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Re:Question for the Hobbyist
greeneyes98104 1337 reads
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Here’s a classic don’t ask don’t tell question..  "Excuse me Miss, was I the first today or the fifth?"  It just draws a real icky picture.  It’s up to the lady how many men she may see in one day.  And frankly I don’t think it makes much difference to her service as long as she’s bathed, takes a break and is ready for the next show.

Desiree, you ask the question "…how many girls do we see?"  Well, in my adult entertainment career, LOTS!!!  But in just one day?  I think my record is only three.
Understand that some of the guys may have health concerns or that a lady may not be up to a full day of work and might be too tired towards the end of the day.

This is not necessarily true.
Guys don’t worry about it.  Be assured that the ladies care as much about safety as they do about reputation, maybe more.  If she’s experienced you’ll have a good time regardless of her schedule.
But I’m sticking with my first statement about a lady’s daily schedule.
"Don’t ask, don’t tell"  Just have a good time.

The other question,"…(Do you) see all of the newest talent" to your area…Or those who travel." and "Do you have regulars?"

I’ve personally spoken with many hobbyists and found that men who shop via the Internet see many different ladies.  While those who hunt for their entertainment through the papers will stick to the best they can find and make her a regular.  Traveling entertainers tend to be a little tough to schedule.  Their time is limited and they may have to cancel the entire trip at a moments notice.  If you’re the kind of guy that only wants to see out of towner’s then be prepared for some lonely nights.
 
Thanks Desiree

Take care and ride safe.

Desiree1321 reads

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I have been reading the boards a lot lately, and I have noticed a few questions regarding how many clients a lady will see in a day. I have a question for the hobbyist..
How many girls do you see? Are yo the type to want to see all of the newest "talent" to your area?

Do you stick to traveling ladies or do you have a regular girl/s?

Desiree of Portland wants to know.

Zolya1358 reads

I have one ATF that I prefer to see on a monthly bases. I do see other ladies from time to time, but I have found that by focusing my energies on this one lady, I am able to develop a 'special relationship' with her that allows us to better understand our needs and desires. I have also found that this lady feels more comfortable with me and thus is able to be herself around me and share more about herself. I am able to share gifts with her(red, white or black)that only she knows the meaning behind.

Variety is the spice of life and this hobby is like being a kid in a candy. You have so much to choose from that you want to sample all of the special treats (at lease the ones with the positive reviews). There are some incredibly beautiful ladies in this hobby and you can't help but want to sample their wares.

How about you Desiree. Do you prefer to see a gentleman who is only interested in seeing you? Or would you prefer gentlemen who are more experienced? I know its only a business for you, but do you ever get jealous went you see a review of a lady posted by a long time gentleman friend of yours? And if you know that a hobbiest has an 'exclusive' relationship with you, do you treat that gentleman differently as compared to someone you see once or twice a year?

Thanks for the question, Desi.

Zolya

I see a girl about every other week.  At this point they have all been new.  Some girls travel here, others are local.  There are a few I seen that I will attempt to repeat.  I think I am looking for 3 or 4 that I can connect with and see on a regular basis for 75% of my time.  The other 25% will be dedicated to exploring.

Here’s a classic don’t ask don’t tell question..  "Excuse me Miss, was I the first today or the fifth?"  It just draws a real icky picture.  It’s up to the lady how many men she may see in one day.  And frankly I don’t think it makes much difference to her service as long as she’s bathed, takes a break and is ready for the next show.

Desiree, you ask the question "…how many girls do we see?"  Well, in my adult entertainment career, LOTS!!!  But in just one day?  I think my record is only three.
Understand that some of the guys may have health concerns or that a lady may not be up to a full day of work and might be too tired towards the end of the day.

This is not necessarily true.
Guys don’t worry about it.  Be assured that the ladies care as much about safety as they do about reputation, maybe more.  If she’s experienced you’ll have a good time regardless of her schedule.
But I’m sticking with my first statement about a lady’s daily schedule.
"Don’t ask, don’t tell"  Just have a good time.

The other question,"…(Do you) see all of the newest talent" to your area…Or those who travel." and "Do you have regulars?"

I’ve personally spoken with many hobbyists and found that men who shop via the Internet see many different ladies.  While those who hunt for their entertainment through the papers will stick to the best they can find and make her a regular.  Traveling entertainers tend to be a little tough to schedule.  Their time is limited and they may have to cancel the entire trip at a moments notice.  If you’re the kind of guy that only wants to see out of towner’s then be prepared for some lonely nights.
 
Thanks Desiree

Take care and ride safe.

Desiree1337 reads

Thank you guys for responding.

I enjoyed reading what you have to say.


It seems that there are many reasons and meny methods to this form of entertainment.

I generally prefer to have a solid base of regualars.  I do see men that travel, and some of them only once or twice a year.  

I will not get jealous if I see a refiew posted by one of my potrons, although I do read it to see if he is being naughty.

If I have a client that I hear is doing things I would not do, I will no longer visit with him. Safety is my first concern.

Thank again,

Desiree


Zolya1147 reads

Thanks for the feedback.

To find out the whole story on my status with TER please go to my website, where all the related emails and responses both from myself and my cliets is posted.  For the record I am no longer allowed to post or respond to the childish post from DAVID (i.e STAFF) in order to defend myself.. Don't you think it odd the are using me to promote themselves after removing my reviews and stating but I can still post to their board?  You figure it out and go to a board that doesn't manipulate it's supporters.  Take care all.

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-- Modified on 3/14/2002 1:27:15 PM

...you removed earlier comments about the type of clients you prefer. Wise move, no reason to alienate potential customers. LOL.  Better to do your screening in private.

As for me, my review history pretty much tells it all.  I prefer new adventures, rarely do I see a provider more than once.  On a few occasions I've repeated, but the most I've seen one provider is four times.  I hobby about once a month, sometimes more, sometimes less.  I usually patronize local women, but if a travelling SP catches my fancy, and is well reviewed, I will have a go.  Although I must say, most providers travelling here from major cities tend to ask too much for my budget, most want $300/hr. I try to ride for CC whenever possible. I see civilians from chat from time to time as well, these encounters run the gamut.  Some evolve into several month affairs, while others are "share one drink then run like hell".

As for more than one SP in a day, I've never done that, other than a doubles session.  Frankly, after two or the occasional three popper, I couldn't realistically rally for another session the same day, the drive is just no longer there, even if the funds were.

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