Lately I have been asked by several clients if I would summit them for the white list in order to white list I need their handle and e-mail address, I know some TER gents prefer to keep their handle private and do not want the providere to know who wrote their review. I do understand why as I have heard stories of providers getting upset with a review and then attacking the hobbiest....I think it is a wonderful concept to have a place to put those clients that you really enjoy and pass that info on to the providers via the white list...I was wondering how many providers are using the white list and if so are they still doing reference checks?Or both? I am curious as to to how the hobbiest feel about being white listed .Another question for the hobbiest, after a review is posted do you mind if the provider PMS you with her input or a nice thank you for taking the time and effort to write the review? In order to view you on the white list I do need your handle or e-mail  when you make contact in order for this system to work please let me know your thoughts...Hope everyone has a beautiful day.Victoria  

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Great idea re: white listing and I know I would gladly give up some anonymity if he helped with the screening process for both sides.

I use my White List referrals for verification along with my Date-Check verifications.  If a provider uses some other form of verification, I don't offer up my id until the session is over.  

That way I know what the review is going to be and if she didn't give a good session and that is the review I am going to write, she doesn't know who I am.  On the other hand, if it was a good session, I always give my id and ask kindly that if they like the review I write, if they will kindly give me a White List referral.

Unfortunately, not that many ladies seem to know what the White List is or how to use it.  A lot of ladies mistakenly think you have to be a VIP to use it.  Still other ladies are signed up as members of TER, but not as providers, and they can't use the White List for that reason.

I have tried to educate ladies about how to use the White List and how valuable it can be, but not many have ended up figuring it out, which is too bad.

I have also tried to get a number of ladies on Date-Check, without very much success.  I sometimes get the feeling that a lot of ladies do this kind of half-assed and are really missing out on a lot of opportunities because of it.

I just try to be the best person I can and help as many people to have as much success as I can.  If they take my advice and help, great.  If not, it is their loss not mine.

As far as follow up, I love it!  A have returned home on a few occassions and had an e-card or email waiting for me thanking me for a great session.  It really gives me a good feeling inside and makes me feel like I did my job in helping the lady have as nice a time as I did.

Victoria, you are a beautiful and classy lady.  If you ever make it to DC, PM me and let me know.  I would be honored to have you as a referral on my White List, and just know that I am more than willing to earn that referral...LOL.

I think, White list is a very good idea generally, but in particular, I feel very hesitant to admit I have seen someone, who wrote a review on me.

Reviews  are considered  to be just ‘essay’, a made up stories and they don’t put a provider in legal trouble by themselves.
Now, if a review was written on me, and then I submitted the reviewer into White list, admitting, I have seen the person, and technically admitting, that all the details in his review are truth, does not it create a situation, when both provider and hobbyist are compromised?

I might be wrong, please correct me, if I am.

Alana.



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I do not use the Whitelist as I really distain being public about those I see. I even discourage reviews as I feel for me there are no longer necessary. I have more than enough to prove I am not LE or a rip off.

If a gentleman gives me his Date-Check id or let's me know he is whitelisted, I still contact at least one of the ladies on his list personally. I like to have a little more insight. Helps me prepare something special and unique for that gentleman.

I must say I never looked at it that way, but I still think the white list is a great tool to use with provivder references if you aree to the point where LE is checking your reviews for legal reasons you already have a serious problem and the whitelist  will not make a big difference just my opinion