I'm on my way to Portland and wanted to try out the local flavor.  I figured the local board would be a good place to start but its pretty dead.  I tried to arrange a meeting in advance but the girls I called said to call when I arrive.  I don't want to end up in a hotel spanking the monkey because I waited too long to set something up.  

Is this the norm?

HEY IT'S ME SHAYLA.  YOU WROTE ABOUT MY SITE!  WRITE ME AND WE CAN SET SOMETHING UP FOR ANY DAY AND TIME YOU WANT!!!
SORRY IF I TOLD YOU TO CALL WHEN YOU GOT HERE....LET ME KNOW IT'S YOU AND WE CAN SET IT UP NOW!   ~SHAYLA