rating's .    I note on your review you don't offer some services.   That hurts you some.    The large number of good ratings and then a group of bad ratings at the end tells me you are burnt out and need a vacation.       Pretty girl you can visit me in Ga. for some R&R until you get rested .   Lol.   Good luck.

I don't see a thing mean spirited about any of her reviews, do you?  

and no fair saying that "other" reviews of "other" women are mean spirited. Feel free to start a new thread about them and I will be happy to discuss them based on their own merits. This little rant by a rather entitled and unhappy women needs to stand on it's own merits as well, or lack thereof.

I know you want to advocate for the women here, but it is intellectually dishonest to deflect from the case at hand when this woman clearly is a very YMMV and her reviews seem quite fair to me. If as you say there are so many mean spirited and unfair reviews, (and yes, I agree it's true) let's start a thread based on one of them and I am sure you will find me singing a very different tune.

I think you have proven the case against you without me saying another word.

Of course what are the chances of me not saying another word?

It really is a shame that such a pretty girl has such a shitty attitude and such a superior attitude about women of her own ethnicity. I don't consider you wise or mature, quite the contrary, you sound bitter and quite unhappy about what you do. Maybe you should retire sooner rather than later?

and lastly, I know several of the women that you speak of quite well and their English is just fine. Not to mention they speak it with this superior attitude you seem to have acquired. Please do us all a favor and simply find another way to make a living if this one makes you so unhappy, but thank you for proving to any one with an ounce of objectivity that you deserve every substandard review you have received and why allowing BSC hookers to dispute every bad review they get is such a bad idea that has been rejected every time it has come up for debate. Congratulations, you have just made your oppositions case with your own bitter attitude, good job.

De-list yourself. Or not.

But please stop crying as you have yourself to blame here sweetie.

Your last 5 reviews in a row have been spotty.

Your early reviews mean very little to me at this point. I like for trends and you are trending downward.

Instead of blaming a John, or TER or global warming for your mediocre reviews lately, take ownership and figure out what YOU can do to improve your service.

That's what a professional would do.

END OF MESSAGE

Thank you for telling us all your not "that kind."

Tommorrow I am going to nail a college girl for the majority of my day. She is graduating in May and plans on leaving the biz. But she doesn't look down on the hookers that want to stay.  

You could learn from her and that type of sweet, non judgmental attitude.

There is a reason your reviews hit the skids and I think it's apparent for all to see.

Your attitude sucks!

and after you posting this publicl they may very well do just that.

Sorry, I can't recommend other, competing review sites on a TER discussion board. Unlike you, I prefer to follow the rules here and keep my posting privileges.  

You are more than free to contact me directly, but you won't find me any more sympathetic to your self inflicted plight in private than I've been in public.

Unlike gaga. I don't think that automatically disqualifies you from posting. I don't know why he would say that. But yeah it sounds like you are aporoaching this the wrong way. Bury a bad review with good ones. Don't complain about one bad one.  

A while ago I had a review where the person stated that I looked masculine. He kept highlighting this point throughout he review. To him I was very boyish... It did hurt. He still described my services as advertised. I hated the fucking review. But guess what. Not everyone is gonna like me, and I won't like everyone that comes to see me. But to bother trying to take down reviews or have them hanged. That seems more time consuming and irritating that just get over it and move on.

Listen to the good advice and move on.

....but your email correspondence was really bad. I attributed it to your tour/travel. The memory of that poor email communication stopped me from trying to re-book your latest visit here to SoCal.  
 
Hopefully that issue has been resolved now?

"If a provider has a no review policy in any form she is automatically de-listed.  

Why should a provider who doesn't want reviews be utilizing a review site to promote herself?
Anyway it is not what gaga thinks. He was actually quoting TER policy.

Scarlett asked me to recommend other review sites which is most definitely against TER rules and would get ME thrown off the board, not her.

As for her getting delisted, PS is 100% correct as usual. TER makes the rules, not me and that has been their longstanding policy.

But the more she posts. The more aggravating it is to read how she has a no review policy, and she's gonna retire, and she's very part time. We don't care on which basis she does this or what are her plans for the future. If one review bring her to the ledge. Yeah.... Try something else. This hobby isn't for the faint hearted. That goes both ways.

Considering you got one. You sound as bad as some of the sappy Johns.

What exactly do you expect to find in an acceptable email.

 
I can't find too much fault with your process, as I usually look for reasons not to do something, other than reason to.

So that's that.... It's good to know TER enforces their policy.