Suggestion and Policy
Do you think you should be making this point?
You have given ten women a score of 6 or lower on ten occasions for her looks. So please spare us ripping anyone else's standards here when you routinely hurt women with your low scores.
I think this site is Great but can be the best with a few changes. The main things I see so far that I wish were different. I'll start the number sequence and please add to it if you feel you have a good, legitimate one to add.
1. Should be able to make notes for each client/provider.
2. Rating/Scoring (A provider shouldn't be limited to only a 7 if she doesn't do certain things, they should be rated on what they provide as advertised)
3. A member shouldn't be able to leave a review until they've been a Paid Active member for a certain period of time 30-90 days. Maybe another way to make sure the legitimacy of said person.
OK so what will someone think of for #4?
1. We already can make notes about providers under "my favorites".
2. Although many would agree the scoring system should change, do you really think a girl should be able to get a 10 if she only gives a HJ and nothing else?
3. Writing reviews gives guys free 15 days membership and the whole point of it is to encourage the database to constantly get new reviews and making guys wait 30-90 days to partake in something would dissuade them right off the bat from writing reviews. What makes you think they would be any more "legitimate" after waiting a month or so?
The point of this thread was to get ideas of what other members thought would make TER better, not explaining why the ideas someone does have are invaid.
I think CIM/COF should be included as one of the services that CAN add a score above 7. I think alot of guys would consider that service as important as Really Bi.
Just my 5 cents (inflation)
I think I liked TER better with moderators. I do understand that there was problems but the mod I dealt with was fair and helped govern the village and foster a healthy environment
I think the appearance is so wrong cause I like MILFS and you cant usually rate a milf as a model. so she gets like an 8. But I do search out 8s and see if they fit my desire.
But alas those things will not happen. But it is an opinion.
Why can't you rate a MILF as model material? That makes no sense whatsoever.
You CAN rate a woman's looks anyway you want to, but around here you are expected to conform your ratings to the standards set down by Hollywood, various Beauty Pageants, and the average adolescent teenage boy. A woman can't possibly be a "10" if she is more than 5 pounds "overweight" or does not significantly resemble any of the top 10 supermodel or TV/Movie eye candy actresses of the moment.
We say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", but come on.... we don't MEAN it, are you kidding me?
You have given ten women a score of 6 or lower on ten occasions for her looks. So please spare us ripping anyone else's standards here when you routinely hurt women with your low scores.
Really? Are you going to stalk me now and try to shoot down everything i say?
My reviews are almost entirely TOFTT reviews. If I rate a woman a 5 in looks, it's because I think she was "plain" and has nothing to do with the "Hollywood" standard I was talking about. Some of the women that I have rated 7, 8, or 9 are women who are over 45 or over weight, but I find them very attractive, so I rated them accordingly. Go ahead and visit any one of those women, and then correct my subjective rating of their looks, if it's that important to you.
I don't rate women based on the standard that I am ripping, and I don't rate women to hurt them, I rate them to try to be accurate for the next guy who reads my review.
And you chucked an absolute hissing fit like a 4 year old with cussing and everything else when someone had the audacity to challenge your view point on the GD board or did you forget that already? Get used to people challenging you dude. its a part of life. Unless your points are so weak they cant stand up to any scrutiny at all. And if you don't understand how giving a woman a 6 or a 5 or a 2, like you have, hurts them....well...take your head out ur butt and buy a clue genius.
Maybe taking away the penalties for not being into more than one guy or not being bi. That's like judging me cause I'm not bi . Everyone has their own tastes if a lady just isn't in to certain things that's her choice. As long as she delivers what she advertises. If a lady isn't into something I'm looking for just won't go se her. That's not negative or bad choice it's free market at its best. Grading should be on delivered as promises, as for looks don't know how to change that beauty's in the eye of the beholder. Some guys like BBW some like skinny chic and some like red headed midgets with big feet, everyone's got different tastes. My 10 might be another guys 6 maybe more emphasis on are pics accurate.
the 2 cents, 5cents etc... I'm not one to get into a bunch of bs. I merely was trying to start a thread and hopefully get some true thoughts of members who really do care, remember this is "Our Playground" so why not tweak it the best we can that suites everyone correctly. I know I know sometimes it is what it is but maybe enough members agree on something then TER will look at it seriously. There really should be more catergories & services offered then Rate a provider on what she offers!
P.S. I'm bi ...bi the way gentlemen but I do not have another woman that I can offer as a two girl secession at this time and I'm very picky about the woman that will join me so I do not offer that at this time. I guess I need to change my TER profile and see what happens.
...we debate here. We go back and forth. Someone makes suggestions, others point out why those suggestions may or may not work. No big deal.
I think we are on the same page more emphasis on deliver as advertised versus a penalty for things that are not offered. The way it is now is like bitching because you're auto mechanic won't fix you're dishwasher. Did you say Bi? Dang now that's hot!! Keep me posted!!
will do sweetie
How about a section describing labia, and clitoris
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